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The Ex-Good Girl Podcast — 183 episodes

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Episode 175 - Good Girl Math

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Episode 174 - Two Types of Hard Conversations

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Episode 173 - The Motivational Triad: Why Avoiding the Hard Conversation Feels So Good

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Episode 171 - The Small People-Pleasing Behaviors That Add Up

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Episode 170 - The People-Pleasing Conversation I Had With My Teenager

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Episode 169 - What I’m Working On Right Now: What Will They Think of Me?

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Episode 168 - What is Your Silence Teaching Your Relationships?

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Episode 166 - There is No Time Limit to Talk About It

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Episode 165 - The Good Girl Rules are a High-Demand System

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Episode 164 - What I Wish I Would’ve Told You About Your Body

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Episode 163 - The Hidden People Pleasing of High Achievers

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Episode 162 - The Patriarchal Double-Bind of Motherhood

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Episode 161 - The Two Conversation Buckets

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Episode 160 - Staying Quiet Is Already Jeopardizing Your Relationships

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Episode 159 - Why Your “Yes” Feels So Hard to Find

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Episode 158 - When Speaking Up Changes Your Life with Jessica Carlson

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Find Your Outside Voice Part 6 - Your Outside Voice Is Waiting

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Find Your Outside Voice Part 5 - The Two Things That Will Try to Stop You

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Find Your Outside Voice Part 4 - Say It Messy

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Find Your Outside Voice Part 3 - It’s Just a Yes or a No

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Find Your Outside Voice Part 2 - The Hidden Tax

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Find Your Outside Voice Part 1 - You Make Sense

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Episode 157 - Leaving Polygamy, Finding my Voice with Shirlee Draper

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Episode 156 - Healing in a Community of Women Re-Release

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Episode 155 - The Powerful Combination of Choice and Voice Re-Release

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Episode 154 - What Needs To Be Said with Alex Reegan Re-Release

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Episode 153 - Using the Past and the Future to Solve Problems in the Present

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Episode 152 - How to Stay Informed Without Losing Yourself

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Episode 151 - Your Body Was Never Meant to Hold This

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Episode 150 - Erotic Wholeness with Darshana Avila

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Episode 149 - We Need To Talk About Codependency

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Episode 148 - You Can Get Good at Conflict

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Episode 147 - How I Make Sense of the Absolute Bullshit Going on Right Now

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Episode 146 - Five Questions I’m Asking This Year

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Episode 145 - Best Of: How To Have Your Own Back

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Episode 144 - Best Of: Too Much and Not Enough

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Episode 143 - Self-Silencing is Making You Sick

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Episode 142 - Understanding Religious Trauma Part 2 with Kendra Hill

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Episode 141 - Understanding Religious Trauma Part 1 with Kendra Hill

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Episode 140 - Being a Highly Sensitive Woman with Allyssya Gossett

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Episode 139 - A Four-Step Plan for a Holiday That Actually Feels Good

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Episode 138 - Grief Isn’t Linear: Learning to Carry What You’ve Lost with Krista St-Germain

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Episode 137 - Why Are We Trying To Make It Look Easy?

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Episode 136 - Choosing Love Over Certainty with Meagan Skidmore

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Episode 135 - Staying in Relationships Even with Differences

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Episode 134 - Keep Going but Be Gentle

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Episode 133 - What Avoiding Conflict Really Costs You

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Episode 132 - How Over-Apologizing Hurts You and How to Stop

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Episode 131 - End Emotional Outsourcing with Béa Albina

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Episode 130 - Being Seen in the Relationships that Matter Most

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Episode 129 - How to Break the Habit of Auto Accommodating

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Episode 128 - How to Get Out of the Self-Doubt Spiral

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Episode 127 - Radical Discernment: Balancing Self-Care and Collective Care with Katherine Golub

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Episode 126 - The Body Knows: Faith, The Wisdom of Desire, and Telling the Truth with Michaelann Gardner

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Episode 125 - What I'm Learning About Joy, Rest, and Pleasure

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Episode 124 - How Did I Get Stuck and How Do I Get Unstuck?

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Episode 123 - Living with ADHD and Letting Go of Good Girl Rules with Kristen Carder

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Episode 122 - Signs You're Ready For a Bigger Life!

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Episode 121 - Part 2: Are People Pleasers Liars? (And Why That's Not The Real Problem)

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Episode 120 - INTERACTIVE EPISODE: Are People Pleasers Liars?

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Episode 119 - Patriarchy 101: How It Was Created and What To Do About It Now

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Episode 118 - ADHD, Perimenopause, and the Good Girl Trap with Jenny Hobbs

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Episode 117 - The Enneagram for People Pleasers Part 2 with Wendy Montgomery

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Episode 116 - The Enneagram for People Pleasers Part 1 with Wendy Montgomery

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Episode 115 - "Dying for Sex" with Danielle Savory

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Episode 114 - Being Bullied and Becoming a People Pleaser

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Episode 113 - The Intimacy Triangle with Andrea Parks

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Episode 112 - The Hidden Cost of Chronic Accommodation with Celeste Davis

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Episode 111 - Hope for Women Struggling with Faith and Feminism: A Conversation with Crystal Hall

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Episode 110 - We Have to Start Thinking Differently About Ourselves, and Here’s How

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Episode 109 - How to Stop Emotional Eating Without Shame with Laura Conley

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Episode 108 - Why Are So Many Women Leaving the Church?

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Episode 107 - Religious Tools Were Not Created for Women with Britt Hartley

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Episode 106 - Vagina Business: FemTech with Marina Gerner

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Episode 105 - People Pleasing and Friendship with Jewel Hohman

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Episode 104 - Embodying Real Wealth with Julie Murphy

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Episode 103 - Ten Things That Will Help Any Relationship

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Episode 102 - Sex is Not "Extra" with Dr. Kelly Casperson

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Episode 101 - What Does Eve Have To Do With Perimenopause?

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Episode 100 - I've Got Some Thoughts About That: AMA with Clients

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Episode 99 - Breaking Down Patriarchy with Amy McPhie Allebest

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Episode 98 - Resentment: It's Not Coming From Them with Sara Wilhelm

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Episode 97 - Stop People Pleasing: Current Members Share!

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Episode 96 - What to Do When You Mess Up

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Episode 95 - How To Set Goals That Actually Work with Goli Kalkhoran

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Episode 94 - We Are Thinking About Time All Wrong with Vikki Yaffe

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Episode 93 - How To Get Out of the Planning Trap with Priyanka Venugopal

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Episode 92 - Grief Around the Holidays with Susie Ruth

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Episode 91 - Good Girls, Glinda and Upholding the Patriarchy

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Episode 90 - Why I Love Wicked and You Should Too

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Episode 89 - Things that Matter Most Right Now

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Episode 88 - How To Have More Holiday Magic this Season

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Episode 87 - Settle-Proof Your Dating and Relationships with Lily Womble

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Episode 86 - Bodily Autonomy with Dr. Stephanie Hack, the Lady Parts Doctor

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Episode 85 - Why Feminism Still Matters

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Episode 84 - Belonging to Myself with Serena Hicks

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Episode 83 - The Drama Triangle with Andrea Parks

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Episode 82 - We are Smart Enough to Invest with Kara Gaisie

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Episode 81 - Stop Apologizing

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Episode 80 - When the Internet Mob Comes for You with Sandy Connery and Jeni Barcelos

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Episode 79 - I Wanted Something Just for Me

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Episode 78 - Unconventional Choices: Alternative Relationship Structures with Ali Ryan and Laura Jurgens

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Episode 77 - Unconventional Choices: Single Mom by Choice with Carla Moats and Paige Dempsey

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Episode 76 - Unconventional Choices: Childfree By Choice with Amber Taylor, Pauline Yan, Melissa G Wirt, and Dr. Susie Castellanos Hansley

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Episode 75 - How To Drink Like a Woman Who Loves Herself with Colleen Kachmann

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Episode 74 - The Female Double Bind and How to Get OUT

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Episode 73 - What I'm Working On At The Moment

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Episode 72 - Sneaky People Pleasing

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Episode 71 - I'm Not Living The Beautiful Life I Could Be with Angie Wilson

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Episode 70 - "I am so F*cking Proud of Myself" - Conversations with Women Who Have Stopped People Pleasing

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Episode 69 - Awareness, Capacity and Skills Part Two: Listen In On This Coaching Call

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Episode 68 - The Three Things You Need to Make a Change: Awareness, Capacity and Skills Part One

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Episode 67 - Expanding Your Capacity for Pleasure with Danielle Savory

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Episode 66 - From Stuck to Secure

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Episode 65 - The People Pleaser's Guide to Co-Parenting with Mikki Gardner

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The Ex-Good Girl Podcast is taking a break!

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The Ex-Good Girl Podcast is taking a break!

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The Ex-Good Girl Podcast is taking a break!

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The Ex-Good Girl Podcast is taking a break!

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Episode 64 - How I Created a Secure Relationship With My Husband

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Episode 63 - Writing Your Way Back to You with AshMae Hoiland

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Episode 62 - Acceptance is the Path to Power

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Episode 61 - How Working on My People Pleasing is Honoring Me with My Grief with Elizabeth Hester

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Episode 60 - Exploring Non-Traditional Relationships with Kimberly Mathis

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Episode 59 - Transparency as a Woman in the Self-Help World

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Episode 58 - Stories from Inside Stop People Pleasing Group Coaching Program

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Episode 57 - What If Your Marriage Was A Tool For Liberation? with Maggie Reyes

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Episode 56 - How To Advocate For Yourself in a Medical Setting with Sara Hughes Zabawa

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Episode 55 - How to Remodel a Relationship

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Episode 54 - Grief is Part of the Process

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Episode 53 - Imposter Syndrome with Kori Linn

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Episode 52 - Let's Talk about Infidelity with Andrea Giles

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Episode 51 - The Size of Our Wanting is the Size of Our Life

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Episode 50 - The Power of a Consult with Laura Sully

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Episode 49 - What If 2024 is the Year You Stop People Pleasing?

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Episode 48 - Food and People Pleasing with Elizabeth Sherman

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Episode 47 - People Pleasing and Parenting with Andee Martineau, Part 2

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Episode 46 - People Pleasing and Parenting with Andee Martineau, Part 1

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Episode 45 - How Claiming Authority Changed Everything for Me: A Conversation with Kara Loewentheil

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Episode 44 - My Favorite Sentences

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Episode 43 - How to Create Secure Attachment in Relationships

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Episode 42 - How to Make Sense Of Your Chronic Pain with Deb Malkin

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Episode 41 - Synthetic Gratitude: Why It Sucks and What To Do About It

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Episode 40 - How To Disappoint Someone and Not Die Of Guilt and Shame

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Episode 39 - Midlife Magic with Jen Berlingo

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Episode 38 - Why are the Holidays so Hard?

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Episode 37 - Boundaries with Olivia Vizachero

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Episode 36 - The B-word: Boundaries

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Episode 35 - Women Talking: Movie Review with Chelsea Paxton

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Episode 34 - Why Finding Your Voice Matters with Kristin Jensen

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Episode 33 - Good Girls and Money with Keina Newell

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Episode 32 - Good Girls and ADHD with Kristen Carder

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Episode 31 - How Good Girl Programming Masks ADHD

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Episode 30 - You're Not Selfish

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Episode 29 - Ten Reasons Why Coaching Works to Stop People Pleasing

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Episode 28 - People Pleasing as a Trauma Response with Sara Hughes-Zabawa

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Episode 27 - Inside the Stop People Pleasing Group Program

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Episode 26 - I'm Turning 50! (And I have a present for YOU!)

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Episode 25 - Sexual Power with Danielle Savory

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Episode 24 - The Powerful Combination of Choice and Voice

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Episode 23 - How To Say What You Want to Say

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Episode 22 - From Conversion Therapy to LGBTQ Advocacy with Elena Joy Thurston

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Episode 21 - Loving Our LBGTQIA+ Kids with Andrea Parks and Wendy Montgomery

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Episode 20 - "I Will Not Lose Myself" with Hannah Carlisle and Michelle Call

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Episode 19 - Pleasure is a Human Right with Dr. Sonia Wright, MD

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Episode 18 - What Needs To Be Said with Alex Reegan

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Episode 17 - Good Girls and Body Image with Corinne Crabtree

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Episode 16 - F*ck Around and Find Out with Melanie Childers

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Episode 15 - The Power of Having a Coach with Krista St-Germain

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Episode 14 - Mother-Daughter Relationships with Karen C.L. Anderson

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Episode 13 - Healing in a Community of Women

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Episode 12 - Our Story, Part 2

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Episode 11 - Our Story, Part 1

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Episode 10 - Five Challenges That Will Change Your Life

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Episode 9 - How to Have Your Own Back

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Episode 8 - Women Wanting: A Guide to Your Superpower

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Episode 7 - Too Much and Not Enough

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Episode 6 - The Goldilocks Zone

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Episode 5 - My Story Part 2

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Episode 4 - My Story Part 1

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Episode 3 - Stop The Ride, I Want to Get Off

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Episode 2 - How Did We Become Good Girls?

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Episode 1 - What is a Good Girl?