All Episodes

Catfished! Spotting Fakes in the Swinger Lifestyle (Revisited)

Swinger Dynamics 101: Full Swap, Soft Swap & Knowing Your No

Our First Swinger Experiences: Everything We Did Wrong

Swinger Birthday Weekend at the Club: Adam's Wild Quickie Recap

Swinger vs Polyamory vs FWB: What's the Real Difference?

Inside Club Eden: What Makes a Great Swinger Club?

Predators in the Swinger Lifestyle: Red Flags Every Couple Must Know

What Makes Someone Slutty? A Swinger Couple Reclaims the S-Word

Kink 101: Fetish vs. Kink, Power Exchange & Hot Wifing with The Kink Consultant

In-the-Moment Jealousy in ENM: A Listener's Voicemail Confession

The Orgasm Gap in the Lifestyle: Why She Comes at Home But Not at the Club

Broke, Stressed & Still Swinging: When Life Gets in the Way of the Lifestyle

From Porn Star to Sex Coach: Stirling Cooper on the Lifestyle, Escorting & Men's Sexual Health

When They Only Want Your Spouse (And Not You) | Beyond Monogamy Quickie

Sexual Shame, Religious Trauma & Ethical Non-Monogamy with Sex Therapist Natasha Helfer

Pressure in the Lifestyle: Are You Pushing Your Partner Too Far?

Inside Naughty N'Awlins: The World's Largest Lifestyle Event with Founder Bob Hannaford

We Were Mid-Conversation and Accidentally Made a Podcast Episode

The Evolution of Pris: How 18 Months & An Open Mind Changed Everything

Double Confessional: Lifestyle Roleplay Tips + Is Your Swinger Actually Poly?

Polyamory Meets Swinging: Multiamory's Dedeker, Jase & Emily On Unicorn Hunters, Jealousy & Where ENM Communities Collide

When Your Body Says Yes But Your Agreement Said No — Listener Q&A

Myrina & Tristan of The Accidental Swingers on Jealousy, Aging, and Naughty Nawlins

Killer Pussy: The Night a Lifestyle Club Visit Ended in an Ambulance

More Than Monogamy: The ENM Documentary Every Couple Needs to See | Dillon Birdsall & Spark Erotic

Wandering Aimlessly: Jealousy, Bi Curiosity & the ENM Newbie Survival Guide

No Clinic, No Shame, No Excuses: At-Home STI Testing with Dr. Andy Kogelnik of ProDx Health

Disney World, Swingers, and a Wild Night at the Florida Tree House Lifestyle Club

How to Build a Swinger & ENM Profile That Actually Gets Results (Stop Scaring People Off)

Press the Button: Our Raw, Real Conversation About Prostate Massage

Nina Hartley on Pleasure as a Birthright, Gang Bang Planning & 40 Years of Living Non-Monogamously

QUICKIE: We Skipped Consent at a Lifestyle Club (And Pris Owns It)

HSV in the Lifestyle: Breaking the Herpes Stigma with Courtney Brame

Newbie Confessional: How to Survive Your First Lifestyle Event as a Couple

Live from the Hotel Takeover: Etiquette, Chaos & Keeping Your Relationship First

Hotel Takeovers 101: Your Real Talk Survival Guide to the Lifestyle's Most Intoxicating Weekend

Your Dick Has Data: Dr. Elliot Justin on Sex Tech, Nocturnal Erections & Why Most Men Don't Actually Have ED

The Emotional Labor of the Lifestyle: Who's Really Doing the Work?

Susan Bratton on Expanded Orgasms, Sexual Biohacking, and the STI Testing Protocol Every Lifestyle Couple Needs

Is a Couple's Play Partner Off Limits? The Etiquette Nobody Talks About — Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE

Single Fellas in the Lifestyle: Are Single Men Really Ruining the Swinging Scene?

Red Flags & Green Flags in the Swinging Lifestyle

Pris Turns 48: Birthday Bashes, Club Eden, and the Gang Bang She Asked For Out Loud

Pregnancy in the Lifestyle: Fetishes, Scares & the Conversations You Need to Have

Polyamory, Marriage, and Dating Women: How One Couple Makes Non-Monogamy Work

How to Last Longer in Bed: Real Tips for Men (That Actually Work)

Swinger Age Limits? The Truth About Age in the Lifestyle

CONFESSIONS: Lifestyle Red Flags, Unrealistic Expectations & Jealousy in ENM

How to Start the Swinging Conversation + Lifestyle Rejection Real Talk

Judged for Ethical Non-Monogamy? How to Handle Critics, Bullies & Moral Authority

Cheating vs Ethical Non-Monogamy: Honesty, Jealousy & Modern Dating Culture

Swinger Club 101: What Newbies Should Know Before Going to a Lifestyle Club

Swinger Education Matters: Inside Forbidden Fruit's Workshops

Swinging Reality Check: What Nobody Warns You About in the Lifestyle

Unfair Swinger Rules: The Boundaries That Break Couples

Unfiltered but Not Unkind: Hard Truths About Swinger Etiquette & Communication

One-Sided Rules in the Swinger Lifestyle: Insecurity, Control & Communication

Non-Monogamy, Attachment & Communication — ft. Sex Therapist Martha Kauppi

How to Set Up a Gang Bang (Planning, Consent & Fantasy Reality)

Luxury Lifestyle Cruises Explained: Inside LLV Club's Adults-Only Travel Experiences

Swinger 101: Rules, Boundaries, Jealousy & How to Start Safely

Non-Monogamy on Your Own Terms: Growth, Jealousy & Freedom with Evita "Lavitaloca" Sawyers

Instant Gratification in Sex: Why Finishing Fast Isn't a Failure

Polyamory, Jealousy, and Boundaries: Making Non-Monogamy Make Sense with Polyphilia

Compersion Isn't Automatic: Jealousy, Growth & Real Non-Monogamy

Bi Men in Swinging: Breaking Stigma with United Bi Swinging (Ashley & Rob)

Busy Isn't Ghosting: Entitlement, Boundaries & Lifestyle Etiquette

Sex Work, Swinging, & Gooning: Rae's Real Talk On The Lifestyle

Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet: Club Eden, Content Creators & One Wild Night

The Original Swingers: Sam L. Feldman on Hookups, Hiccups & Freedom

QUICKIE Confessionals: Swinger Secrets, Rejections & Real Talk

Ms. Nookie on Making Consent Sexy & Dating Without Losing Your Damn Mind

QUICKIE: Holiday Stress, Libido Slumps & Lifestyle Survival

From Temptation to Transformation: How Tropical Unicorn Travels Redefines Lifestyle Vacations

1 Year of Beyond Monogamy: How We Grew, Loved, and Laughed Through Non-Monogamy

Inside Pineapple House TX: The Houston Couple Redefining Lifestyle House Parties

QUICKIE: Mental Health & The Lifestyle

The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & Texas Desires Hotel Takeover

Inside the Mind of Adam: Love, Chaos & Building a Beyond-Monogamy Marriage

Inside Austin's Oldest Adult Store: Exploring Sex Toys, Local Pleasure Brands & Flirting in the Lifestyle

Lifestyle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party

Jealousy, Labels & Latino Love: Psychologist Jaime Gama on Ethical Non-Monogamy, Swinging vs. Poly, & Building Community

QUICKIE: Spotted! When Your Vanilla Life Crashes the Lifestyle

Transforming Love: Jessica Fern & David Cooley on Shame, Attachment & Polywise Relationships

QUICKIE: The Great Expectations

This Kind of Girl: UK Writer Rosie Kay on Non-Monogamy, Bisexuality & Breaking Lifestyle Stereotypes

Forbidden Fruit: How Austin's Oldest Adult Store Kept Sex Positive Since the '80s

Latino Heat In The Lifestyle: Dulce & Angel's Journey from Event Planners to Swing Club Owners

QUICKIE: Sexual Assault in the Lifestyle: Why Consent Still Matters in Swinging and Non-Monogamy Spaces"

Beyond Monogamy Meets The Swing Nation: Origin Story, Clout, and Community

QUICKIE: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle

Non-Monogamy & The Law: Jonathan Lane on Custody, Contracts & Protecting Non-Traditional Families

When They Want My Spouse but Not Me: Handling Rejection in Ethical Non-Monogamy

Faith, Desire & Ethical Non-Monogamy with Rabbi Nikki DeBlosi

QUICKIE: Would You Rather? Ethical Non-Monogamy Edition

Savage Swingers Unleashed: TikTok Fame, Lifestyle Myths & Honest Conversations

QUICKIE: Lifestyle 101 Series - Having The "Lifestyle" Talk With Your Partner

Beyond Fantasy: Francesca Gentille on Kink, Jealousy & Keeping Passion Alive

Quickie Confessions: Our First Time, Fumbles, and Lessons Learned

Hook, Line, and Lie: When Catfish Swim into the Lifestyle

QUICKIE: Cum Talk – Love It, Hate It, or Wipe It Off?

Love, Lust, and Lifestyle: Paul Keable Joins Beyond Monogamy

QUICKIE: Lifestyle Stereotypes — Truth or Total BS?

When the Big "O" Doesn't Happen: How It Feels on Both Sides

QUICKIE: Too Much Sex? Or Not Enough?

Examining The Lull: When the Lifestyle Goes from Hot to...Not

Adam's Birthday Weekend Recap: A Celebration To Remember

Pre-Birthday Party: The Calm Before The Storm

QUICKIE: Hole Pass: The Anal Episode Revisited

Inside the Mind of a Unicorn: Jessica Tells All

Let's Talk Aftercare: Cuddles, Communication, and That Reclaim Magic

When You're Up & They're Down: Loving Through The Lows

QUICKIE: Port Aransas Beach Takeover

QUICKIE: Animal Cockblocks & Bedroom Interruptions: A Pet Peeve QUICKIE

Queer, Curious & Candid: Catching Up with Jeremy

QUICKIE: Why Discretion & Judgment Matter in Non-Monogamy

The High Costs of Swinging: An Honest Look

Polite Turn Downs in Intimate Circles

QUICKIE: Podcast Therapy: Unpacking Hidden Desires and Missteps

The Intersection of Swinging and Sex Work: A Candid Discussion

QUICKIE: Unveiling the Art of Dirty Talk: A Hilarious Journey

Navigating Friendship Boundaries in the Lifestyle

QUICKIE: Flirting: The Awkward Art of Attraction

Navigating the Pressures of Play

QUICKIE: Navigating the Third Wheel Dilemma in Non-Monogamous Relationships

Midlife Mischief: Confidence and Sexuality Unleashed

QUICKIE: When One Partner Wants Poly and the Other Doesn't

Beyond Monogamy: Cracking the Code of Swinger Hierarchies

QUICKIE: The Role of Labels in Ethical Non-Monogamy

The Double Life: Swing, Kids, and Finding Balance

QUICKIE: Squirting Uncovered: Embrace the Waterfall

Navigating Emotional Connections in the Lifestyle

QUICKIE: An Unforgettable Boogie Night

Empowerment or Objectification: The Hot Wife Culture Debate

QUICKIE: Selective, Not Picky: The Art of Attraction

S1 E22 Discovering Deeper Connections: Beyond Casual Encounters

QUICKIE: Invitations, Expectations, and the Fear of Missing Out

Slutting it Out: Exploring New Horizons in Relationships

QUICKIE: Imagined Escapades

Overcoming The Negatives: Lessons from Beyond Monogamy

QUICKIE: When Four Doesn't Connect: Uneven Attraction in Couples

Inside or Outside: Navigating Connections in the Lifestyle

QUICKIE: The Adam Theory: Understanding Happy Vibes in the Lifestyle

Swinger Lingo 101: Understanding the Basics

QUICKIE: Conversations on Clits and Balls: Unpacking Desires

Facing Rejection: The Inevitable R-Word

QUICKIE: Size Matters: The Truth Revealed

Infidelity in the Lifestyle: A Paradox

QUICKIE: Trust, Transparency, and Intimacy

Communicating Through Complexity

QUICKIE: Sensual vs Non Sensual

Swinging: Strengthening Bonds or Breaking Them?

QUICKIE: Flirting Fumbles: A Guide to Connection

Lessons in Consent: Protecting Personal Boundaries

QUICKIE: Adam's Ultimate Blowjob Fantasy

When Respect Meets Desire: Navigating Public Affection

QUICKIE: From No to Maybe: A Journey in Anal Play

Exploring Separate Play: Finding Freedom in Fidelity

QUICKIE: Our Favorite Experiences

Unveiling Our Five-year Polyamory Journey

QUICKIE: The Good, the Bad, and the Erotic of Oral Sex

Bisexuality in the Lifestyle: An Insightful Exchange

QUICKIE: Discovering the Kink of Cum Play

Drama in the Lifestyle: Why it Happens and How to Manage It

QUICKIE: Navigating the World of Sex Clubs

Beyond Acceptance: The Real Fear of Lifestyle Anxieties

QUICKIE: Lifestyle House Parties: A Firsthand Account

Exploring Intimacy Beyond Monogamy: A Candid Discussion

QUICKIE: Public Play - Pushing the Boundaries

Exploring the Intricacies of Friendships in a Non-Monogamous Lifestyle

QUICKIE: Discovering the Beauty of Threesomes

Navigating Intimate Insecurities

QUICKIE: Embracing the Act of Self-Love: A Pioneering Conversation on Masturbation

What is the Lifestyle? An In-depth Exploration

QUICKIE: Navigating Fantasies in Relationships: Beyond Monogamy

Diving into the Boundaries and Rules of the Lifestyle

The Journey Begins: Our 14-Year Swing & Poly Story