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#533: Was I Actually Cheating?

#532: How Do I Not Let Tough Trials Take Out Your Recovery?

#531: What's There To Do After You've Checked All The Boxes In Life?

#530: My Spouse And I Don't Agree On How To Move Forward. What Should I Do?

#529: What Does A Healthy Therapeutic Disclosure Look And Feel Like ?

#528: Why Is Adventure Important In Recovery ?

#527: How To Heal Your Trauma

#526: When Is It Time To Get Divorced?

#525: The Power Of The Spiritual Wrestle In Recovery

#524: A Few Things To Consider If Your Want Your Relationship to Last

#523: What's Not Pretty (but necessary) In The Recovery Process?

#522: What Are The Consequences Of Unprocessed Pain

#521: What Does Healing From Trauma Actually Look Like?

#520: Am I The Co-star Or The Leading Role In My Own Life?

#519: I Got Caught CHEATING, What Do I Do? (Part 2)

#518: I Got Caught CHEATING, What Do I Do? (Part 1)

#517: How To Get Someone To Tell The Truth About Cheating?

#516: How Do We Have Great Sex That Gets Better Over Time

#515: Do We Give The Devil Too Much Credit?

#514: What Is Your Process For Helping Couples Find Recovery After Infidelity?

#513: I Just Got Cheated On, What Should I Do (Part 2)

#512: I Just Got Cheated On, What Should I Do (Part 1)

#511: Our Marriage Is In A Stalemate, What Now?

#510: How Can I Know My True Identity And Worth When I Continue To Relapse?

#509: What Advice Would You Give To Your Pre-married Self?

#508: How Do I Adjust To Being A Single Parent?

#507: I Feel Like I'm Stuck In Ground Hog Day In My Relationship And I Don't Know Which part Is Mine.

#506: What Are The Different Levels Of Recovery?

#505: Is My Partner Weaponizing the Language of Recovery?

#504: Why Is It Good That We Are Always Dying?

#503: Because Of My Kids I Have To Navigate Life With My Ex, How Do I Do That Without Resentment?

#502: Where Do I Go From Ground Zero?

#501: If We Want To Heal Our Marriage, What Ought We To Do?

#500: I'm Getting Burned Out With Recovery, Is It Ok To Take A Step Back?

#499: I've Been Betrayed, But There's No Good Help For Me.

#498: 5 Misnomers About Healthy Relationships.

#497: How Much Information Is Too Much Information?

#496: How Do I Get More Of What I Want In Life?

#495: How Do I Date With Intention After Divorce?

#494: Stories From The Longest Night

#493: What Is Ultimate Interdependency?

#492: What Should My Boundary Look Like Around My Husband’s Relapses?

#491: I Can’t Seem To Move On After Divorce

#490: 5 Things To Know About Your Therapist And How It Can Help You

#489: Does Religion Really Cause Sexual Shame?

#488: I’ve Been Working Recovery For A While And I’m Still Having A Hard Time Trusting

#487: How Can Healthy Boundaries Help You Love Your Family More During The Holidays

#486: What is Ambiguous Grief?

#485: What The Play "Suffs"Taught Me About Courage, Purpose & Creating Change

#484: Where Does Sexual Shame Come From?

#483: Energetic Hygiene: What Is It And How Do I Cultivate It?

#482: How Can I Become Safe To The People I Have Hurt Without Rushing The Process?

#481: What Does It Mean To Have A Battle To Fight?

#480: Let’s Have A Conversation About Boundaries

#479: How Do I Hold Boundaries When I Feel Like He’s Just Going Through The Motions To Appease Me ?

#478 : Liberate Yourself with Positive Thinking

#477: Is My Life Progressing in a Healthy Way?

#476 : I Have Experienced a Change of Heart, But How Do I Make It Last?

# 475 : Let’s Talk About Step 8 and a Half for Recovery

#474: Let's Break Down The Masks

#473: 4 Things To Do To Take Care Of Your Mental Health

#472: How To Find Peace No Matter What

#471: My Child Was Present At The Charlie Kirk Shooting, How Do I Help them Manage The Trauma?

#470: How do I TRUST my recovery enough to face and OVERCOME my deepest Fears and avoid Repeating History

#469: 4 Common Myths About Healing From Sex Addiction and Betrayal

#468: How do I find healthy ways to know that I am enough if I don’t have physical intimacy?

#467: I’m At A Crossroads In My Relationship And I Am Not Sure Which Way To Go…

#466: Let’s Tell some Stories of Recovery

#465: Most Commonly Searched Questions On AI About Betrayal

#464: Our relationship feels like a yo-yo after betrayal. How long do I keep doing this?

#463: Why Do I feel Closer To My Partner After They Disclose Something Hard?

#462: Let’s Have a good Laugh

#461: What are the 4 biggest problems in relationships?

#460: Should I Include My Spouse in My Trauma Healing?

#459: Why Should I do Something Insane?

#458: Am I Damaging My Relationship With My Kids by Holding Boundaries With My Ex?

#457: How does Leaning into my Emotions Help My Recovery?

#456: What if my spouse and I differ with our direction in faith?

#455: Is It OK For A Woman To Be Angry?

#454: How do we BREAK our Unhealthy Relational Patterns?

#453: What Is IFS And How Can It HELP Me?

#452: Why are we TIRED of Talking about Surface Level Recovery?

#451: Will My Spouse Ever WANT Me Again?

#450: Everything my partner does BOTHERS Me. How do we get unstuck?

#449: How Do I Take Ownership Of Myself And Be Supportive Of My Spouse?

#448: Why are So Many Men UNHAPPY?

#447: How Do I Show EMPATHY For my Spouse Without Getting Defensive?

#446: Should I STAY in a Sexless Relationship?

#445: How Can I Get My Spouse To Tell The Truth About Cheating?

#444: Things Aren’t CHANGING, Where Should I Go From Here?

#443: Is our relationship forever TAINTED because of BETRAYAL?

#442: Can We Make the Message More Inclusive Without Losing the Mission?

#441: Why is Couple’s Therapy not Working?

#440: Are Daily Checkins Good or Bad for a Relationship

#439: How Do You Define What a Sex Addiction Is

#438: How Do I Get BETTER At Empathy?

#437: Let’s Break Down Brannon’s BREAKDOWN

#436: How Do I Embrace My Femininity And Have Fun Doing It?

#435: Let's Talk About Suicide

#434 : I’m Afraid My HEALTHY Boundaries Will END My Marriage

#433: Why Does It Feel Like It’s Always HARDER Than It Should Be?

#432: Why I LOVE My Addiction

#431: Why Are You Getting What You Are Getting In Life?

#430: Tyler And Brannon Shoot Straight About The Process Of Healing.

#429: Am I Being Petty With My Boundaries After Betrayal?

#428: Why Does Andrew Tate Do Us A Disservice?

#427: What DOESN’T Work To heal from betrayal and addiction

#426: Why Do I LIE To Feel SAFE?

#425: IS It Fair To Blame Others For MY Pain?

#424: How Do I Stay Healthy As I Navigate Divorce

#423: We’ve Had a Disconnection In Our Relationship For A Long Time: What Do We Do?

#422: Was My Whole Relationship A Lie?

#421: IS My Partner Using THERAPY Against Me?

#420: I Think My Spouse Is Lying, But I Don't Have Proof.

#419: I knew Divorce Was The Right Thing To Do, But I'm Having A Hard Time Moving On.

#418: A Review Of The Devil In The Family: The Ruby Franke Story

#417: Why Is My Wife REFUSING Intimacy With Me

#416: How Can I Trust God When He Put Me In A Bad Relationship?

#415: Let's talk about the Power of Habit

#414: What To Do When Your HUSBAND Is Being NASTY?

#413: Why Should You “EMBRACE The Suck”?

#412: I know My Next Step Forward, But I Can’t Seem To Get Myself To Take It

#411: Integrity Is The Key To A Happy Life

#410: Fix Yourself FIRST Before Fixing The Relationship?

#400: Heal Your Trauma NOW and Start Living Again!

#409: Is Validating Your Partner's Feelings REALLY That Important?

#408: What's Holding You Back From MOTIVATION

#407: Does OPPOSITE ACTION Hold the SECRET to Personal Growth?

#406: Can I Save My Marriage?

#405: How Do I Not Stress Out When Everything Is Changing?

#404: What Makes A LIFE-CHANGING Addiction Recovery Meeting?

#401: How do I have a Good relationship with my Daughter In-law?

#399: Break FREE From Inaction NOW!

#403: CREATE New Outcomes With This Simple Recipe

#402: Can I REALLY Find Lasting Change In My LIfe...AND We Have A MAJOR Announcement

#398: Will My Cheating Partner EVER Change?

#397: LET GO of Resentment FOR GOOD

#396: Is Your Spouse LYING To You?

#395: Let's Talk About Forgiveness

#394: How Do I Step Into My Masculinity?

#393: What Is The Way Of The Superior Man?

#392: How Can I Stay Positive When There's So Much Negativity?

#391: How Do I Break This Pattern In My Relationship?

#390: My Partner Is Stuck... How Hard Should I Push?

#389: Do I Need God To Heal?

#388: How Do I Help My Friends Who Are Stuck?

#387: How Do I Overcome The Belief That Men Are Pigs?

#386: Why Should I Be Honest When It Feels Like I Get Punished?

#385: How Much Of My Fear In Moving Forward Is Because Of My Own Baggage?

#384: Exciting Changes And Opportunities For Recovery

#383 : I Feel Really Stuck And I Want To Figure It Out.

#382: I Don't Want A Divorce, But I Don't Know If I Can Stay Like It Is.

#381: I Feel Like I'm Safe, But My Partner Doesn't Think I Am. What Do We Do?

#380: There's No Physicality In Our Marriage With No End In Sight. What Do I Do?

#379: Do We Need To Completely Tear Down Our Relationship To Rebuild It?

#378: Do I Have To Do A Therapeutic Seperation To Not Be Codependent?

#377: What If My Faith Has Shifted And It Makes My Partner Uncomfortable ?

#376: Things Have Improved A Lot: Why Am I Still Unhappy?

#375: My Husband Has A Career With A Lot Of Opportunity To Act Out. How Do I Keep My Safety?

#374: I Feel Like I've Been Traumatized In My Marriage. What Now?

#373: Why Is Emotional Resilience Important?

#372: How Long Should I Wait For True Change To Happen In My Partner?

#371: Let's Tackle Some More Of Your Tough Questions

#370: Let's Talk Through Some Interesting Questions

#369: How Do I Stay Transparent After The Disclosure?

#368: Is It Wrong Of Me To Want My Partner To Be Sexually Attracted To Me?

#367: How Can I Be Fully Authentic And Rebuild Trust With My Spouse?

#366: Why Won't Men Seek Help Or Help Each Other When They Have Been Betrayed?

#365: As A Betrayed Partner, Why Would I Sabotage Real Recovery?

#364: When Should We Work On "Us" In The Recovery Process?

#363: I Want To Be A Therapist. Is That Okay If I'm Still Working On My Recovery?

#362: How Do I Actually Discover Who I Really Am?

#361: Sobriety Alone Is Not Recovery, And Codependency Is Not Empathy

#360: We've Hit A New Rock Bottom. Where Do We Go From Here?

#359: How Do I Accept God's Love Despite All Of My Defects?

#358: What Is Real Integrity?

#357: I've Been In Recovery For 5 Years Now, Does The Work Ever Lighten Up Or End?

#356: I've Tried Everything To Overcome My Anxiety, Now What?

#355: Help Me Navigate This Difficult Family Situation

#354: How Do I Develop A Growth Mindset In Recovery?

#353: Should I Continue To Fight For My Relationship?

#352: How Do I Move My Recovery From My Head To My Heart?

#351: What Is The Difference Between Consumption And Connection?

#350: How Do I Find Good Therapy?

#349: Four Principles Of Recovery That I Learned From A 50 Mile Race

#348: What Is A Warrior Heart?

#347: Do My Expectations Get In My Way For Consistent Self-Care?

#346: Is It Apathy Or Healthy Boundaries?

#345: Let's Talk About Anxiety, Scrupulosity, And Sexuality

#344: How Can Sex Be A Benefit Or A Detriment To Healing After Betrayal

#343: Is My Partner Gaslighting Me?

#342: As I Get Back Into The Dating World Should I Look For Somebody Without A Porn Problem?

#341: Can You Actually Rebuild Trust?

#340: Let's Talk About All Things Sex in Recovery

#339: What Are Some Of The Breakthroughs In Recovery?

#338: How Do I Process My Pain Without Impeding Empathy For My Partner ?

#337: I Hate My Personal Character Flaws. How Do I Work On Changing Them?

#336: I Want To Be True To Myself In Recovery And I Also Want To Be Empathetic To My Family.

#335: I Realize That I Struggle With Dishonesty For Self-Protection: Help

#334: We Are Stuck In An In-House Separation. How Do We Move Forward?

#333: How Do I Create Lasting Change?

#332: Let's Tackle Some Tough Questions

#331: What Is Recovery And What Is Not Recovery?

#330: I'm Married To "Mr. Nice Guy". How Do I Do This?

#329: Is There Any Way Out Of Feeling Hopeless?

#328: Is Recovery "One Size Fits All" ?

#327: Can I Set A Boundary Around My Spouse's Lying?

#326: Let's Talk About The Difference Between Limerence And Love

#325: I've Done All I Can And I Still Feel Like I'm Not Enough. Am I Good Enough For God?

#324: How Can I Find Peace No Matter What

#323: How Do I Know When My Spouse Has Forgiven Me?

#322: How Do I Navigate Rebuilding Trust And Showing Up Authentically After Relapse?

#321: My Partner's Done A Little Bit Of Recovery Work. Should I Just Be Okay Now?

#320: What Is Required To Heal?

#319: Why Should I Work On Me Before I Worry About We?

#318: Why Is It So Difficult To Make Amends

#317: Let's Talk About The Cornerstones Of Recovery

#316: What Does It Actually Mean To Not Take Your Partner's Pain Personally?

#315: Why Do I Struggle When Things Are Going Well?

#314: When Do I Know Enough Is Enough?

#313: When Should I Put Myself Out There To Give Trust A Chance Again?

#312: How Safe Is Safe Enough To Re-engage Fully In My Relationship

#311: What Is One Of The Most Important Recovery Tools?

#310: I Blew Up My Family For My Affair Partner- Now What?

#309: Why Do You Have To Feel It To Heal It?

#308: Let's Tackle Some Tough Questions ( Part 2)

#307: Let's Tackle Some Tough Questions (Part 1)

#306: I Feel Like I'm Working A Great Recovery, But My Partner Feels Different. How Do I Not Get Defensive?

#305: Let's Give Some Rapid Fire Answers To Tough Questions

#304: The More Active I Get In My Religion, The Harder It Is To Avoid Pornography

#303: How Do I Make Deep, Real Friendships During Recovery ?

#302: Why Is Feeding The Fear Cycle So Damaging

#301: There's A Big Part Of Me Telling Me To Go, And A Piece Of Me That Wants To Stay. What Should I Do?

#300: My Husband Is Enmeshed With His Mom. What Do I Do ?

#299: We're Going Through The Disclosure Process And I Have A Lot Of Questions.

#298: Why Is Prioritizing And Understanding Women's Sexuality Important?

#297: I'm Finally Finding Traction In Recovery, But My Family Is A Mess. What Can I Do?

#296: How Do I Find My Heart In The Mess Of Recovery?

#295: How Can Getting A Change Of Environment Awaken You?

#294: How Do I Move From Drama To Empowerment?

#293: To All Men, I'm Not Calling You Out, I'm Calling You Up.

#292: Is God The Father A Protector?

#291: Am I Consuming Women, And Should I Stop Dating ?

#290: What Is Porn And Is There Good Porn?

#289: I Worry That My Boundaries Are Ruining My Marriage, And My Partner Agrees

#288: Why Is Vulnerability Awesome For Some And Terrifying For Others

#287: Is There A Way To Rebuild Our Relationship Or Is There Just Too Much Trauma?

#286: The Bomb Just Dropped. Can The Relationship Really Heal?

#285: I Feel Shame About The Things I Avoided and Didn't Pay Attention To

#284: What Relieves Suffering?

#283: Following Up With The Previous Caller. Where Is He Now?

#282: How Do I Feel My Feelings?

#281: Is Treating Sex Addiction Unethical?

#280: How Do I Discern When An Expert Is Giving Me Good Advice Or Bad Advice?

#279: Should My Kids Have Social Media?

#278: How Do I Develop A Sustainable Recovery?

#277: How Do I Move On After Divorce?

#276: We're Good At Doing The Deep Work But Struggle To Do The Daily Work

#275: Today's Episode Is a Rapid Fire Q And A With Tyler

#274: Why Do I Keep Doing These Things When I Already Know The Consequences?

#273: How Do I Accept My Partner Being Attracted To Other People?

#272: How Do We Help Our Children Not Repeat Our Unhealthy Patterns Of Behavior?

#271: What If Showing Up Authentic Destroys My Relationship?

#270: What Is Healthy Authenticity Versus Toxic Positivity?

#269: How Do I Let Go Of Shame From My Past Experiences?

#268: Because Of My Addiction I Don't Feel Like I Fit In At Church

#267: My Resentment Towards My Wife's Boundaries Is Hindering My Motivation

#266: Where Am I At In The Stages Of Change?

#265: How Do The Principles Of Full Effort And Responsibility Match Up With The Concept Of Surrender?

#264: How Does A Man Lose His Heart And Reclaim It Again?

#263: Let's Talk Plant Medicine

#262: What Do You Look For In Disclosure To See If Someone Is Being Honest?

#261: I Want To Be Honest With My Spouse, But It's Hard When It Hits Their Shame

#260: At What Point Do I Stop Fighting For My Relationship?

#259: Can The Betrayer Experienced Getting Gaslit?

#258: Feels Like We're Starting At Square One. Where Do We Begin?

#257: What Is Drama? And Am I Living In It?

#256: How Do I Stop Being So Afraid Of My Wife?

#255: When Is It Time To Start Getting Vulnerable Again After Betrayal?

#254: Where Do Brannon's Philosophies On Recovery And Sexuality Come From?

#253: When We Talk About Feelings, Things Blow Up. How Do We Start Building Trust?

#252: I Feel Desperate To Save My Marriage And I Need A Boost In My Recovery! Help!

#252: I Feel Desperate To Save My Marriage And I Need A Boost In My Recovery! Help!

#251: What Does It Actually Mean To Be Honest?

#250: What Does An Interdependent Sexual Relationship Look Like?

#249: I'm A 50 Year Old Man But I Still Feel Like A Teenager Emotionally. What's My Problem?

#248: How Do I Create And Maintain Connection?

#247: How Do I Navigate My Faith In My Recovery When I Feel I'm Getting Excommunicated From My Church

#246: How Do I Navigate Healing With My Partner When They Haven't Gone To Therapy?

#245: Why Are Fathers So Important To Their Daughters?

#244: My Husband Has Gone From Being Mr. Nice Guy To Mr. Mean Guy, What Do I Do?

#243: Why Do I Wear The Lenses That I Wear Or Have The Perspectives That I Have?

#242: When And How Do I Disclose My Sex Addiction In Dating?

#241: What Kind Of Family System Am I In And How Does It Affect Me?

#240: I've Been Manipulated, Gaslit, And Controlled. How Do I Turn That Into That Into Something Positive?

#239: I've Been Sober For A Long Time, But I Still Get Images Entering My Mind. What Do I Do?

#238: What Is Self Acceptance In Recovery?

#237: Betrayal Has Affected Our Family And Children, What Do We Do?

#236: Should I Butt Out Of His Recovery?

#235: I'm Having A Hard Time Breaking Up With My Addiction, What Do I Do?

#234: We Can't Afford Therapy, Can We Still Get Into Recovery?

#233: Topics People Struggle With

#232: Let's Talk Tools For Managing Triggers And Relapse.

#231: I'm Conflicted. It Seems My Boundaries Go Against My Spiritual Beliefs.

#230: How Do We Navigate A Healthy Sex Life In Recovery?

#229: I'm Having A Hard Time Connecting To The Recovery Community. What Should I Do?

#228: After Years Of Recovery, Why Do I Still Feel The Need To Lie?

#227: The Details Of My Life And Situation Haven't Changed But They Feel So Different.

#226: How Do I Interact With The Opposite Sex Without Feeling Shame Or Guilt?

#225: Can My Spouse Still Love Me While They're Acting Out?

#224: How Do I Navigate Grief And Recovery And Loss At The Same Time?

#223: Are We Working Towards Reconciliation Or Divorce?

#222: Do I Need To Define Myself As An Addict To Move Forward In Recovery?

#221: What If I Don't Have Enough Time To Rebuild Trust?

#220: Is This A Trauma Bond Or Is This Love?

#219: How Long Do I Hang On?

#218: How Do I Build A Relationship With God When I feel Like He's Broken My Trust?

#217: Why Is Narcissism Over-Diagnosed In Recovery?

#216: My Husband Has Legal Charges, Am I Crazy To Stay?

#215: My Sex Addiction Is Under Control, But My Attachment Wounds Keep Resurfacing

#214: How Do Men And Women Experience Shame Differently?

#213: How Do I Get Past This Emptiness From Hurting My Wife With My Addiction?

#212: How Do I Heal After Infidelity?

#211: Gender Identity Is Affecting My Marriage, Where Do I Go From Here?

#210: I'm Trying To Be Perfect And It's Burning Me Out. What Can I Do?

#209: Do I Need To Fire My God?

#208: I Was Sexually Molested By My Father, How Do I Navigate That Relationship?

#207: When We Try To Have Sex We Both Freeze Up. What Do We Do?

#206: How Can My Relationship Heal When My Partner Is Not Attracted To Me?

#205: Why Do I Keep Acting Out When Things Are Going Good?

#204: We Both Have Trauma, We Both Have An Addiction. How Do We Find Recovery?

#203: How Can I Find Passion In Life?

#202: What Is The Line Between Undersharing And Oversharing?

#201: How Does Reclaiming Who I Really Am Give My Relationship A Chance?

#200: Why Are Cycles And Seasons Good For Us?

#199: What Steps Do I Need To Take To Be Ready For A New Relationship?

#198: My Toxic Relationship Just Ended. How Do I Reclaim My Life?

#197: How Do We Keep Our Marriage A Priority?

#196: I Have Everything You Could Want In Life. Why Am I Still Empty?

#195: My Family Is So Dysfunctional. How Do I Enjoy Being Around Them For The Holidays?

#194: How Do I Stay Motivated to Help People When They Are Not Motivated?

#193: Let's Talk About The "F" word

#192: If You Had Broken Trust, What Would You Do To Rebuild It?

#191: How Can My Wife And Children See Me For Something Other Than The Things I've Done?

#190: I Feel Like A Burden To Others. Why Can't I Receive Their Love?

#189: I'm Realizing How Unseen I've Been In Our Relationship. What Now?

#188: What's Challenging Tyler And Brannon With Doing Therapy?

#187: How To Face The Beast And Slay It!

#186: My Husband Is A Good Guy But Does Relapse Ever Stop?

#185: Let's Talk About Masculinity And Femininity

#184: There's So Much Trauma. I Don't Feel Safe. Now What?

#183: How Do I Know I'm Working Recovery For The Right Reasons?

#182: How Do I Show Up Healthy With My Family Of Origin?

#181: How Do I Navigate The Process Of Divorce?

#180: How Much Baggage Is Too Much Baggage And Will It Halt Recovery?

#179: How Can I Trust That My Wife Actually Loves Me?

#178: What Is Recovery Really And How Do I Get There?

#177: How Do I Deal With My Ex?

#176: When Should I Report My Spouses' Illegal Activity?

#175: Is God Really There?

#174: How Do I Take What I'm Learning And Actually Implement It Into My Recovery?

#173: We're A Couple That's Stuck. Help Us!

#172: I Think I'm Addicted To A Cycle Of Suffering How Do I Break It?

#171: Is This Topic Blasphemous?

#170: My Trauma Is Causing Problems With Connection. What Do I Do About It?

#169: Is There Life After Divorce?

#168: I'm Confronted With My Partner's Affair Partner Every Single Day. How Do I Overcome The Anger?

#167: Am I Now At Fault For The Way That I've Responded To His Addiction

#166: Am I A Bad Person Or Is It Just My Addiction

#165: How Is Our Past Guest Glenn Doing? Let's Follow Up

#164: What Do I Do If My Partner Refuses To Own Their Own Stuff

#163: Why Do I Look For Proof That My Spouse Is Not Trustworthy

#162: I Hold Prominent Positions At Church And At Work, I Have A Pornograpy Problem, And The Shame Is Eating Me Alive

#161: How Do I Be Honest With My Wife About My Desire For Sex And Not Trigger Her?

#160: How Can Sex Addiction And Recovery Create An Unhealthy Power Dynamic In Our Relationship?

#159: Why Is Mentorship So Important In Life And In Recovery?

#158: To Share Or Not To Share? That Is The Question!

#157: How Do I Keep Working My Recovery When It Is So Depressing Every Time I Fail?

#156: What Is Covert Incest And How Has It Affected My Addiction?

#155: Is My Co-occuring Mental Health Disorder Affecting My Recovery?

#154: I Feel Like My Recovery Is Improving But My Relationship Is Struggling. What Now?

#153: Is It Ever Healthy Not To Disclose Some Things In Your Relationship?

#152: What Valuable Lesson Did Garth Brooks Teach Brannon About Life?

#151: How Do I Learn To Stand Up For Myself When I Feel So Much Shame Over The Things That I've Done?

#150: How Do I Break The Chain And Not Raise Addicts Myself?

#149: If My Partner Has Intimacy Anorexia, What Do I Do?

#148: Are There Certain Ideologies In Addiction Treatment That Are Barriers To Recovery?

#147: As A Therapist, What Is My Responsibility?

#146: How Do I Live Day To Day But Still Visualize Change For The Future?

#145: How Do I Hold My Partner's Pain While Maintaining Safety For Myself?

#144: What Is A Bid For Connection And How Do I Meet It In My Relationship?

#143: What Is The History Behind Betrayal Trauma And Sex Addiction?

#142: As A Man In Recovery How Do I Integrate My Masculine and Feminine Parts?

#141: I Am My Partner’s Addiction. What Do I Do Now?

#140: How Can Trauma Be Good For Us?

#139: My Partner Is Showing Signs Of Recovery. Why Is There A Part Of Me That Doesn’t Like That?

#138: I’m Full Of Anger And Resentment. How Do I Let It Go?

#137: I’m Finally Ready For A Divorce And Now My Partner Wants To Work Recovery. What Now?

#136: What Are Some Seemingly Good Beliefs That Actually Harm Your Recovery?

#135: How Do I Know When It’s Time To Rebuild Trust Or Say That It’s Enough?

#134: My Marriage Started With Trauma And Has Continued To Be Traumatic What Do I Do?

#133: We Are Finding Recovery. What Does That Look And Feel Like?

#132: I Know It’s Right To Let Go Of My Relationship... But How Do I Actually Do It?

#131: How Do I Stay Out Of Shame When My Partner Needs Me To Just Listen?

#130: Does Addiction Increase The Intensity Of Abuse?

#129: Why Does It Feel Like When I Got Better My Partner Got Worse?

#128: Does Will Smith Lack Masculinity?

#127: My Partner Is Sober But My Relationship Is Not Healing. Now What?

#126: I'm Miserably Safe In My Marriage. Help!

#125: Should I Tell My Children About My Partner's Past?

#124: Can It Be Betrayal Trauma Even If It's Not Sex Addiction?

#123: As A Woman, How Do I Know If I Struggle With Sex Addiction?

#122: Why Is Navigation More Important Than Destination?

#121: What Is Brannon's Perspective On The Betrayed, The Addicted, And The Expert?

#120: How Do I Have Healthy Boundaries And Keep A Good Relationship With My Child?

#119: Is It Healthy For My Kids To See That I'm Not Perfect?

#118: What Is A Healthy Disclosure?

#117: How Does My Enmeshed Relationship With My Mother Affect My Recovery?

#116: Why Are We So Afraid Of Our Sexuality?

#115: Why Is It A Problem If I'm Always Trying To Please My Partner?

#114: My Partner Is Using Sex To Cope With His Anxiety. How Do We Move Forward?

#113: Why Is Courage Required For Recovery?

#112: What Works And What Doesn't Work In Treating Betrayal?

#111: How Do We Navigate A Mixed Faith Marriage And Betrayal Trauma At The Same Time?

#110: How Do I Deal With My Partner's Denial?

#109: We Both Have A History Of Betrayal. Where Do We Begin?

#108: How Do I Distinguish Healthy Behavior VS Unhealthy Behavior With My Partner In Recovery?

#107: Can I Be Too Informed About Recovery?

#106: I Am Frequently Exposed To My Partner’s Affair Partner. How Do I Handle The Triggers?

#105: How Do I Balance Showing Empathy And Humility While Maintaining Masculinity?

#104: How Can I Be More Empathetic To My Wife?

#103: How Long Should I Wait For My Partner's Recovery?

#102: How Do You Move Forward If Your Partner Doesn't Acknowledge The Depths Of Your Pain?

#101: I'm Worried That My Husband's Femininity Is Attractive To Other Women

#100: My Husband Is Acting Out With Other Men. How Do I Get Past That?

#99: My Partner Has Lusted After My Friends. How Do I Manage Those Relationships Now?

#98: My Partner's Words Don't Meet Up With His Actions. What Do I Do?

#97: Is Fear Holding Me Back From Doing The Thing That I Know Is Right?

#96: I Feel Like I Want To Avoid. Is This Due To Sex Addiction and Betrayal Trauma? (W/Guest)

#95: How Do I Break My Walls Down And Trust Him Again?

#94: As A Couple, How Do We Handle Relapse?

#93: How Do I Live In Reality When I've Spent My Whole Life Trying To Avoid It?

#92: As A Betrayed Spouse, How Am I Supposed To Be Okay With My Partner Being Sexually Attracted To Other Women?

#91: I'm In Limbo Land And I Don't What To Do

#90: How Do I Handle My Partner With Love When They Treat Me Like A Monster?

#89: Do We Manufacture Addicts?

#88: How Can I Be A Sex Addict...And Really Not Want Sex?

#87: How Do We Navigate The Messy Middle of Recovery?

#86: How Do I Overcome The Effects Of Bullying That Still Show Up In My Life?

#85: What Does Healthy Masculinity Have To Do With Recovery?

#84: What Am I Missing About Healthy Boundaries?

#83: How Do I Increase My Sexual Desire?

#82: What Is Scrupulosity?

#81: Is There Such A Thing As Healthy Masturbation?

#80: How Do I Learn To Trust Myself To Keep My Commitments?

#79: Did We Answer the Question Wrong About Modesty?

#78: I've Worked So Hard To Find Peace After Betrayal. Why Can't I Keep It?

#77: Does My Life‘s Purpose Affect My Weight?

#76: Does God Want Me To Be Sexual?

#75: How Do I Support My Adult Child Who Struggles With Addiction?

#74: How Do I Teach My Sons About Healthy Sexuality and How to Be a Good Man?

#73: Can My Happiness Really Be Just As Simple As Changing My Beliefs?

#72: What Is Empathy... Really?

#71: I’ve Experienced Betrayal In My Marriage… Should I Attend Group?

#70: My Spouse Is Guilt-Tripping Me To Break Down My Boundaries... What Do I Do?

#69: What Is Emotional Abuse and How Do I Know If I'm Being Abused?

#68: How Do I Live a Life of Abundance and Freedom When I Feel Trapped in My Day-to-Day Life?

#67: Why Is It So Freaking Hard To Forgive?

#66: Why Am I So Afraid of What Other People Think of Me?

#65: How Do I Know When To Stand and Fight and When To Let Go?

#64: Why Do Men Love Porn, Video Games, and Mountain Dew So Much?

#63: Is It Okay To Have a Relationship With My Ex In-Laws, Even If My Ex Hates It?

#62: Why Are So Many of Our Friends Calling Us?

#61: How Does Church and Sex Contribute to Shame?

#60: How Do I Know If I'm Getting Good Therapy?

#59: How Do I Support a Loved One With Anxiety?

#58: How Do You Know If You're Dealing With Sex Addiction/Porn Addiction?

#57: Is It Okay To Be Attracted To More Than Just Your Spouse?

#56: How Do I Navigate Intimacy When I Don't Feel Sexy?

#55: Video-Gaming is Causing Conflict in My Marriage... What Now?

#54: How Can I Find Victory Through the Principle of Surrender?

#53: Why Do So Many Men Lack Confidence?

#52: Should We Schedule Sex?

#51: Love Triangles and Betrayal Trauma

#50: "I Have Experienced Sexual Trauma In My Marriage... Now What?"

#49: What is the Relationship Between Past Trauma and Current Betrayal Trauma?

#48: How Do I Stop A Bad Communication Spiral?

#47: I'm Trying To Heal From Betrayal Trauma. Why Is My Marriage Getting Worse?

#46: Everything In My Life Is Good. Why Do Things Seem So Hard?

#45: It Feels Like I'm Doing My 50% But My Partner Isn't + How Do I Help My Adult Child With Failure To Launch?

#44: How Can I Become More Emotionally Healthy To Become More Physically Healthy?

#43: How Do I Show My Spouse That I've Changed? Triggers VS Intrusive Thoughts?

#42: How Do I Actually Know What Truth And Reality Are?

#41: How Do I Rebuild Trust In My Relationship?

#40: How Valuable Is Group Therapy?

#39: Our In-Laws Are Toxic... How Do We Handle That?

#38: Bad Marriage Advice Debunked

#37: How Do I Handle Getting Ghosted?

#36: How Do I Change Unhealthy Family Patterns?

#35: Should We Shame Joel Olsteen? Is My Partner Having An Emotional Affair?

#34: What Does Death Teach Us About Life?

#33: What if your spouse avoids sex with you?

#32: How Do I Feel Comfortable Naked After Betrayal?

#31: How Do I Forgive When I've Been Betrayed? How Do I Handle Disclosure!?

#30: What Do Church Leaders Need To Know To Help A Betrayed Spouse | THERAPY BROTHERS PODCAST

#29: How Do I Not Depend On My Relationship Status To Feel Like I Am Enough?

#28: How Do I Bring Up Hard Things Without Shaming My Spouse!?

#27: How Do I Tell My Family Something That Will Be Hard For Them To Hear?

#26: What Is REAL Femininity?

#25: My Spouse Has Secrets. What Do I Do Now?

#24: What Is A Battle Plan? How Do I Make One?

#23: What Is REAL Masculinity?

#22: How Do I Talk To My Kids About Sex? After Becoming Recovered From Addiction, What Can I Do To Help Others In Recovery?

#21: Shouldn't They Be Held Accountable? + My Spouse Won't Forgive Me Despite My Best Efforts. What Now?

#20: How Do I Talk To My Kids About My Emotional Struggles While I'm Recovering From Betrayal Trauma? What Do I Look For As I Start Dating Again After Divorce

#19: God, where were you? How Do I Overcome The Feeling That God Abandoned Me?

#18: How Do I Find A Good Therapist? + How Do I Build Trust With My Wife?

#17: Is There Ever Healing? Are You Choosing To Be Miserable?

Welcome To The Therapy Brothers Podcast

#16: Can I Love Someone Without Having Boundaries?

#15: PART 2: What is Dialectic? + Discussion on Brannon's view on masturbation as it relates to learning about sexuality

#14: PART 1: What is your view on masturbation as it relates to learning about sexuality?

#13: Is Addiction A Choice Or A Disease?

#12: What if I want out of my marriage but my morals tell me to stay in?

#11: Divorcing Someone You Love? Can you Shame Your Partner?

#10: Does Addiction Treatment Work?

#9: Embrace your life and Dance

#8: What's worse the porn? or the negative self-perception?

#7: Parenting: How do I avoid wounding my kids?

#6: How to Actually Overcome Your Shame

#5: Relationships: Narcissism, Defensiveness, and Brain Flooding

#4: Boundaries? What are they?

#3: Faith crisis & relationships

#2: What is Suffering? Why do we choose it?

#1: Common Sex Struggles For Women