All Episodes
Unprocessed — 58 episodes
Why we gossip and what it reveals/conceals
Allowing Yourself to Disappoint (Even The Important People and Things)
What Is The Reality In Your Fantasy?
Why does it take us to midlife to start doing what we want to do?
The Difference Between Discipline and Compulsion
The Courage To Say "I Don't Know"
Why You're In Denial
If I Know Connection is “The Thing,” Why Is It So Hard For So Many of us?
Is Confronting a Necessary Part of The Healing Process?
What if you love someone you don't trust?
Parenting From Fear Versus Parenting From Delight
What is irritability really about?
What It's Like Being a Therapist Right Now
To Be Admired = To Be Lonely
How To Live With The Irreconcilable
On Aging and Beauty
To Be Wild Or To Be Good?
The Joylessness of Doing the Work While Trying to Live Your Life
Are You Getting Worse or Just Feeling More of The Truth?
Say The Thing!
The Sex I Didn't Have (and what to do about it)
The Healing Is On You, Not Them
Why The Hard Truth is Soothing
When You Want to Do, But Need to Grieve
Why We Stay Stuck
When The Connector Feels Disconnected
Men, I Need and Want Your Presence
I Wanted To Say Fuck Off, But Stopped Myself
Addiction--What We Can't Give Up and Why
Anxiety Is Actually Non-Feeling
I Have High Expectations in Relationships
Getting Lost and Finding My Sense of Wonder
I Don't Want You to See Me Sweat
Are You Mad At Me?
Why We Feel Unheard--Trying to Speak to the Heart From the Head
The Appeal of Pursuing Closed Doors
"I can make this work"-The Most Damaging Words
The Mother Wound: Should our friends re-mother us?
How to Make Mistakes
The Road from Needless to Needy
Desire follows Will: I don't Want to But I Will
Are We Addicted To The Wanting?
How to Do Shame and Anger in Relationships Right: My Hubby Is Back For Part 2
How we Learned to Fight and To Love: My Husband's On The Pod!
More Afraid of Losing Myself Than Afraid of Losing Relationship
Choosing Health Is Boring
"Are You Torn Or Afraid?"
Why Do We Keep Making Decisions That Don't Serve Us (Over and Over)?
Why Do So Many Women Hate Their Bellies No Matter The Size?
Wanting To Be Seen But Not Wanting People To Know We Are Desperate For It,
Radical Honesty and Why It's So Hard
What to Do With The Terrible Things We Don't Want to Admit Aloud?
Are Relationships Really Supposed To Be That Hard
Fears of Satiety as Evidenced By Eating Couscous Off The Floor Instead of On My Plate
The Relationship Between My Cleaning and My Rage
Giving Up The Title of Hoarder of Family Suffering
I Want My Partner to Parent Me and I Know He Can't
Is My Vagina Broken?