Not Just Gym Girls

In this episode we’re talking about the nutrition advice we genuinely wish more women heard sooner. From chronic dieting and food obsession to under-eating, perfectionism, and the pressure to constantly “earn” your food, we’re breaking down the harmful beliefs that so many women have been conditioned to normalize. We also dive into why true health is about so much more than calories and macros, how strength training and proper fueling can completely shift your mindset around your body, and why healing your relationship with food matters just as much as physical results. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the health and fitness industry or confused by nutrition advice online, this episode offers an educational and realistic perspective on what sustainable health can actually look like.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we break down what actually drives progress in the gym and what tends to overcomplicate it. We cover the importance of progressive overload, adequate nutrition, recovery, and consistency, while also discussing common habits that often stall progress like under-fueling, extreme deficits, and constantly changing your routine. This episode is a reminder that sustainable results are built through the basics done consistently.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we’re joined by Dr. Nicole Turnbow, owner and founder of Body in Motion to talk about the intersection of strength training, injury prevention, and physical therapy. We break down the most common injuries and patterns she sees in active women and how to navigate training while dealing with pain. This conversation gives you a better understanding of how Nicole’s approach to physical therapy differs from the traditional model, with a stronger focus on movement, strength, and long-term prevention.https://www.bodyinmotionpt.com/https://www.instagram.com/bodyinmotionpt/

In this episode, we’re unpacking the belief that your worth is tied to your body. We are talking about where this belief actually comes from, how it impacts your day-to-day life, and why it keeps you frustrated. We walk through how confidence isn’t actually coming from your body, and we discuss how to start separating your identity from your appearance and build a version of you that isn’t dependent on how you look. We also talk about how to pursue fitness goals in a healthy way, without tying your self-worth to the outcome.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we share our transition from IIFYM to a mindful/intuitive eating approach. We share our own experiences in how IIFYM helped us, until it didn't and eventually became more rigid. We break down the key differences, common signs you may be stuck in a macro-focused mindset, and how we shifted our approach. This episode is meant to help you find a balance between structure and flexibility without feeling controlled by numbers.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we’re sharing our biggest hot takes on the health and fitness industry, and some of them might challenge what you’ve been told. From why you don’t need to track your macros or chase more discipline, to why it might not be as serious as you think, we’re breaking down what actually moves the needle. We talk about how food freedom and caring about your health can coexist, and why some “healthy habits” might be more disordered than they seem. We also get into the idea that growth requires discomfort, and that many people stay stuck because they’re afraid to do things differently. We hope you enjoy!STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we’re breaking down the lessons we learned from dieting too hard and how it impacted more than just our weight. From gut and hormone issues to shifts in mood, energy, and mental health, we’re sharing the downstream effects that chronic dieting can have over time. We also talk about how it started to take over our lives; missing out on social events, stressing over food, and constantly planning everything around workouts. And most importantly, we walk you through what we do differently now, focusing on eating enough, strength training, building structure without rigidity, and creating a sustainable and enjoyable approach.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we're breaking down what actually supports digestion. From building balanced meals to simple daily habits, this episode is about understanding how digestion plays a role in your energy, hunger cues, and recovery. We discuss how your habits and patterns such as under-fueling, eating in a rush, or high stress can contribute to digestive issues. We hope this episode helps you better understand gut health!STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode we're breaking down the common belief that workouts need to feel brutal to be effective. We chat about where this mindset stems from, like diet culture, social media, and the pressure to “earn” results. We discuss what actually drives change, and why constantly pushing your body can backfire and lead to burnout, especially when it comes to hormones, stress, and sustainability. This episode will give you a new standard for what effective training should feel like and how to start measuring progress in a more productive way. STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode of Not Just Gym Girls, we’re reflecting on our first two years in business and the biggest takeaways that came with building something from the ground up. We talk about why entrepreneurship ends up being one of the biggest personal development journeys you can go through, the importance of having a supportive community around you, and the reality of content creation and the behind-the-scenes. This episode is an honest conversation about growth, getting uncomfortable, and figuring things out as you go. If you’re building something of your own or thinking about it, we hope this gives you a real look at what the journey can look like.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we’re breaking down one of the most common questions we hear about reverse dieting: which macro actually increases first, carbs, fats, or protein? We walk through the real goal of a reverse diet is, adjusting macros, the biggest mistakes people make during a reverse, and how to know if your metabolism is actually responding. Most importantly, we talk about why reverse dieting isn’t a one-size-fits-all strategy and how context matters when restoring metabolism, hormones, and training performance. If you’ve ever felt confused about what a reverse diet should actually look like, this episode will help you understand the strategy behind it. STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we are joined by Sports Dietitian Katie Regan to break down amenorrhea, under-fueling, and what’s really happening hormonally when you lose your cycle. We unpack why total energy intake matters more than most women realize, and how chronic stress and dieting history can quietly suppress your cycle. Katie explains what amenorrhea actually is, why it’s not just about being “too lean,” and the early signs your body may be under stress. We discuss recovery and how to restore your cycle while emphasizing the importance of a healthy relationship with food.Katie is doing incredible work in this space, helping women fuel properly, protect their hormones, and move away from fear-based fitness messaging. Her voice is one that’s truly shifting the conversation in the industry. You can find her and learn more through the links to her social platforms below.Katie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sportsdietitiankatie/Katie's Discovery Call Link: https://calendly.com/sportsdietitiankatie/wfa-nutrition-discovery-call

In this episode, we’re talking about how to eat enough without feeling like you have to track every single bite forever. We share our perspective on tracking; when it’s useful, when it becomes a crutch, and why the goal isn’t lifelong food tracking but long-term awareness. We break down why so many women unintentionally under-eat, how that affects metabolism, hormones, energy, and fat loss, and the common signs your body might need more support. We also walk through practical ways to build balanced meals, anchor around protein, and use performance markers like strength, recovery, and mood instead of just calorie numbers. If you’ve been stuck between rigid tracking and “winging it,” this episode will help you find structure without obsession.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

Food guilt is something so many of us experience, often without even realizing how much it’s influencing our choices. In this episode, we talk about where guilt around food comes from, why it can be so hard to break, and how it quietly impacts both your mindset and your body. We share personal anecdotes and honest conversations around our own experiences with food and guilt, and what helped us move forward. Ultimately, this episode is about building a healthier relationship with food, one that supports enjoyment, trust, and long-term consistency for longevity.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

Progressive overload is one of the most commonly discussed principles in strength training, yet it’s often misunderstood. In this episode, we clarify what progressive overload actually means, why it isn’t about lifting heavier every week, and how progress is meant to unfold over time. We’ll break down the many ways adaptation can happen beyond increasing load, including improvements in form, control, consistency, and recovery. If your training has started to feel overwhelming or like you’re not doing enough, this episode is meant to bring clarity and perspective. We hope you enjoy!STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we break down how to approach training, nutrition, and recovery when you’re sick. We dive into how to decide when movement is appropriate, how to fuel yourself when appetite is off, and what actually supports recovering. We also address the mindset shift required to step back without abandoning consistency, and speak on rest being apart of a sustainable health journey.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode we're chatting about the habits that changed our relationship with our bodies. Not through weight loss or forced confidence, but through how we showed up for ourselves daily. We talk about letting go of constant body checking, punishment-based fitness, and food rules, and how to shift the focus to sustainable, health-forward habits. This isn’t about loving your body all the time, it’s about building trust, respect, and peace over time. If body image and diet culture feels loud right now, this episode offers a calmer, more sustainable way forward.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

The new year tends to amplify diet culture, making it seem like a calorie deficit is the default way to start the year. In this episode, we break down why that narrative isn’t true and why restriction isn’t a prerequisite for progress. We talk about the mental, physical, and hormonal costs of constantly “starting over,” and what it looks like to choose routines that actually support your life. This is a realistic conversation about building consistency without extremes and redefining progress in a way that’s sustainable long past January.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode we're chatting about why the holidays aren’t the problem, the pressure around them is. We’re talking about why so many women start feeling anxious or on edge before the holidays even begin, and where that heaviness actually comes from. This isn’t about damage control, being “good,” or fixing yourself before January, but instead it’s about understanding how diet culture, comparison, and unrealistic expectations quietly shape how we experience this season. We’ll talk about why a few meals don’t undo your progress, and what real support can look like right now without food rules or punishment. If you’ve ever felt like you need to brace yourself this time of year, you’re not alone, and this episode is for you.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we’re talking about something almost every chronic dieter has felt but rarely gets explained well: metabolic adaptation. It’s the real reason your body can stall after months or years of dieting.If you’ve ever eaten less, trained more, and still wondered why nothing was changing, this episode will finally make it make sense. We go into what’s actually happening inside your metabolism, why progress slows down even when you’re doing everything “right,” and what it takes to rebuild a body that responds again.We cover reverse dieting, building muscle, hunger cues, and how to know when you’re truly ready for a fat loss phase. This episode will help you understand your body in a way that feels clear and empowering.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we’re breaking down something we wish more women understood sooner: we were never meant to live at “fitness influencer” levels of leanness. We're sharing the truth behind why extreme leanness became the goal, what it actually takes to get there, and the very real physical and emotional costs we learned firsthand through years of chasing it. This is an honest conversation about hormones, health, body image, and the difference between looking fit and being healthy. If you’ve ever felt like your “goal body” is costing you your actual life, this episode is going to hit home. And if you’re ready to feel strong, fueled, and confident without shrinking yourself, you’ll love where this conversation leads.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, Marisa and Vanessa dive into answering your questions. From identifying hormonal imbalances to modifying workouts around your menstrual cycle, and navigating food comments around the holidays, we're giving you all the best strategies. We share about navigating business ownership as sisters first, and the lessons we've learned along the way. We hope you enjoy!STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, Marisa and Vanessa dive into what it really looks like to navigate body image in your 20s, Your 20s are a decade full of changes, comparison, and self-discovery. From shifting hormones and evolving priorities to the pressures of social media and fitness culture, they break down why so many women feel disconnected from their bodies during this time. The sisters open up about their own experiences; from chasing aesthetics to embracing strength, nourishment, and body neutrality. They share practical ways to handle tough body image days, rebuild trust with your body, and focus on how you feel instead of how you look. By the end, you’ll be reminded that your 20s aren’t about controlling your body, but about learning to respect it and work with it.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we’re diving into what happens when your goals evolve, and how to navigate the identity shift that comes with it. Marisa and Vanessa share personal reflections on how changing direction doesn’t mean you’re quitting; it means you’re growing. We’ll explore why our goals naturally shift with different seasons of life, how to handle the uncomfortable “in-between” when you’re no longer who you were but not yet who you’re becoming, and practical ways to realign with what truly matters right now. If you’ve ever felt guilty for outgrowing an old version of yourself, this one’s for you.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In today's episode, we’re diving into what really helped us make peace with our bodies. For years, we lived in the constant pursuit of chasing smaller sizes, stricter diets, and an image of health that was never enough. In this episode, we’re sharing the turning points that helped us break free from body obsession and build a relationship rooted in respect, neutrality, and peace. We’ll talk about the hard truths we had to face, the mindset shifts that changed everything, and what life feels like on the other side: when food, fitness, and self-worth finally stop being battles. If you’ve ever felt like your body is a project, this one’s for you.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we break down what actually changes first in a reverse diet and why it matters for your metabolism, hormones, and performance. We'll walk you through how to adjust your macros strategically, what signs show your body is responding well, and how to let go of the fear of eating more.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we’re breaking down exactly how we program for fat loss at Strive for Strong, and why our approach looks so different from the “eat less, move more” mentality most women have been taught. Marisa and Vanessa dive into the science and strategy behind sustainable, hormone-friendly fat loss that prioritizes strength, metabolic health, and flexibility. You’ll learn how they design training, nutrition, mindset, and recovery phases that work with your body, not against it. If you’ve ever felt stuck chasing the scale or burning out from endless cardio, this episode will help you understand what real, sustainable fat loss actually looks like.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

After a month of travel, Marisa and Vanessa sit down to share how stepping out of routine shifted their relationship with food and fitness. They talk about what they noticed in Italy’s food culture and how their approach to movement has evolved. The conversation highlights mindset shifts, like letting go of the pressure to “make up for” indulgence and trusting their bodies to find balance. Back home, they compare how they feel now versus past trips and the lessons they’re carrying forward around food freedom, presence, and balance.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we're breaking down the myth of motivation and why waiting for that “spark” to feel inspired only keeps you stuck in the start–stop cycle. You’ll learn what’s actually missing (and it’s not willpower), plus how clarity, structure, and small habits matter more than bursts of motivation ever could.We'll share practical steps you can start using today, like stacking habits, setting up your environment for success, and tracking small wins to help you stay consistent even on the days you don’t feel like it.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, Marisa and Vanessa break down the top five gym mistakes they see women making all the time, plus practical tips to fix them.From undervaluing strength training to rushing through workouts, under-fueling, falling into the all-or-nothing trap, and constantly comparing yourself to others,  you’ll learn how to shift your approach so your effort actually pays off. This conversation is all about helping you train smarter, feel stronger, and finally start seeing the results you deserve.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

Trying to balance your career while staying on top of your health can feel like a constant tug-of-war. In this episode, Marisa and Vanessa share their own experiences of juggling work and fitness, along with the common struggles so many of us face, like skipping workouts when deadlines pile up or feeling guilty for not doing it all.We dive into simple strategies to build consistent habits and fit fitness into your schedule without adding more stress. From setting realistic minimums to finding small wins you can stick with, this episode is all about creating balance without burning out.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we’re diving into how to use macro tracking as a powerful tool without letting it take over your life. We share our own stories of how tracking shifted from empowering to obsessive during our earlier years, and why so many  struggle to find the balance between structure and freedom. We’ll talk about why people track macros, the hidden pitfalls that can make it feel rigid or stressful, and, most importantly, how to approach them with flexibility and freedom. From using ranges instead of exact numbers to treating macros like training wheels, you’ll walk away with practical tools to fuel your body, reach your goals, and ditch the guilt for good.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we dive into why comparison shows up so strongly, from the way our brains are wired for it to the way social media amplifies every highlight reel. We’ll talk about the dark side of comparison, how it leads to shame, guilt, and distraction from your own wins, while also exploring how to flip it into something that actually fuels your growth. By the end, you’ll see why your progress isn’t meant to follow anyone else’s timeline and how to finally start celebrating the journey that’s yours.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode we’re breaking down the most common strength training myths we once lived by, explaining why they’re wrong, and sharing what actually works. From cardio-only fat loss to thinking machines were just for beginners, we’re tackling the myths that held us back in the gym. We’ll cover why lifting heavy won’t make you bulky, why soreness isn’t the only sign of a good workout, and why rest days are just as important as training days, and learn the science-backed truth behind each one. We also share how our own training has evolved over the years, moving away from chasing calorie burn to focusing on performance-based goals and building strength for life.If you’ve ever felt confused from all the conflicting fitness advice out there, this episode will help you train smarter, build confidence in the weight room, and get results that last.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we’re diving into how your everyday actions around food, movement, and body image can shape how your children relate to health for years to come. We’ll explore how common phrases like “I have to burn this off” or skipping meals can send lasting messages, and share simple, real-life ways to model a balanced relationship with food. We’ll also talk about how to show your kids that movement is an act of self-respect, not punishment, and offer language swaps to help you talk about bodies and food in a way that supports confidence and trust. You don’t need to be perfect to be a positive role model, your effort to lead with intention already matters more than you think.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

Do you constantly feel like you're hitting the reset button every week? Telling yourself, "I'll be good starting Monday," only to find yourself stuck in the same cycle by Thursday? You're not alone, and you're definitely not broken.In this episode, we’re breaking down the “start over” trap so many find themselves in when it comes to health and fitness. We’ll talk about why this mindset is so common, the emotional and physical toll it takes, and most importantly what to do instead. You’ll learn how to shift away from all-or-nothing thinking and start building real, lasting momentum with a more sustainable approach.Whether your weekends always throw you off or you’re tired of feeling like you're either all-in or off-the-rails, this conversation is for you. It’s time to ditch the guilt, stop chasing perfection, and start seeing progress that sticks, even when life gets messy. We hope you enjoy!STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

You started working out because it made you feel good, physically, mentally, emotionally. But now? It feels like just another task on your to-do list. In this episode, we’re unpacking what’s really going on when fitness starts to feel like a full-time job. We talk about the signs of burnout, why motivation might not be your problem, and how to reconnect with movement in a way that feels aligned, flexible, and actually enjoyable. If you’ve been craving a healthier relationship with your goals, this episode will help you reset.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

Reverse dieting can be a powerful tool to heal your metabolism, boost strength, and break free from chronic under-eating, but only if you do it right. In this episode, we're breaking down what reverse dieting is, why it matters, and the most common mistakes we see people make.From increasing calories too quickly to letting the scale mess with your head, we walk you through what to avoid and how to fix it. We'll also chat about the emotional side of reversing, and why discomfort is sometimes part of the process.REVERSE DIETING E-BOOK:https://striveforstrong.myflodesk.com/reversedietingebook

In today’s Q&A episode, we’re answering all your most common questions about reverse dieting, what it actually is, how it works, and why it might be the key to healing your metabolism and seeing long-term results.We’ll be covering how to know if you need a reverse diet, why eating more food can support fat loss, how many calories to start with, and what signs to look for to know it’s working. We’ll also dive into what happens after the reverse diet, whether you should stay at maintenance or move into a deficit, how to navigate the guilt that can come with eating more, and if strength training is a must. And of course, we’ll talk about what kinds of foods to prioritize as you increase your intake.If you’re confused about reverse dieting or just want to better understand how to support your body without constant restriction, this episode is for you.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In today’s episode, we’re sitting down with Chandler Corlett, a former bodybuilder who gets real about what it was like to leave the stage behind and completely redefine her relationship with fitness, food, and her body.She opens up about what first drew her into the world of competing, the moment she started questioning if it still aligned with her values, and the identity struggles that came with stepping away. We talk about everything from post-show body image and food freedom, to what healing actually looked like for her, beyond the structure, the extremes, and the stage-ready physique.If you’ve ever felt stuck chasing a version of "health" that no longer feels right for you, or you’re navigating a new season in your fitness journey, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss.CHANDLER IG: https://www.instagram.com/cor.lettsbfitt/CBF Coaching FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/892811474788686/?ref=share&mibextid=wwXIfr&rdid=ilkyZfoydwXetnV1&share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2Fg%2F1YrHQZ5Evn%2F%3Fmibextid%3DwwXIfr#

In this episode, we’re sharing the simple nutrition tips that actually changed our journey. We dive into small, meaningful shifts that helped us feel better, eat more consistently, and finally break free from the all-or-nothing mindset. We talk about how waiting until you're starving to eat was keeping us stuck, why building balanced meals gave us more energy and stability, and how focusing on what we could add to our plates (instead of always cutting things out) made all the difference. We also touch on the underrated power of slowing down while eating and keeping meals simple and satisfying. If you’re tired of feeling overwhelmed by nutrition advice, this episode is your permission to go back to basics, and make incredible progress.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we’re breaking down exactly how we handled our most recent vacation, from the mindset we had going into it, to how we eased back into routine once we got home.We talk about how we did not restrict, cut carbs, or add extra cardio before the trip just to “earn” a bikini moment. We share what it looks like to be in a health-supportive phase leading into vacation, not focused on aesthetics. We also talk about how this approach helped the trip feel more balanced, relaxed, and genuinely enjoyable.We also get into how we approached vacation itself; aspects such as prioritizing fruits and veggies without stressing, taking a structured training break, and fully enjoying meals and treats without food guilt.And most importantly, we share what it looked like to return home without feeling like we needed to “make up for” anything. No guilt, no punishment, just a gentle return to routine that supports long-term consistency. If you’ve ever struggled with staying present on vacation or felt overwhelmed getting back into a routine after time off, this episode is for you.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we’re diving headfirst into some hot takes the fitness industry doesn’t want to hear. From the over-prescription of GLP-1s (yes, we said it), to the fear-based food narratives that do more harm than the actual food, we’re calling out the BS. We also talk about the mental toll of constant macro tracking and why being tired of it doesn’t make you a failure, it makes you human.If you’ve felt targeted by fear-based marketing or pressured to chase unrealistic standards, this conversation is for you. We’re here to clear the noise and help you reconnect with food and fitness in a sustainable way.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

If you’ve found yourself stuck in the cycle of restrictive dieting, regaining weight, and constantly starting over, this episode breaks down the deeper reasons why that pattern is so common, and how to finally break free from it. We will chat about the definition of yo-yo dieting, the physical and mental impact it can have over time, and why quick-fix approaches often backfire. You’ll also learn about three root causes that keep many people stuck in the cycle, from all-or-nothing thinking to a lack of foundational habits. We share practical steps to help you shift toward a more sustainable, nourishing approach to health; one that focuses on consistency, body trust, and long-term progress.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we’re sharing our favorite things from the the year,  everything from skincare and wellness, to fitness favorites and everyday essentials. These are not sponsored picks, just the products we personally use and find valuable. If you're looking for genuine recommendations or curious about what truly worked for us, this episode is for you.STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

Today we’re diving into what no one talks about when it comes to reverse dieting, such as the mental challenges, fear of weight gain, and why physical changes often take time. Reverse dieting isn’t just about eating more; it’s about healing your metabolism, rebuilding trust with food and your body, and learning how to maintain your results without staying stuck in a deficit. We’ll break down what reverse dieting really is (and isn’t), why increased hunger is a good sign, and how to know if a reverse diet is the right next step for you. It’s not always easy, but it’s where real healing begins. We hope you enjoy!STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

If you’ve ever felt guilty for what you ate, tried to “make up” for a weekend of eating, or labeled yourself as being “bad” around food, this episode is for you. We’re diving into where food guilt comes from, why it’s so common, and how it can quietly shape your relationship with food. We share personal stories of how this guilt often shows up and what it looks like to work through it. We’ll talk about why food doesn’t need moral labels and how to reframe some of the unhelpful thoughts that tend to pop up. We will also share strategies to move toward a more balanced, flexible mindset that can help you shift out of the guilt cycle and start building more trust with your body. This isn’t about perfection, it’s about showing up for yourself in a way that actually feels sustainable. We hope you enjoy!STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

Routines often get a bad rep for being rigid or boring, but they’re actually one of the best tools for creating freedom and ease in your day. In this episode, we’re breaking down why routines aren’t about being perfect, but instead about building simple systems that help you show up for yourself, even when life feels chaotic. We’re talking about how routines reduce decision fatigue, and build confidence and self-trust over time. You’ll hear the biggest mistakes people make (like going too hard too fast or copying someone else’s routine), and we will walk you through how to create a routine that actually works for your life. We hope you enjoy!STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

If you’ve been feeling off, low energy, poor sleep, intense cravings, or stalled gym progress, but you're “doing everything right,” you might actually be under-eating. In this episode of Not Just Gym Girls, we’re diving into the common (and often overlooked) signs of under-fueling, why it happens without us even realizing it, and how eating more can actually support your goals. Whether you’re trying to heal your metabolism, build strength, or just feel better day to day, this is a conversation everyone needs to hear. Tune in for an empowering and educating episode. MARISA FREE CONSULT LINK:https://calendly.com/msilvafitness/free-consultation-call-with-marisaVANESSA FREE CONSULT LINK:https://calendly.com/vanessasilva113/15min?month=2025-04MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0

In this episode, we’re challenging the idea that health has to revolve around shrinking your body. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the weight-loss cycle or like no number on the scale ever feels “good enough,” this conversation is here to offer a different, more empowering path forward.We talk about why weight isn’t the best measure of progress, and how chasing it can actually pull you further away from feeling connected, energized, and confident in your body. Instead, we explore how to define health in a way that feels personal and meaningful.You’ll learn how to shift away from perfectionism and all-or-nothing thinking by focusing on process-based goals that support the how and why of your habits, not just the outcome. We also dig into underrated goals that often go uncelebrated.We’ll help you navigate common mindset challenges, offer practical language shifts, and remind you that you don’t have to fix your body to care for it, because you are allowed to want more for your health without chasing less of yourself. STRIVE FOR STRONG WEBSITE: https://www.striveforstrong.com/MARISA IG: https://instagram.com/msilvafitness_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=MARISA COACHING LINK:https://msilvafitness.typeform.com/to/ptaEKYD8VANESSA IG: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasilvafitt/VANESSA COACHING LINK:https://form.typeform.com/to/hec1uTP0Join Strive for Strong Email List: https://mailchi.mp/bd5f8cff147d/strive-for-strong-11-coaching-servicesJoin Strive for Strong Facebook Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/384101593996567FEEDBACK FORM: https://forms.gle/KuaaqyVyc7CjmfN56