The Quiet As Kept Podcast With Shawnti Refuge

Motherhood is praised publicly… and suffered through privately.In this episode, Shawnti Refuge gets real about the emotional weight of being “a good mother” and how unrealistic expectations, silent pressure, and unprocessed trauma can slowly break you down.Backed by research and lived experience, this conversation dives into mom guilt, burnout, identity loss, and the mental load that nobody talks about—especially in communities where strength is expected and struggle is hidden.If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re doing enough… while running on empty—this episode is for you.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Everybody keeps saying they’re “fine.” But anxiety is loud. Burnout is real. And functioning doesn’t mean you’re okay.In this episode, I’m breaking down what mental health actually looks like when you’re the one everybody depends on. The strong one. The reliable one. The one who “got it.”Because just because you’re showing up doesn’t mean you’re not silently drowning.We’re talking high-functioning anxiety, emotional suppression, survival mode, and what your body starts doing when your mind keeps ignoring what’s real.If you’ve been pushing through instead of healing… this episode is for you.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

You’ve acknowledged it. You’ve faced it. Now it’s time to release it.In this final episode of the Emotional Spring Cleaning series, we’re talking about what it actually means to let go—for real. Not just saying “I’m done,” but emotionally detaching, reclaiming your power, and choosing yourself without guilt.Because closure doesn’t always come from them. Sometimes it comes from you deciding you’re no longer carrying what hurt you.If you’ve been holding on to people, pain, memories, or versions of yourself that no longer align… this is your moment.You’re not starting over. You’re starting lighter.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Let’s be honest… you already know.You know what hurt you. You know what didn’t sit right. You know what you should’ve walked away from.But instead of facing it… you stayed busy, distracted, and “focused on other things.”In this episode, we’re unpacking emotional avoidance—the habits, distractions, and behaviors that keep you from actually dealing with what’s real. Because staying busy is not the same as healing.If you’ve been saying “I’m just trying not to think about it,” this is your sign that it’s time to stop running and start processing.You’re not confused. You’re avoiding the truth that requires you to change.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

You keep saying it’s different this time… but it keeps ending the same way.Different person. Same outcome. Same feelings. Same frustration.In this episode, we’re breaking down the emotional patterns you keep repeating in your relationships—whether that’s romantic, friendships, or even family. Because it’s not always about who you’re choosing… it’s about what you haven’t healed.We’re talking about attachment, emotional habits, unconscious cycles, and why your nervous system keeps choosing what feels familiar—even when it hurts.This is the episode that’s going to make you stop blaming “them”… and start asking yourself better questions.Because healing isn’t just about letting go of people. It’s about breaking the patterns that keep bringing them back in different forms.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

You’ve been holding it together for everybody… but who’s holding space for you?In this episode, we’re unpacking what it really looks like to carry unprocessed emotions, unresolved pain, and old survival habits that no longer serve you. Just because you’ve learned how to function through it doesn’t mean you’ve healed from it.This is your wake-up call to stop romanticizing your resilience and start releasing what’s been weighing you down.If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, easily triggered, emotionally tired, or disconnected… this episode is for you.We’re not organizing the mess this month. We’re clearing it out.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

High-Functioning but Highly UnhealedIn this episode of The Quiet As Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge explores the emotional reality many high-achieving women face — appearing successful on the outside while quietly carrying emotional exhaustion on the inside.This conversation addresses high-functioning depression, burnout, emotional suppression, and the pressure women feel to keep everything together. Shawnti also discusses the importance of slowing down, self-awareness, and creating space for healing.Subscribe to the podcast and explore Shawnti’s guided journals and resources at ShawntiRefuge.com.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In this Women’s History Month episode of The Quiet As Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge explores one of the quietest and most complicated forms of grief women carry — the mother wound.What happens when the person who was supposed to nurture you couldn’t? What does healing look like when your mother is still alive, but the relationship is painful, distant, or unresolved?In this raw conversation, Shawnti discusses emotional neglect, generational trauma, silent grief, and the journey of becoming the nurturing presence you needed growing up. She also shares powerful reflections on reparenting yourself, setting boundaries, and breaking cycles.If you’ve ever struggled with complicated feelings about your mother, this episode will help you put language to emotions many people are afraid to acknowledge.Subscribe to The Quiet As Kept Podcast, share this episode with someone who may need it, and explore Shawnti’s guided journals and healing resources at ShawntiRefuge.com.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Healing Isn’t Pretty: The Rage Women Were Never Allowed to FeelIn this Women’s History Month episode of The Quiet As Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge explores the anger women were taught to suppress and how that suppressed rage often turns into anxiety, burnout, and emotional exhaustion.This episode discusses emotional suppression, boundary setting, and the role anger plays in the healing process.Resources mentioned in this episode:• Guided journals and healing resources • Quiet as Kept by Shawnti Refuge • The Audacity of a Healing Woman • The Free 5-Day Audacity ChallengeVisit ShawntiRefuge.com to learn more.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In this Women’s History Month episode of The Quiet As Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge unpacks the hidden emotional cost of being the “strong woman.” If you’ve ever been praised for holding it together while quietly falling apart, this episode is for you.We’re talking mental load, suppressed rage, generational trauma, divorce survival mode, and the audacity to heal out loud.🎯 Join the FREE 5-Day Audacity Challenge🎯 Enroll in The Audacity of a Healing Woman🎯 Grab your copy of Quiet as Kept 🎯 Shop guided journals at ShawntiRefugeJournals.comSubscribe. Share. Heal.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Birthdays often come with pressure—to be further along, more healed, or completely reinvented. But healing doesn’t work on deadlines.In this episode of The Quiet As Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge reflects on birthday month energy, integration, and what it means to return to yourself instead of constantly trying to become someone new. Through thoughtful reflection and guided journaling prompts, this episode invites listeners to release unrealistic expectations and honor the versions of themselves that survived.✨ Topics include:Healing without timelinesIntegration vs. reinventionLetting go of birthday pressureGuided journaling for self-honorGo to ShawntiRefugeJournals.com for more mental health resources.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Self-abandonment often gets mislabeled as being “too nice,” “too accommodating,” or “just the way you are”—but it’s actually a learned survival response.In this episode of The Quiet As Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge explores how self-abandonment forms, why choosing yourself can feel uncomfortable, and how to begin prioritizing your needs without guilt or emotional shutdown. This episode includes reflective journaling prompts and grounded insight for anyone healing from people-pleasing, burnout, or emotional overgiving.✨ Topics include:What self-abandonment really looks likeWhy prioritizing yourself feels unsafeSelf-respect vs. self-sacrificeGuided journaling for boundary awarenessVisit ShawntiRefugeJournals.com for more mental health resources.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Rebuilding self-trust after burnout, betrayal, or self-abandonment can feel overwhelming—especially when survival mode taught you to doubt your own instincts.In this episode of The Quiet As Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge explores how self-trust gets broken, why shame keeps it fractured, and how to rebuild internal safety through compassion, consistency, and small promises to yourself. This episode includes reflective journaling prompts and grounded insights for anyone navigating healing, decision fatigue, or identity after survival mode.✨ Topics include:Self-trust vs. confidenceSurvival mode and decision-makingHealing shame and self-blameGuided journaling for emotional safetySend us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Who are you when you’re not performing for survival, approval, or productivity?In this episode of The Quiet As Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge explores how performance becomes a survival strategy—and why slowing down can feel uncomfortable when your nervous system is used to staying alert. This conversation invites listeners to examine identity beyond roles, productivity, and people-pleasing, and to reconnect with self without pressure or expectation.Through honest reflection and guided journaling prompts, this episode creates space for rest, self-awareness, and emotional release for anyone navigating burnout, healing, or life after survival mode.✨ Topics include:Performance as a trauma responseWhy rest feels unsafeIdentity beyond roles and productivityGuided journaling for self-connection🎧 Listen, reflect, and take your time returning to yourself.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

The healed version of you doesn’t argue—she moves differently. In the final episode of the New Year, Better Me series, Shawnti reflects on peace, detachment, clarity, and choosing yourself without explanation. This is about integration, not reinvention.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Healing still requires effort. This episode reframes discipline as devotion—not punishment—and challenges the idea that motivation alone leads to change. If you want peace that lasts, this conversation will help you build it intentionally.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

What if you’re not stuck—just afraid? In this episode, Shawnti unpacks the fear of becoming someone new, outgrowing relationships, and losing identities rooted in pain. Healing has a cost, and this conversation names it.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Waiting for closure keeps you tied to people who may never give it. This episode explores why healing doesn’t require apologies, understanding, or acknowledgment—and how waiting can quietly delay your growth. This is a grounding conversation about reclaiming your power without permission.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Being the strong one is praised—but rarely supported. In this episode, Shawnti talks about survival mode, burnout, and the emotional cost of always holding it together. If rest feels unsafe and exhaustion feels normal, this conversation is for you.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Affirmations without boundaries don’t work—and this episode tells the truth about why. Shawnti explores how guilt, access, and emotional over-availability keep people stuck, even when they’re “doing the work.” This conversation challenges the idea that healing is soft and exposes the discomfort required to protect your peace.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

New year, same patterns? Let’s talk about it.In this episode, Shawnti Refuge cuts through the motivation fluff and gets honest about why so many people repeat years instead of changing their lives. This conversation is about comfort, avoidance, survival mode, and the quiet lies we tell ourselves to stay familiar. If you’ve been saying “this is my year” but nothing feels different, this episode will sit with you.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

 The new year isn’t about resolutions — it’s about reclamation. In this powerful finale to the Healing Through the Holidays series, Shawnti Refuge guides listeners through reflection, release, and rebirth. Learn how to reclaim your peace, embody your healing, and prepare to step into The Audacity of a Healing Woman beginning January 14. ✍🏾 JOURNAL PROMPTSLet’s write this out together, sis.What am I ready to stop fighting for that was never meant for me?What am I reclaiming in this next season — my time, voice, body, joy, or peace?What does “audacity” look like in my healing journey?What boundaries or beliefs do I need to carry forward to protect my peace in 2025?Take your time. This is your mirror moment. Be honest and brave. Now listen — this is your moment to stop playing small with your healing. If this Healing Through the Holidays series spoke to you, then you already know you’re ready for what’s next.  So go ahead and join The Audacity of a Healing Woman right now at ShawntiRefuge.comSend us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

 Self-care is not selfish. It’s sacred. In this soothing episode, Shawnti Refuge reminds us that true rest is a form of resistance. Through storytelling and guided prompts, she shares how to release guilt, reset your energy, and build new rituals of nourishment during the holiday season. ✍🏾 JOURNAL PROMPTSGrab your journal, love. Let’s check in with your body and spirit:What does my body need from me right now — rest, movement, nourishment, stillness?Where have I been neglecting myself in the name of being “strong”?What small act of self-care can I commit to every day this week?How can I make peace feel like a daily practice instead of a reward?Write what comes up, even if it surprises you. This is your reminder that maintenance is healing. If you’re ready to stop running on empty, head over to ShawntiRefuge.com and grab your favorite guided journal. Each one is designed to help you slow down, reflect, and reconnect with yourself,  especially when the world gets loud. Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Oprah opened the door to a powerful conversation about estrangement — but there’s a whole side of this experience that didn’t get covered. The grief, the guilt, the identity shift… the part where mothers are hurting too.Estrangement isn’t simple. It isn’t black and white. And it isn’t always about blame — sometimes it’s about survival, emotional safety, and the painful work of breaking generational cycles.In this video, I’m sharing the truths Oprah didn’t talk about, the parts we live through in silence, and why mothers need a safe place to heal too.That’s why I created Mothering in the Dark — a support group for mothers navigating the complex, emotional, and often misunderstood journey of estrangement.If this speaks to your spirit, 👇🏽 Go to motheringinthedark.com to get more information and sign up. You don’t have to walk through this alone.#MotheringInTheDark #EstrangedMoms #FamilyEstrangement #HealingMothers #MotherWoundHealing #EmotionalHealingJourney #ShawntiRefuge #ShawntiRefugeJournalsSend us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

  Boundaries are not rejection — they’re protection. In this powerful episode, Shawnti Refuge dives into why it’s so hard to say no during the holidays, how guilt is part of growth, and why peace should never come with a price tag. Through honest storytelling and guided prompts, you’ll learn how to create guilt-free boundaries that honor your healing. ✍🏾 JOURNAL PROMPTSLet’s get into some reflection work:Where in my life am I saying “yes” when my soul means “no”?What does guilt sound like in my head when I try to set boundaries?Who taught me that saying no was unkind — and is that still true?What’s one boundary I can set this week to protect my peace?Write them down, and then sit with what comes up — no editing, no judgment, just honesty.And don’t forget — the waitlist for my next experience, The Audacity of a Healing Woman, is still open.If you’re ready to stop apologizing for your boundaries and start walking in your wholeness, that’s the space for you. Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

 Grief doesn’t always wear black. In this raw and honest episode, Shawnti Refuge opens up about the silent grief that shows up during the holidays — the kind that comes from broken relationships, lost expectations, and the versions of ourselves we’ve outgrown. Learn how to honor your emotions, redefine healing, and turn your pain into purpose through journaling. ✍🏾 JOURNAL PROMPTSLet’s take a moment to write:What am I grieving this season — even if it’s not a death?What version of myself am I releasing with love?What memory still brings up pain, and what does it teach me about my capacity to love?How can I honor my grief this year — through rest, ritual, or reflection?You don’t have to rush through this one. Take your time. Cry if you need to. Tears are just the body’s way of telling the truth. And don’t forget, my guided journals are designed for moments like this — quiet reflection, deep release, and gentle rebuilding. You can find them at ShawntiRefuge.com. Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

 Some homes feel like healing, others feel like history. In this week’s episode, Shawnti Refuge opens up about the emotional reality of family gatherings during the holidays — and how to protect your peace when family ain’t safe. Learn how to set boundaries, redefine love, and give yourself permission to choose distance without guilt. ✍🏾 JOURNAL PROMPTSPull out your journal, sis. Let’s unpack this together:Who do I become when I’m around my family, and is that version of me still serving me?What’s one boundary I’ve been too afraid to set with a relative, and what would it sound like to say it out loud?What does “safety” look and feel like for me this season?How can I honor my healing without needing others to understand it?Give yourself space to write the truth — even if it stings. Because awareness is the first step to peace.Visit Shawntirefuge.com for more!Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In this powerful episode of The Quiet As Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge dives into the emotional and psychological impact of the ongoing government shutdown — not from a political lens, but a deeply human one.When the government shuts down, it’s not just budgets and offices that pause — it’s people’s peace of mind. Shawnti explores how uncertainty, delayed benefits, and unpaid work create real mental health consequences for families, essential workers, and communities across the country.From the stress of missed paychecks to the silent exhaustion of TSA agents working without pay, this episode shines a light on what it means to survive when systems fail — and how guided journaling can help you reclaim your emotional stability.💜 Inside This Episode:The mental and emotional cost of financial uncertaintyHow benefit delays and job instability trigger trauma responsesThe hidden emotional toll on TSA and essential workersHow to ground yourself when life feels unpredictableGuided journaling prompts to help you process, reflect, and restore peace✍🏾 Journal Prompts from This Episode:Where in my life do I feel the most uncertainty right now?How does that uncertainty show up in my body?What part of my life feels most vulnerable to outside systems?What can I do to regain a small sense of control or peace today?Where am I still showing up for others even when I’m empty?What would rest look like for me — not escape, but restoration?Who in my circle might be struggling silently right now?What truth do I need to speak to myself to feel grounded again?💬 Featured Mentions: ✨ The Audacity of a Healing Woman — a transformational coaching experience for women ready to reclaim their power and peace. ✨ New Year, Better Me — an in-person guided journaling workshop to start 2025 grounded, healed, and intentional.Visit ShawntiRefuge.com to grab your guided journals, sign up for upcoming events, or join the healing community.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

The holidays can bring both joy and grief, especially when you’re carrying unspoken pain. In this episode, Shawnti Refuge opens up about her own healing journey after divorce and shares three powerful pillars for finding peace through the season: honoring your truth, creating rituals that serve you, and setting boundaries that protect your energy. You’ll walk away with fresh perspective, real stories, and guided journaling prompts to help you rewrite your holiday story.✍🏾 JOURNAL PROMPTSTake a breath. Now grab your journal and write through these:What emotions do the holidays bring up for me this year — joy, grief, guilt, peace, or all of the above?What old roles do I tend to slip back into around family or friends?If I could rewrite one holiday tradition, what would it look like?What am I ready to release before this year ends?How will I show up for myself with love — not just for others?Take your time. Remember — this isn’t homework; it’s healing work.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Ever feel like the “strong one” who carries everyone’s problems? In this episode, Shawnti Refuge breaks down why we take on emotional baggage that doesn’t belong to us, and how to finally set it down. Learn how to love without losing yourself, plus a journaling prompt to help you reclaim your peace.Perfect for anyone tired of being the family savior or holding burdens that were never theirs.Applications open for Fallin' For My Damn Self MastermindApply here: http://stan.store/ShawntiRefugeJournals/p/fallin-for-my-damn-self-mastermind Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Fall is coming — and so is the chaos. If you don’t set boundaries now, you’ll be running on fumes by October.In this episode of The Quiet As Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge breaks down why “yes” has been your default answer, how overextending yourself is draining your peace, and why it’s time to pre-decide your limits before the busy season hits.You’ll learn:Why boundaries are an act of self-love (not selfishness)How to identify where you’re overcommittingThe real reason it’s so hard to say “no”A journal prompt to help you protect your capacity without guiltThis is your permission slip to choose yourself first — and keep your energy for the things that matter most.🖤 New series + workshops are coming soon: → Fallin’ For My Damn Self→ The Audacity of a Healing Woman Workshop🎧 Listen now + grab your guided journal at ShawntiRefuge.comSend us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Ever prayed for peace… only to panic when you finally got it?In this episode of The Quiet As Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge breaks down why peace can feel uncomfortable when survival mode has been your normal. From pacing in a quiet house to over-functioning when no one even asked you to, this one goes deep into the nervous system, trauma patterns, and why so many of us sabotage our stillness.You'll learn:Why peace can feel like a threat when you're used to chaosHow generational roles and childhood conditioning keep us in “fix-it” modeThe power of journaling to retrain your nervous systemOne journaling prompt to help you finally sit with safety without guiltThis is your sign to reclaim your calm — before life gets loud again.🖤 New series + workshops are coming soon: → Fallin’ For My Damn Self → The Audacity of a Healing Woman WorkshopGrab your journal. We’re doing the real work over here.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In Episode 36 of The Quiet as Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge speaks directly to those still holding onto hurt, waiting on an apology that may never come. She explores how to reclaim your peace when closure isn’t on the table. With real stories, science-backed insight, and journal prompts, this episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to stop waiting and start healing.🎧 Listen now and explore healing journals at ShawntiRefuge.comSend us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In Episode 35 of The Quiet as Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge explores what it means to transition from survival to softness. If you inherited strength, hustle, and hyper-independence—but now crave rest, joy, and peace—this episode is your permission slip. Through storytelling, neuroscience, and journal prompts, Shawnti shows how softness can be a radical act of self-love.🎧 Tune in now and reclaim your softness at ShawntiRefuge.comSend us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In Episode 34 of The Quiet As Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge challenges the idea that joy must be earned. Instead, she reminds listeners that joy is a daily practice, not a reward for suffering. Through storytelling, science, and powerful journaling prompts, this episode helps you reclaim joy in the ordinary and give yourself permission to feel good—every single day.🎧 Listen now and explore guided journals at ShawntiRefuge.comSend us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In Episode 33 of The Quiet as Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge explores the subtle—but powerful—difference between isolation and peace. Is your solitude part of your healing… or a shield from your pain? This episode offers gentle truth, powerful journaling prompts, and a reminder that real peace doesn’t require you to go numb.🎧 Listen now and download journaling tools at ShawntiRefuge.comSend us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In Episode 32 of The Quiet as Kept Podcast, Shawnti Refuge kicks off the Reclaiming Joy series by asking two powerful questions: What does joy mean to you, and when did you lose it? Through storytelling, science, and guided journaling prompts, she helps listeners explore how trauma and survival mode can strip us of joy—and what it takes to get it back.🎧 Tune in now and visit ShawntiRefuge.com for guided journals and mental wellness support.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In this emotionally raw episode, Shawnti Refuge shares her personal experience navigating the mother wound, including going no contact with her mother to protect her mental health. This episode explores what happens when maternal love comes wrapped in trauma, how to begin healing, and how journaling can support you through it.🎧 Tune in and visit ShawntiRefuge.com to access support tools, journaling prompts, and safe healing spaces.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In this gentle and powerful episode, Shawnti Refuge explores unresolved grief—the lingering kind that we carry silently. Whether you’ve lost a person, a relationship, or a version of yourself, this episode offers space to name your loss, honor your story, and begin healing with the help of guided journaling prompts and soulful reflection.🎧 Listen now and visit ShawntiRefuge.com for free support tools and healing journals.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In this episode, Shawnti Refuge unpacks the emotional toll of being “the strong one” in the family. From childhood pressure to cultural expectations, she shares her personal story and the psychological impact of performing strength. Learn how journaling helped her release the weight and reclaim softness—and how you can do the same.🎧 Listen now and visit ShawntiRefuge.com to access support and healing tools.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In this raw and powerful episode, Shawnti Refuge shares her personal journey of going no contact with her mother for the sake of her mental health. She unpacks the emotional weight of choosing peace over patterns, especially in cultures where family is held sacred—even at the expense of wellbeing. This is a must-listen for anyone navigating toxic family dynamics and the grief of protecting your peace.🎧 Listen now and visit ShawntiRefuge.com for healing tools, support, and journal prompts.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In this follow-up episode, Shawnti Refuge shares her personal story from Quiet As Kept—a chapter about being estranged from her children and the journey of reconnection. She discusses what it means to rebuild trust, hold space for uncomfortable truths, and begin again. If you're navigating healing after distance, this episode is your reminder: restoration is possible.🎧 Listen now and visit ShawntiRefuge.com to join the support group and grab your journal.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In this deeply heartfelt episode, Shawnti Refuge unpacks the complex grief of estrangement between parents and adult children. Whether you’re grieving in silence or trying to understand what went wrong, this episode offers reflection, journal prompts, and emotional support.🎧 Listen now and visit ShawntiRefuge.com for the free ebook Still Love You, Always and support group details.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In this deeply personal episode, Shawnti Refuge shares how journaling helped her reclaim her voice after trauma, depression, and years of performing strength. She opens up about the healing process behind her book Quiet As Kept and invites listeners to start writing their own comeback story.🎧 Listen now and visit ShawntiRefuge.com to begin your journaling journey back to power.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Start your week with peace, not pressure. In this episode, Shawnti Refuge shares guided journaling prompts designed to help you release overwhelm, refocus your energy, and step into the week with clarity. These prompts are perfect for busy minds, anxious hearts, and anyone ready to make their healing a priority.🎧 Tune in now and visit ShawntiRefuge.com for more prompts, guided journals, and support.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In this powerful episode, Shawnti Refuge gets real about the stigma surrounding mental health in the Black community. She shares her personal story, the psychology behind silence, and journaling tools to help you speak your truth. Whether you’ve been dismissed, overlooked, or told to “just be strong,” this episode reminds you: strength is also softness.🎧 Listen now and visit ShawntiRefuge.com for resources, journals, and support.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Journaling isn’t just writing—it’s healing. In this episode, Shawnti Refuge breaks down the neuroscience behind journaling and shares how putting pen to paper helped her overcome anxiety and depression. You’ll learn about different styles of journaling, how to make it a habit, and why it’s one of the most powerful tools for mental wellness—especially in the Black community.🎧 Tune in now and visit ShawntiRefuge.com for resources, prompts, and coaching.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

In this episode, Shawnti Refuge gets real about burnout—what it looks like, how it creeps in, and how journaling helped her move from survival mode to sustainability. You’ll learn practical, soulful tips for creating balance as a busy professional and how to rewrite your relationship with rest.🎧 Listen now and visit ShawntiRefuge.com to grab your journal and reclaim your peace.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Healing is not just about surviving—it’s about thriving. In this episode, we discuss how to embrace joy after trauma, why happiness can feel uncomfortable after pain, and how to cultivate more peace and joy in your daily life. 🎧 Listen now: thequietaskeptpodcast.buzzsprout.com📍 Find mindset-shifting exercises in Quiet As Kept at ShawntiRefuge.com.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals

Success can be just as scary as failure. If you’ve ever held yourself back due to fear of the unknown, this episode is for you. We discuss why fear of success is real, how it manifests, and how to overcome it. 🎧 Listen now: thequietaskeptpodcast.buzzsprout.com📍 Find mindset-shifting exercises in Quiet As Kept at ShawntiRefuge.com.Send us Fan MailSupport the showShawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guided journaling for mental wellness. After overcoming severe depression and anxiety through journaling, Shawnti developed her own program, empowering individuals to heal and thrive without medication. She is the creator of Shawnti Refuge Journals, which carries a series of guided journals designed to help others release past traumas. With her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Shawnti's mission is to inspire personal growth and self-awareness. She is the founder of Stayin' Stuck Ain't Cute Coaching and a passionate advocate for mental health in both business and community settings. Website:ShawntiRefuge.comSocial media:IG: @shawntirefugejournalsFB: Shawnti Refuge JournalsTikTok: @shawntijournalbaeYouTube:  @shawntirefugejournals