All Episodes

The Difference Between Discipline and Compulsion

The Courage To Say "I Don't Know"

Why You're In Denial

If I Know Connection is “The Thing,” Why Is It So Hard For So Many of us?

Is Confronting a Necessary Part of The Healing Process?

What if you love someone you don't trust?

Parenting From Fear Versus Parenting From Delight

What is irritability really about?

What It's Like Being a Therapist Right Now

To Be Admired = To Be Lonely

How To Live With The Irreconcilable

On Aging and Beauty

To Be Wild Or To Be Good?

The Joylessness of Doing the Work While Trying to Live Your Life

Are You Getting Worse or Just Feeling More of The Truth?

Say The Thing!

The Sex I Didn't Have (and what to do about it)

The Healing Is On You, Not Them

Why The Hard Truth is Soothing

When You Want to Do, But Need to Grieve

Why We Stay Stuck

When The Connector Feels Disconnected

Men, I Need and Want Your Presence

I Wanted To Say Fuck Off, But Stopped Myself

Addiction--What We Can't Give Up and Why

Anxiety Is Actually Non-Feeling

I Have High Expectations in Relationships

Getting Lost and Finding My Sense of Wonder

I Don't Want You to See Me Sweat

Are You Mad At Me?

Why We Feel Unheard--Trying to Speak to the Heart From the Head

The Appeal of Pursuing Closed Doors

"I can make this work"-The Most Damaging Words

The Mother Wound: Should our friends re-mother us?

How to Make Mistakes

The Road from Needless to Needy

Desire follows Will: I don't Want to But I Will

Are We Addicted To The Wanting?

How to Do Shame and Anger in Relationships Right: My Hubby Is Back For Part 2

How we Learned to Fight and To Love: My Husband's On The Pod!

More Afraid of Losing Myself Than Afraid of Losing Relationship

Choosing Health Is Boring

"Are You Torn Or Afraid?"

Why Do We Keep Making Decisions That Don't Serve Us (Over and Over)?

Why Do So Many Women Hate Their Bellies No Matter The Size?

Wanting To Be Seen But Not Wanting People To Know We Are Desperate For It,

Radical Honesty and Why It's So Hard

Are Relationships Really Supposed To Be That Hard

Fears of Satiety as Evidenced By Eating Couscous Off The Floor Instead of On My Plate

The Relationship Between My Cleaning and My Rage

Giving Up The Title of Hoarder of Family Suffering

I Want My Partner to Parent Me and I Know He Can't

Is My Vagina Broken?