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Thrive Beyond Pornography — 169 episodes
New podcast Direction
How we justify and it leads to porn
Principles and the New FSY Guide
Begin to Thrive Beyond Pornography
Why do People view porn before bed?
How to never fail again at overcoming pornography forever
Re-Focus, Re-Habit, Re-think to Overcome Porn Forever
Viewing Pornography is A Lot Like Getting A Participation Trophy
Will More Sex Will Solve My Porn Problem?
If you watch porn again, I'm divorcing you
How do I trust my spouse after pornography use
How do I get my wife to trust me again
Becoming More Desirable
Overcoming Pornography Takes Time - Just like your yard
Overcome Pornography Client Interview - Josh and Amber
Overcoming Pornography Even When We Feel Shame
Overcoming Pornography is Possible-True Story
Overcome Porn - Focus on You
Avoiding Pornography
A Thank You Letter to Porn
What it takes to quit pornography
How To Ruin a Night Out: Three tips
3 secrets to managing emotions
How we talk about pornography matters, here is why.-Interview with Latter-Day Life Coaches -
Families are Being Torn Apart By Pornography Use
Thought Control - Overcoming Pornography
3 Keys to Using Prayer to Overcome Pornography
Being a Forever Porn Addict Is Exhausting
What it Takes To Overcome Pornography - 9 Items
What is Pornography Addiction?
The Power To Never View Pornography Again
Telling Your Partner About Your Pornography Struggle
Overcoming Pornography is not About Getting Rid of Everything
Choice Point To Overcome Pornography
Overcoming Pornography through Differentiation - Series 5 of 5
Intimacy Requires Risk - The Secret to Intimacy Series: Chapter 4 of 5
Improving marital intimacy when overcoming pornography - The Secret to Intimacy Series: Chapter 3 of 5
Overcome Pornography Through Self Confrontation -The Secret to Intimacy Series: Chapter 2 of 5
Reorganize to Overcome Pornography - The Secret to Intimacy Series: Chapter 1 of 5
Couples overcoming pornography - Client Interview - Eric and Jackie
Will I Ever Be Enough - How my beliefs kept me from overcoming pornography sooner
Goals Can Be Traps
Betrayal Trauma, Overcoming Pornography, Infidelity, and Sex - with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
Accountability Apps
Two Skills for a Merry Christmas
I'm at rock bottom - now what?
Teens Quit Porn
Motivation To Quit
Is this going to help me end my porn struggle?
Worthiness is not Flawlessness - Brad Wilcox
Bad Habit Intervention
Overcoming Pornography For Women - Client Interview with Andrea Marks
Six Steps To Deal With Unwanted Urges To View Porn
Sex is not a need
The Urge to View Pornography Is Out There Waiting To Get You
My wife used sex as a way to try and control me and I wanted her to.
Overcoming Pornography by Practicing the Values We Have
Overcome Pornography by Choosing Values Instead of Goals
Success in Overcoming Pornography for Good For Past Clients - Jonathan Layton
3 Steps To Talk With Your Inner Karen
Should I Stop Looking At Pornogaphy
Questions From Our Live Sunday School Lesson
Alone and NOT Afraid
FOOD:PORN
Wives Wednesday - Compassion, Empathy, and Love
The Model
Pornography is not the problem - Change the conversation from fear to love
When Marriage Is Hard
To Be a Vulnerability Partner
Three Steps Down the Rabbit Hole
BONUS - Wive's Wednesday - Mom Jeans and Spinning Brains
Freedom
Accountability Partners
Radical Honesty
Fear Not When talking about tough subjects
Bonus Episode - Ben Pugh and I talk about parenting and pornography
Healthy Sexuality
Three Minute Drill
Climbing Life's Mountains
Emotional Debtor
Darcy on how to be a mom who can talk to their kids about pornography.
I'm An Addict, Right?
Do you hold your husband to an impossible standard?
Exercising Faith and Prayer to eliminate pornography - part 2
Faith and Prayer in eliminating Pornography - Part 1
Easter, the Atonement and Agency
What Does Life After Pornography Look Like?
Creating Priorities Make It Easier to Say No
When Pornography is Exciting
I only look occasionally, is that ok?
Helping your kids navigate pornography - 4 key skills
Committing to requests
Conceive, Believe, Achieve
Things to think about before going to the beach
3 Tips for overcoming pornography on Business Trips
Eliminate Shame - 3 Steps
If I don't tell her, I'm not going to hurt her
Three Keys For How to Make Your Wife Happy
3 Essentials to Create New Habits
Why We Give Pornography So Much Power
Why would my husband look at pornography when he can use me?
5 Keys to Trust Again
- About Intimacy with Amanda Louder
A Young Woman Struggles with Pornography Use
Demand Your Spouse Change
Your Brain is a Liar
Client Interview With Eric and Jackie - The Impact of Coaching
Motivation isn't as helpful as tiny habits
Connect with what you truly want
Don't Give Away Your Power To Be Happy
Abdication v delegation
Learn Something, Move Forward
How do I know I'm ready to change?
How much power does pornography have?
Believing you are an addict
The Last Time I Started Down the Rabbit Hole
Get on the Map
Live Your Best Life!
Own your life - 3 keys
The Day I Lost My Job
What role are you playing
Who you think you are, who you are and who you want to be
17 Amazing Lessons From 17 Years of Marriage
How to know if you can trust your spouse again
Bonus Episode- Pain pursues pleasure, with my friend Diana Swillinger
Wanting vs Committed
4 Simple steps to stop using pornography
Your brain is working perfectly
Triggers - a conversation with Darcy
Let me tell you how you should behave
Four Secret Steps To Help Your Spouse Stop Using Pornography
Willpower is the wrong tool
Pain now or Pain Later
Letting go of Control
Focusing on What Is
Fear is holding you back
Why would my husband lie to me?
4 Secrets to having more joy in your life.
Accountability is Awesome
3 Questions that I ask when someone says, "I'm an addict"
Emotions are a lot like bears
Getting Things Done - Bonus episode
I feel love in spite of the corona virus
Victim Mentality
Interview with Jessie Ellertson - Coach for Military Moms
Action Bias
Battle of the brains
Feel good - own your pain
Better at life by understanding infinite games
Relationships - trust
Why feelings matter - with Darcy Spafford
The Story of Zach and Darcy - Interview with Natalie Clay
Overcoming pornography requires self confidence - 3 Key components of self confidence -
3 Essential Truths About Your Lovability
How to solve any problem: 5 key elements
4 ways to keep your cool and be happy at Christmas
Fall forward
Life is 50/50 - how do you make that work for you?
3 things to build the person you want to be
Boundaries - how to set them
Urges - How do you stop feeling trapped by them
Choices - Solutions to get unstuck
Five things you can do:
How to stop buffering
Buffering - What is it and why are you doing it?
The 12 steps are probably not working for you
Believe - it is the key to change
Failure is a good thing and here's why
Agency and Addictive behaviors