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The Sex After Kids Podcast — 86 episodes

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1

Why Women Shut Down Sexually — It’s Not What You Think

2

Why S*x After Kids Feels Awkward Sometimes (And Why That’s Normal)

3

The 4 Traps Keeping Good Men Stuck in S*xless Marriages After Kids

4

You’re Not “Low Libido” — You’re Over-Needed After Kids

5

5 Things Killing Your S*x Life After Kids (That Have Nothing to Do With S*x)

6

Why Therapy Didn’t Fix Your Sex Life (And What Actually Will)

7

What Actually Changes When You Fix Your Sex Life (It’s Not What You Think)

8

Why Couples Stop Having Sex After Kids (And How to Fix It)

9

What Couples with Great Sex Lives Do Differently

10

Why am I avoiding sex after kids?

11

The Silent Reversal: When You're the One Wanting More (And He Doesn't)

12

It's Not Your Libido—It's Your Relationship to Pleasure (Why Desire Disappears)

13

The Myth of Natural Sex: Why Great Sex Is Actually a Social Skill

14

The Inner Critic Ruining Your Sex Life

15

How to Rebuild Sexual Desire: The Positive Feedback Loop of Great Sex

16

[RETRO] Ready for More Fun, Play, and Connection? An Invitation to My Signature Program!

17

[RETRO EPISODE] 5 Ways Shitty Sex-ed is Messing With Your Sex Life Post Kids

18

Stop Fumbling in the Dark: Sex After Kids & Perimenopause (Low Desire, Arousal Changes & Intimacy After Kids)

19

How to Want Sex Again in Perimenopause — Without Forcing Yourself

20

What Really Changes "Down There" After Childbirth and Menopause

21

Stop Being Quiet in Bed — It's Weird (Here's Why Perfection Kills Pleasure)

22

You're Secretly Sabotaging Your Sex Life (And You Don't Even Know It)

23

Season Preview: Make 2026 Your Best Year Together

24

When Sex Brings Up Shutdown, Tears, or Rushing, What's Actually Happening

25

Why You Feel Unchosen, Unsexy, and Alone (Even in a Good Relationship)

26

Fair Play, Real Life: How We Manage the Mental Load as a Couple

27

How to Talk About the Mental Load Without Starting a Fight

28

Mental Load 101: Why You're Fighting More... and Having Sex Less

29

Why Porn Feels Easier Than Intimacy (And What It's Really Costing You)

30

"Not Tonight" Isn't the Problem — Your Reaction Is.

31

What You’re Really Asking for When You Ask for Sex on Repeat

32

Fatherhood and Sex Questioning the Status Quo with Dan Doty

33

Your Partner's in Perimenopause? Why Your Flirting Isn't Working

34

Hormones, Mood Swings, and Midlife WTFs: An Interview with Brooke from Marriage in Perimenopause

35

Perimenopause & Libido: A guide for you and your partner

36

Perimenopause is Wrecking Our Sex Life, What Now?

37

Stressed Out and Touched Out? The Nervous System Secrets to Wanting Sex Again

38

Sex or Stress? How to Tell When It’s Really a “No” and When It’s Not

39

Ready for More Fun, Play, and Connection? An Invitation to The Naked Fun Comeback™

40

A Sensorium Date Night

41

Sex Coach vs. Couples Counselling: Which Is Right for You?

42

Sexless Marriage: How to Save Your Relationship Before Divorce

43

The Truth About Postpartum Sex: Navigating Intimacy When Your Body Feels Different (Whether It’s Months or Years Later)

44

Foreplay Games for Couples: Playful Ways to Get Out of the Roommate Rut After Kids - Especially when it’s been a while

45

The Truth About Scheduled Sex: How to Rekindle Intimacy in Marriage

46

Best Sex Books for Couples: Expert Picks for a Better Love Life

47

Tired of Couples Counselling? Try These Relationship-Saving Alternatives

48

The One Secret That Changed My Sex Life After Kids

49

Fixing the Mental Load Won’t Save Your Sex Life

50

From Touched Out to Turned On: 5 Truths You Need to Hear

51

The Real Reason Your Partner is Avoiding Sex (And Why It’s Not What You Think)

52

The 3 Basic Bitch Tips That are Changing My Sex Life After Kids

53

Let’s Get It On: Rebuilding Erotic Energy When Life Is Anything But Sexy

54

6 Myths Killing the Bedroom Vibes After Kids

55

Why playing by the rules of consent can reset your sex life after kids

56

Getting Out of Your Head and Into Your Body During Sex

57

Finding a New Sexual Self After Kids

58

Let's Talk Duty Sex (After Kids)

59

Using a Pleasure Diet to Bring Back your Libido After Kids

60

Sex After Delivery - What to Expect and How to Prepare

61

How to Have Better Conversations About Your Sex Life with Marriage Coach Michelle Purta

62

Avoiding Sex? Support Your/Your Partners Nervous System

63

Your Fantasies Might Be Killing Your Sex Life After Kids

64

Talk to your Vagina to Find Your Libido After Kids

65

5 Parenting Tips That Have Transformed My Sex Life

66

Why focusing on the P in the V has got you stuck in monotonous sex - and what to do instead

67

How welcoming masturbation into your marriage will improve your sex life after kids

68

The Mighty Orgasm and Other Famous Rivers

69

How the Good Mother / Good Father Archetype is Blocking Your Intimacy

70

Stop Avoiding Scheduled Sex and Do This Instead

71

How to talk about your sex life after kids

72

Do you really have no time for sex? Or is it something else ?

73

Bedroom Diaries - Managing Big Emotions During Sex

74

Why waiting for your sex drive to come back is the hard way to a fun flirty relationship after kids

75

Overcoming Sexual Self-Consciousness: Reclaiming Your Inner Spectator

76

Sex Into your Sixties - Secrets for Success from Long Term Lovers - Sex After Kids Summit Sneak Peak Interview with Helen Rowlands - Holistic Sex Coach

77

5 Ways Shitty Sex Ed is Messing with Your Sex Life Post Kids

78

Creating the Positive Feedback Loop

79

The Four Secret Ingredients for a Fab Sex Life - After Kids

80

Ditching the Great Sexpectations

81

Us Against the Problem - Tackling Your Sex Life Together After Kids

82

What's wrong with my libido after kids? Part 3

83

What's wrong with my libido after kids? Part 2

84

What's wrong with my libido after kids? Part 1

85

10 Years and 3 kids later my libido was on ice

86

Welcome to the Sex After Kids Podcast