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Help Me Understand — 302 episodes

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Make Fitness Make Sense, Episode 2: The Cortisol Panic Is Getting Out of Hand

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300. Virtue signaling, Juneteenth, the cost of convenience

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Make Fitness Make Sense, Episode 1 - Collagen, Recovery After 30, and Letting Go of Fitness Guilt

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299. Caleb Williams paints his nails, Uber’s Women Preferences, and why context gets lost online

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298. Full-body workouts, body recomp frustration, and using AI for fitness (Q&A)

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297. Calories in calories out, logging Smith machine weights, choosing home equipment, & asking better questions (Fitness Q+A)

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296. How to be consistent when life feels chaotic

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295. How science-based fitness claims try to fool you.

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294. Shame-based fitness content, Barre for strength, and isolating muscle groups (Q&A)

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293. 3 types of people who make or break your fitness habits

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292. 4 good things (weekly good news & gratitude)

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291. Bread, calories, and weight gain… something isn’t adding up

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290. Late workouts wrecking sleep, group exercise coaching, logging weights, & increasing protein (Q+A)

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289. 4 good things (weekly good news & gratitude)

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288. Stuck between getting jacked and staying athletic?

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287. 6 good things (weekly good news & gratitude)

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286. Are under-the-desk pedal machines an exercise hack?

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285. 8 good things (weekly good news & gratitude)

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284. Are you using rest days effectively?

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283. 7 good things (weekly dose of good news)

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282. Is macro coaching a scam?

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281. 3 good things (weekly dose of good news)

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280. Morning workouts, getting back in the gym, and adjusting your plan (Q&A)

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279. 9 good things (weekly dose of good news)

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278. 2-hour workouts, quitting your fitness journey, bodybuilding protocols for lifestyle clients (Q&A)

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277. Cutting caffeine, fasted lifting, trying CrossFit, and judgemental personal trainers

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276. The work behind the workout

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275. Breaking Strength Plateaus Without Overthinking Your Training

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274. Flexibility isn't the starting point

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273. Finding the middle after fitness extremes (w/Deanna Harder)

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272. Put It on Hold: How to Stay Consistent in an Overloaded World

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271. You don't have choices. You have options.

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270. Losing workout motivation in your 40s, starting point for buying dumbbells (Fitness Q&A)

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269. Struggling after #75Hard, Best macros tracker, Cutting carbs, and more (Fitness Qs)

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268. Why identity makes habits stick

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267. The 'messy middle' of goal setting

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266. The secret sauce for consistency

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265. Start today.

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264. An encore year: Planning what comes next (with Melissa)

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263. Are your barriers actually real?

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262. How your habits drift off course

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261. Making sense of sleep debt

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260. Scamming season, body positivity, and gratitude.

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259. Tips for shifting to morning workouts

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258. Zone 2 (the uncomplicated version)

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257. After the health & fitness 'wake up' call

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256. One habit is enough...for now

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255. Why diets fail

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254. What's really behind "travel weight" gain

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253. “Losing muscle at 40” is mostly a myth

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252. The F.A.T.T. assessment for your fitness

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251. When life gets in the way of your goals

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250. Let's talk about stress and weight gain

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249. Should you skip the warmup?

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248. Fighting on the internet

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247. 5 keys to tracking macros (and 5 reasons you shouldn't)

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246. When events linger longer than they should

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245. Stoicism, faith, and perspective

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244. Creatine confusion (timing + adding to coffee)

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243. Should you take the (cold) plunge? (Exploring the origins, science, and benefits of cold exposure)

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242. The unexpected lessons that shape how I coach

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241. Do GLP-1s negatively impact your nutrition quality?

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240. Long drive, strong habits (The road trip playbook)

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239. Is 1% better always about doing more?

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238. Cardio, simplified: Understanding intensity, fat loss, and heart health

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237. Unattainable physiques, CPB funding cuts, AI coaching, and what we notice

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236. A subtle sign of habit formation (that you're probably overlooking)

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235. Collagen protein, guilt over rest days, training frequency (Q&A episode)

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234. Crafting an impactful affirmation statement

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233. Delusion, Theo Huxtable, and struggle language

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232. Menopause talk for men

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231. When and why you need to "know your why"

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230. Science Says (Not all studies are created equal)

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229. Before you commit to something, ask this one question.

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228. Why you set bigger goals when you miss the smaller one(s)

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227. Let's talk about bloating and inflammation

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226. Setbacks Build Fitness Resilience

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225. Same Question, Different Answers: Opinion vs. Advice vs. Counsel

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224. Avoid majoring in the minors...what really matters for strength training

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223. Heard it all before: 5 Fitness & nutrition habits that actually work

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222. Going from burned out to built up: Redefining strength w/coach Alejandra

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221. Hard Days, Easy Days, and the Power of Knowing the Difference

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220. "Am I Losing Muscle?"...What You Really Need to Know About Breaks, Injury & Travel

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219. Before you start something new...

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218. Beyond the Mirror: Reasons to Build Muscle That Truly Matter

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217. High Intensity Interval...Walking???

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216. When ‘Sustainable’ Isn’t the Goal (in Fitness and Nutrition)

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215. How To Know If Your Maintenance Phase Is Working

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214. What If The Fear of 'Too Much' Is Keeping You Small?

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213. Still in the Game: How to Train Smart with a Knee Injury

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212. Plateau or Just a Bad Week? 3 Signs to Watch For

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211. Bridging the Gap: Accessibility, Coaching, and Adaptive Sports with Roni Andrew

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210. The Truth About Water, Electrolytes, and the 8-Glass Rule

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209. Committing to "1% better" is harder than you think

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208. Let's talk about fat burning supplements

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207. Outcome bias (a lesson from 'SignalGate')

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206. How often should you change your workouts?

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205. Getting stronger by shifting from perfectionism to progress w/Anita Fehr

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204. Finding Answers, Seeking Validation, & Avoiding Discomfort

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203. 4 Reasons To Train Your Core (getting a six pack isn't one of them)

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202. Five Lessons from Five Years of Podcasting

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201. Coach, Influencer...What's The Difference?

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200. Why Doing The Inner Work Matters w/Jim Hallinan

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199. Mastering your workouts with mind muscle connection

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198. Is it really all or "nothing" thinking?

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197. Burning Calories 101 (All About TDEE)

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196. Mindless TV, managing our mentals, activism, Kendrick's performance, and more (w/Joy Parrish)

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195. What type of body fat are you trying to lose?

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194. Designing your year & the lessons learned along the way (with M.C.)

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193. Black history month series: Samuel Reynolds (my grandfather)

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192. Out Training a Bad Diet: Myth or Reality?

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191. Should you weigh yourself post-workout?

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190. The importance of self-review for coaches, parents, & leaders at all levels

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189. Understanding the post-college athlete's identity shift w/Kendra Lahue

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188. Finding your compass in turbulent times

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187. Why is BMI a lie?

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186. The surprising link between habit formation and cosmetic surgery

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185. Client-centric coaching beyond macros and weigh-ins w/Gillian Bennett

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184. Is doing cardio before weights better for fat loss?

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183. Transforming 3 seconds of frustration into 3 things to be grateful for

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182. Use the B.U.D.D.Y.Y system to be a great workout partner

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181. Weight Loss vs. Muscle Building: What Should You Prioritize?

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180. Easy to commit, hard to cancel

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179. The most important expense you MUST review in your 2025 budget

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178. Thank you

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177. Change the way you interpret "signs"

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176. A simple language shift to improve your output

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175. Are you strong enough?

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174. 3 fitness & health questions nobody asked me

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173. How to complete 75 Hard (my perspective)

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172. What if you don't enjoy exercising?

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171. Exploring my top 5 podcasts of 2024 (Spotify Wrapped)

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170. Building, maintaining, & improving habits with the 4A framework

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169. Say it like you mean it...the power of intentional language

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168. Maintaining your workout schedule over the holidays (POP replay)

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167. Should kids lift weights?

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166. "Is this enough?": Understanding client needs in fitness

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165. Working through gym (weight room) intimidation

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164. Mookie Betts put on a masterclass on handling disrespect

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163. Advocacy requires action.

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162. Ready for Resilience w/Greg Rogers of Get Ready Fitness

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161. "Everything in moderation" is incomplete advice

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160. Maggie's perspective: Do's & don'ts when someone you know has cancer.

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159. Navigating self-doubt

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158. Play offense all week: A mindset shift.

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157. Taylor's story of re-engaging her authentic self, pursuing multiple fitness categories, and shifting her relationship with alcohol.

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156. Two misconceptions about gratitude.

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155. Solo: Learning more from the process than the outcome.

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154. Solo: When progress feels like treading water.

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153. Convo w/Betsy Foster: Getting strong is simple, not easy.

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152. Solo: The "functional training" argument.

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151. Solo: Crossfit Games business decisions

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150. Solo: Handling comments about your "healthy" choices.

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149. Solo: Habits to support your fitness goals.

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148. Solo: Finding Supportive People & Communities

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147. Solo: Feedback from listeners

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146. Solo: Should trainers workout with their clients?

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145. Solo: When men label women as "DEI hires".

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144. Solo: You're not going to get "bulky"...the real reasons why

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143. Solo: Accepting compliments & documenting progress.

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142. Solo: Verbal framing for goal achievement

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141. Solo: 80/20

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140. Solo: Making habits portable

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139. Conversation: The transition from 'fit friend' to coach w/Kylie Larson

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138. Solo: A simple word change to increase results.

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137. Solo: Answering the wake up call.

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136. Solo: Invites to the negativity party.

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135. Solo: Trump's "Black jobs" comment.

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134. Solo: 6 ways to break out of your fitness funk.

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133. Solo: My intentional daily practice.

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132. Conversation: What it's like to play youth sports (with Mason McLeod, 11 years old)

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131. Solo: A real life interaction that inspired me.

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130. Solo: Taking ownership over your decisions.

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129. Solo: Two ways to approach fitness & nutrition challenge programs (LRL clip)

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128. Solo: The irony of advice to "Play it safe".

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127. Solo: Progress Outside The Numbers

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126. Solo: Put Yourself On The Hook

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125. Solo: Oprah's Weight Loss Special, Quick Fixes, and more...

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124. Solo: The Time I Got Fired and Found My Fitness Consistency

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123. Solo: Question Your "Consistency"

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122. Conversation: Maria. Self-Acceptance Through Writing and Fitness

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121. Solo: Are Video Games For Kids Useful or Useless?

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120. Perspective Shift: Emilie's Story

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119. Solo: What Makes You Different Is What Makes The Difference

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118. Conversation: Competitive Bodybuilding with Phil (Fitness Journey, Challenges of Prep, Sacrifices, and Rewards)

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117. Solo: You Choose Your Start Date

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116. Conversation: Words of Intention with M.C. (Navigating Goals, Social Media Breaks, and Yearly Themes)

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115. Perspective Shift: Claire's Story

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114. Four Things I Did That Changed My Relationship With My Phone

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113. The "Why" Behind The Perspective Shift Episodes

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112. Perspective Shift: Jeff's Story

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111. Fat Loss Recap, Part 2: Training, Post-Cut Strategy, and Takeaways

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110. Fat Loss Recap, Part 1: Goals and Nutrition Strategy

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109. Perspective Shift: Terrance's Story

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108. What Product Development Teaches Us About Personal Development

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107. Perspective Shift: Amy's Story

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106. Planning For The Holiday "Season"

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105. Fat Loss, Pink Washing, and the Middle East

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104. Winning and Losing: Navigating Life's Halftime Lead

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103. Supporting Men After Miscarriage w/Kelly Jean-Phillipe

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102. Coaching In-Person Again, School Bus Company Drama, and more (Friday Four)

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101. Reflections & Lessons from 100 Podcast Episodes

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100. "Harder To Kill" w/Coach AJ Cacioppo

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99. Gratitude and Greatness (Friday Four)

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98. Keeping Commitments, Fat Loss, and Hawaii Wildfires (Friday Four)

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97. A Missing Piece in Your Success Plan

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96. Friday Four #19 - Four topics...unscripted, unfiltered, and probably unplanned.

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95. How To Set Daily Intentions For The Week

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Introducing: Lifting, Running, & Living w/Kelly and JK

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Friday Four #18 - Four topics...unscripted, unfiltered, and probably unplanned.

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92. Collab Episode w/Coach Kelly Lutz - Influencing, Gymtimidation, Training While Traveling, & 75 Hard

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Friday Four #17 - Four topics...unscripted, unfiltered, and probably unplanned.

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90. "How I Found My Life's Purpose...On Purpose" w/Kylie Larson

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89. Competing, Coaching, & Overcoming Challenges w/Coach & IFBB Pro Tee Idahosa

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88. 4 Things I Would Do Differently As A Client

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87. Talking Sports: NCAA Mens Basketball Tournament Updates & Predictions w/Mason McLeod

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86. Friday Four #16

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85. Talking Sports w/Mason McLeod

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84. Weight-Neutral Strength Coaching w/Mark Breedon

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83. Friday Four #15

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82. Are You Prepared For The Opportunity You're Wishing For?

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81. Friday Four #14

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80. Friday Four #13

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79. Friday Four #12

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78. Three Things You're Probably Doing Right On Your Fitness Journey

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77. Friday Four #11

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76. Friday Four #10

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75. Considerations For Returning To Workouts After Being Sick w/Kelly Lutz

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74. How I Took My Power Back w/Meghan Myers

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Episode 73 - Friday Four #9

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Friday Four #8

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Episode 71 - Moving Through All or Nothing Thinking w/Run & Strength Coach Kelly Lutz

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Episode 70 - Friday Four #7

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Episode 69 - Understanding Your Assignment

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Episode 68 - Friday Four #6

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Episode 67 - What I Would Do If I Started Over Today

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Episode 66 - Friday Four #5

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Episode 56 - Friday Four #4

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Episode 55 - Building A Workout Using the Power of Your Personality

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Episode 54 - Friday Four #3

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Episode 53 - Friday Four #2

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Episode 52 - What/Who Got You Here Won't Get You There

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Episode 51 - Friday Four #1

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Episode 50 - "Consistency is not your problem"

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Ep. 49 - Why It Matters To Me: A perspective on the importance of representation

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Episode 48 - Paying It Forward Through Compassionate & Conscious Coaching w/Ren Jones

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Episode 47 - True Life: I Joined A Support Group

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Episode 46 - "Legacy Lessons"

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Episode 45 - "Standards vs. Expectations"

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Episode 44 - Building Nutritional Habits With A Values-Based Approach w/Gilllian Bennett

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Episode 43 - Conversation From The Frontline of Covid-19 w/Lauri Brown

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Help Me Understand - Episode 42, "Staples For The Storm"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 41, "Daily Intentions"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 40, "Resolutions...Do They Work?"

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Help Me Understand Ep. 39 - "Who you are is why you CAN succeed"

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Help Me Understand Ep. 38 - The Intersection of Mental Health, Fitness, and Nutrition w/Joy Parrish, LPC

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Help Me Understand - Episode 37, "The Consistency Clapback"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 36, "The Arrogance of Waiting"

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Episode 35 - A Conversation About Confidence w/Erica Lockett & Cori Strong

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Help Me Understand - Episode 34, "The Difference Between Who I Am and What I Am"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 33, The Origin Story of "Help Me Understand"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 32, "Watch Your Mouth: Self-Talk"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 31 - "Keeping It Real: Following Your Calling"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 30, "Best/Worst Advice"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 29, "Sacrifice Required"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 28, "My Journey From Serving in the Military to Serving Others" with Julie Noyes

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Help Me Understand - Episode 27, "Perfection & Consistency"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 26, "The Scouting Report"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 25, “Passion, Purpose, & Protest” w/Alexis Viele of Paper For The People

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Help Me Understand - Episode 24, “Mental Toughness”

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Help Me Understand - Episode 23, "Evaluating Your Strength"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 22, "2020 Baggage"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 21, "Reframe and Take Action"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 20, "Evaluating Personal Relationships In A Post-Election World" w/Charles Joujoute

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Help Me Understand - Episode 17, "Staying Focused On Your Vision"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 19, "The Aftermath: 75 Days After #75Hard" - w/Taylor Hansen

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Help Me Understand - Episode 18, "Winning The Race Begins In Your Mind" - w/Jenni Schierman

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Help Me Understand (Bonus Episode) - "Good Decision or Bad Decision?"

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Help Me Understand (Bonus Episode) - "Just Keep Showing Up"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 16, "Why Coaches Need Coaching" - w/Mike Millner (Owner, Peak Optimization Performance)

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Help Me Understand - Episode 15, "Back To School...?" - w/Maggie Lakebrink, School Psychologist

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Help Me Understand - Episode 14, "My Journey From Bikini & Figure to Powerlifting" w/Jen Gaeding

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Help Me Understand - Episode 13, "Building Grit Through #75Hard" with First Responder Nick Wingo

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Help Me Understand - Episode 12, "Building Your Pillars of Character" with Jeff McLeod

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Help Me Understand - Episode 11, "CrossFit and Culture" w/Terrance 'Tee' Smith

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"Do You Know Who the F*** I Am?" (SAFE for work)

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Help Me Understand - Episode 10, "Parenting Children with Autism" w/Jessica Colton

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Help Me Understand - Episode 9, "Lessons From The #75Hard Challenge" w/Kyle Guerrero

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Choosing Discomfort, Finding Inspiration in Loss, & Putting Energy Into What Could Go Right.

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Help Me Understand - Episode 8, "A Conversation About Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion" w/Dr. Jessica Garcia

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Help Me Understand - Episode 7, "Growth Through Being of Service to Others" w/Mark Jenkins

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Help Me Understand - Episode 6, "Roundtable Discussion on the Impact of the Ahmaud Arbery Case" w/Laurence Bell & Mike Millner

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Help Me Understand - Episode 5, Re-airing of JK's episode as a guest on the Mind Over Macros Podcast (Episode 92) w/Coach & Author Mike Millner

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Quick Bite Episode 4/29/2020 - "Why I Won't Quit A Workout"

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Help Me Understand - Episode 4, "The Pursuit of Potential" with Taylor Lakin Hansen, TayloredForYou Coaching

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Help Me Understand - Episode 3, "Dads Uplifting Dads" with Jay Skibbens from Childrens Home And Aid

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Help Me Understand - Episode 2 with Emilie Karun, Personal Development Coach

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Help Me Understand - Quick Bite Episode 3/25/2020: Filter Your Frustration

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Help Me Understand - Quick Bite (Bonus Episode) 3/10/2020: Reconnect With Your "Why"

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Help Me Understand - Quick Bite (Bonus Episode) 3/3/2020: Unlimited Tanning

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Help Me Understand - Quick Bite (Bonus Episode) 2/25/2020: Somebody Believed In You

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Help Me Understand - Episode 1 with Maggie Lakebrink, Child Psychologist