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I Love You Keep Going with George Haas — 321 episodes

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1

Parenting Best-Practices to Raise Securely Attached Children

2

IPF vs. IFS: The Difference Between the Two Within an Attachment Repair Lens

3

Grounding in Uncertainty: Meditation for Collective Anxiety

4

Authoritarianism and Attachment Theory: How Hierarchical Submission Works with Insecure Attachment Strategies

5

The Attempt at Approval and Connection

6

Authenticity Over Approval: The Path from Pretense to Presence

7

The Attached Society: How Collective Insecurity Fuels Polarization

8

Conflict Resolution and Attachment

9

New Year's Resolutions are Dissolving. Now what?

10

The Art of Staying With: Building Tolerance for Vulnerability

11

When to stay in and when to leave relationships?

12

When Love Feels Foreign: Repatterning the Body to Receive Care

13

Boundaries Without Walls: The Middle Way of Connection

14

Safety Before Insight: How to go Deeper in Your Meditation Practice

15

Reflecting Without Regret: Letting the Past Year Be What It Was

16

Intention, Not Resolution: Setting Attachment-Informed Goals for the New Year

17

Parenting and Intergenerational Repair

18

Attachment & Spiritual Bypassing

19

Anxious Preoccupied Attachment: Play As the Portal for Attachment Repair

20

Where Metta practice and Attachment Repair meet

21

Repairing Through Relationship

22

Getting Your Needs Met: How does each attachment strategy navigate needs?

23

The Earthquake of Abandonment Terror: How Disorganized People Experience This (and How to Overcome It)

24

The Earthquake of Abandonment Terror: How Preoccupied People Experience This (and How to Overcome It)

25

The Earthquake of Abandonment Terror: How Dismissing People Experience This (and How to Overcome It)

26

Attachment in Spiritual Practice: Transference, Projection & the Teacher Relationship

27

Working with Disorganized Attachment: The Push-Pull Cycle

28

How Avoidantly Attached People Experience Intimacy

29

Attachment and Dependency: What’s the Difference?

30

Inner Child Work with the Mettagroup Method

31

When Only One Person in a Relationship Does Attachment Work

32

How Early Childhood Experiences Affect Authenticity

33

Getting to the Root of Authenticity

34

Signs of Attachment Disturbance & How to Spot Them

35

Origin Story: How did the Mettagroup Method come to be?

36

How to Navigate Conflict and Difficult People: An Attachment Theory Perspective

37

How to Actually Be 'Yourself'

38

Hypervigilance and Attachment Theory

39

The Glow: How to Know When Your Attachment Disturbance is Choosing Romantic Partners

40

How to Identify and Heal from Emotional Enmeshment: An Attachment Theory Perspective

41

The Daily Practice: Earning Secure Attachment

42

What Role Do Relationships Play In Healing Attachment Wounds?

43

How does Attachment Style Change Over Time?

44

How to Remap Your Native Attachment Conditioning (and Why It's More Important Now than Ever to Prevent Or Move Beyond Freeze Mode)

45

An Attachment Perspective: How to Navigate Rejection Sensitivity

46

An Attachment Perspective: How to End Perfectionism + Validation-Seeking Behavior

47

How to Foster Secure Attachment in Children (Even If You Weren’t Raised Securely)

48

How to Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Partners

49

Attachment Healing Practices: Meditative Tools to Feel Safe in Relationships

50

How Ideal Parent-Figure Protocol Works

51

Tips for Emotionally Regulating During Chaotic Times

52

Importance of a Secure Base For Exploration

53

How to Navigate Fear of Abandonment in Romantic Relationships

54

Earned Security and Leadership

55

How to Improve Collaboration Skills with Colleagues + Clients

56

The Impact of Attachment Disturbances on Career or Professional Relationships

57

What Changes When You Earn Security?

58

What Causes A Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style?

59

The Origins Of Preoccupied Attachment

60

The Importance of Identifying Your Attachment Style

61

Developing a Secure Base for Exploration

62

Main Signs of an Attachment Disturbance

63

Attachment Healing and Family Dynamics

64

The Tsunami of Terrible Sadness

65

The Earthquake of Abandonment Terror

66

The Activation of the Creative Self

67

Preoccupied People and Exploration

68

The Difference Between Self Regulation and Exploration

69

Should I stay or should I go?

70

5 Reasons to Finally Heal Your Attachment

71

You weren't encouraged to explore in early development. Now what? Part 2.

72

You weren't encouraged to explore in early development. Now what? Part 1.

73

How to Know if You’re Being Too Needy

74

When 'having it all' feels empty. What gives? Pt. 2

75

When 'having it all' feels empty. What gives? Pt. 1

76

The Dangers Of Rushing Into A Relationship

77

Attachment in the Workplace

78

The Earthquake and The Tsunami (On Abandonment and Terrible Sadness)

79

Cognitive vs Procedural Practice

80

How To Be In A Secure Functioning Relationship

81

Demystifying Craving: How to Skillfully Address it When it Arises

82

Difficult Interpersonal Relationships

83

Negative Persistent Emotions in the Addiction Process

84

Live Talk: George at Sunday Sangha

85

Stress, Anger & Sadness in the Addiction Process

86

Craving & Urge in the Addiction Process

87

Beyond Harm Reduction and Abstinence: How to Access the Next Level of Addiction Recovery

88

Addiction and Relapse Prevention

89

Exploration

90

Terminally Unique: Is AI the Greatest Gift or Biggest Threat to Authenticity?

91

What Stalls Your Exploration?

92

Collapsing Time: From Decades of Seeking Support, to Earned Secure Attachment within 3 Years (George Haas’ story)

93

What To Do When Your Mother Doesn't Like You

94

On The Entry To The Path Of Mediation

95

Enlightenment

96

Genocide and Nuclear War

97

Householder Practice

98

The Nature Of Forming Reality

99

Finding Meaning In Exploration

100

Authenticity

101

What Happens When Only One Person In the Couple Does the Attachment Work?

102

Setting A Resolution For Authenticity

103

Reflecting On The Year In Practice

104

Secure Relationships With Family

105

Hopefulness vs. Hopelessness

106

Heaven or Reincarnation... Dealer's Choice

107

Buddhist Faith

108

The Self Experience

109

Dating Like A Secure Person Part 2

110

Non-Regulating Relationships

111

Dating Like A Secure Person

112

Mindstates Part 2

113

Mindstates

114

What To Expect From Practice

115

Intentional Positivity

116

Dunbar's Research

117

Patterns Of Secure Functioning Relationships

118

Life With And Without Regulators Part 2

119

Life With And Without Regulators Part 1

120

Collaborative Relationships

121

Money & Power vs. Community (Archive)

122

Intro To Attachment Theory (Archive)

123

Finding Peace With Self (Archive)

124

Attachment Repairs

125

Meditation x Addiction

126

Attachment

127

Separation

128

Loss

129

AI & ChatGPT

130

Intentional Positivity

131

Attachment Repair Part 2

132

Attachment Repair Part 1

133

The Attachment Exploration and Collaboration Systems

134

The Divine Abodes as Concentration Practice

135

84 Meditations

136

Punch Outs

137

Attachment vs Non-Attachment

138

Mary Main

139

Resilience

140

Year End Wrap-Up

141

Emotional Regulation in Relation to Mentalizing

142

Mentalizing Part 2

143

Mentalizing From an Applied Perspective

144

How Practice Develops

145

Conditioning Part 2

146

Conditioning

147

Attachment View Through a Buddhist Lens Part 2

148

Attachment View Through a Buddhist Lens

149

An Attachment Perspective

150

Happiness

151

United Nations Sustainability Goals

152

James Webb Space Telescope

153

Meditation x Attachment Continued

154

Meditation and Attachment

155

Possible Solutions to the Body Politic

156

Money and Power vs. Community

157

Roe v. Wade

158

Meditation x Attachment Level 1 (Part 2)

159

Meditation x Attachment Level 1 Intro

160

Peace for the Sense of Self

161

Finding Peace With Self

162

Finding Equanimity

163

Metta for Mentalizing

164

Basic Mentalizing

165

Advanced Mentalizing Continued

166

Advanced Mentalizing Part 4

167

Advanced Mentalizing Part 3

168

Advanced Mentalizing Part 2

169

Advanced Mentalizing

170

Introduction to Attachment Theory

171

Preliminary Practices

172

Progress of Insight - All the Way to Enlightenment

173

Arising and Passing

174

The Insight Way of Practicing Continued

175

The Entry into the Insight Way of Practicing

176

Metta Vipassana and the Organization of Practice

177

Metta for Friends and Family

178

Metta Favorite: Compassion for Self

179

Metta Favorite: The Dhammas

180

Metta Favorite: Navigating Attachment Style and Primary Relationships

181

Why We Practice

182

Ordanariness

183

Metta Vipassana

184

View

185

Conditions

186

Exploring for Meaningfulness Part Three

187

Exploration for Meaningfulness Part 2

188

Exploration for Meaningfulness

189

Brahma Viharas: All Together

190

Brahma Vihara: Equanimity Practice

191

Brahma Vihara: Sympathetic Joy

192

Brahma Vihara: Compassion Practice

193

Brahma Vihara

194

Path of Enlightenment: Stages Eleven through Sixteen

195

Path of Enlightenment - Stage 9 and Stage 10

196

Path of Enlightenment - Stage Six, Seven, Eight - The Miseries

197

Path of Enlightenment - Stage Five - Dissolution

198

Path of Enlightenment - Stage Four - Arising and Passing

199

Path of Enlightenment - Stage Three - Part 1

200

The Path of Enlightenment - Stage Two - Part Two

201

The Path of Enlightenment - Stage Two - Part One

202

The Path of Enlightenment - Stage One

203

The Path to Enlightenment

204

Attachment Conditioning

205

Emotional Regulation as Preliminary Practice

206

The End Goal of Practice

207

Organizing Your Practice

208

Compassion for All Sentient Beings

209

Compassion for Difficult People

210

Compassion for Neutral Person

211

Compassion for Friends and Family

212

Compassion for All Sentient Beings

213

Compassion Practice for Difficult People

214

Compassion Practice for Neutral Person

215

Compassion Practice for Friends and Family

216

Compassion Practice for a Close Person

217

Compassion Practice for Self

218

Compassion Practice

219

Checking Your Reality (Tajjapannatti) - Part 2

220

Checking Your Reality (Tajjapannatti)

221

Organizing Your Practice

222

Home for the Holidays

223

Metta Vipassana Retreat Practice

224

The History of Addiction Part 2

225

The History of Addiction

226

Special Reading: "The Lower Manhattan Dormitory Effect"

227

Examining the Self and the World

228

The Three Marks of Existence

229

Vipassana Meditation - Focus In/Focus Out

230

Vipassana Meditation & The Sensory Experience

231

Compassion for All Sentient Beings

232

Compassion for Difficult People

233

Compassion fro Friends and Family

234

The Dhammas

235

The Fourth Foundation of Mindfulness

236

Mind: The Sixth Sense

237

Deeper Meditation for Householders

238

The Ideal Parent Figure (IPF) Protocol

239

Feeling Tones Part 2

240

Feeling Tones

241

The Satipatthana Sutta - Part 2

242

The Satipatthana Sutta

243

Metta Practice for Difficult People

244

Sitting Into Sadness (Metta for Friends and Family)

245

Dissolution (The 5th Stage of Insight)

246

Racism in America: A Buddhist Response

247

Knowledge of Arising and Passing

248

Metta For Close People

249

Can You See the Forest for the Trees?

250

Three Marks of Existence

251

Discerning Conditionality

252

The Second Stage of Insight

253

Metta Practice for Self

254

What Are We Looking For When We Meditate

255

Collaborative Relationships

256

Early Care and Attachment Conditioning

257

Cultivating Authentic Connections

258

Metta Practice

259

Developing Automatic Compassion

260

Mentalizing

261

Navigating Attachment Style and Primary Relationships

262

Coupling for Single People

263

Early Childhood Attachment and the Buddhist Path

264

Understanding Attachment Conditioning

265

The Ideal Parent Figure Protocol Part Two

266

The Ideal Parent Figure Protocol

267

Exploration! Meditation x Entrepreneurship

268

Attachment and Enlightenment

269

The Mind-Body Connection

270

Getting Started with The Meaningful Life

271

Meditation Interventions for Addiction

272

Mind States and Spiritual Development

273

Metta-Vipassana Meditation and Psychological Attachment

274

Entering Metta Jhana

275

Keeping Your New Year's Resolutions

276

The Ten Fetters

277

The Six Senses

278

The Five Aggregates

279

The Five Hindrances

280

Worldly and Unworldly Pleasure/Displeasure

281

Wise and Unwise Attention

282

Realizing Mind

283

Mind States

284

Pleasure and Displeasure

285

Contemplation of Feeling

286

Clear Comprehension

287

How to Note General Activities

288

How to Observe Thought

289

The Four Primary Material Elements

290

Contemplation of the Body

291

Sixfold Equanimity

292

Sense Experience Without Implosion

293

The Arising and Nonarising of Mental Defilements

294

Learning and Logical Thought

295

The Case of Seeing

296

Five Kinds of Phenomena

297

The Development of Mindfulness

298

Lessons to Learn from Those Who Take the Vehicle of Tranquility to Enlightenment

299

Inferential Insight: Knowledge by Comprehension

300

Should One Meditate on Past, Present or Future?

301

Appropriate Objects for Meditation

302

The Two Meanings of Activity

303

Metta Jhana and Attachment

304

Hearsay and Such

305

What Is Reality?

306

States of One-Pointedness

307

The Practice of Generosity (Special Episode)

308

The Dangers of the Lower Realms (and more!)

309

Overcoming the Hindrances (Talk & Meditation)

310

Hindrances of Enlightenment

311

Enlightenment for Householders

312

Tranquility to Enlightenment

313

Insight to Enlightenment

314

Purification of Mind Part 2

315

Purification of Mind Part 1

316

Purifying Conduct with Meditation

317

Purification of Conduct for Laity Part 2

318

Purification of Conduct for Laity Part 1

319

Purification of Conduct for Monks

320

Manual of Insight: Introduction

321

Introduction