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Nope! We're Not Monogamous — 163 episodes
Rewind: How to Build Secure Polyamorous Relationships | Jessica Fern & David Cooley
Growing Up in a Polyamorous Family | A Conversation with Koe Creation
Rewind: Wilder on Closed Triads, Poly Families & Living Authentically, EP. 161
What Nobody Teaches You About Polycule Dynamics with Red DeRooy and Stacey Smith?
The Courage to Show Up: Sex Positivity and Finding Your People with Jamie Love, EP. 159
Compersion Isn’t Mandatory, EP. 158
How to Talk About Jealousy Without Starting a Fight, EP. 157
How to Stop Spiraling When Jealousy Takes Over, Ep. 156
Jealousy, Boundaries, and the Things You’re Afraid to Ask For, EP. 155
Why Jealousy Hits So Hard (And What It’s Really Trying to Protect) EP. 154
If It Feels Hard… You’re Not Doing It Wrong, EP. 153
Dating Someone Who’s Already Partnered… and Still Feeling Alone, EP. 152
Communication Triangles in Polyamory: The Subtle Dynamic That Creates Drama EP. 151
Showing Up Alone to a Swingers Event Changed Everything - Ep. 150 with Kate Heskett
Metamours, Friendship, and the Myth of Instant Kitchen Table Polyamory, EP. 149
NRE: Why New Relationship Energy Feels So Good (and Why You Should Slow Down) EP. 148
Resentment Is a Boundary Problem (And It’s Not What You Think)
Poly Agony: The Mistakes, Repair, and Reality of Raising Kids While Open with Candace Sogren
Needs vs Wants in Non-Monogamy: There’s No Prize for Needing Less EP.145
The Real Glow-Up: Self-Love, Desire, and Ethical Non-Monogamy with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, EP. 144
Saying Yes to Non-Monogamy with Natalie Davis, EP. 143
Jealousy Is Shame in Disguise (And That Changes Everything) Ep. 142
When Honesty Isn’t Enough: The Missing Piece of Emotional Safety in Open Relationships, EP. 141
Before You Open: The 5 Signs Your Relationship Isn’t Ready Yet, EP. 140
How to Talk to a Partner Who Insists on OPP, Forced Triads, or “We Only Date Together” EP. 139
Dating Separately: The Secret to Actually Surviving Polyamory as a Couple, EP. 138
The Taboo Side of Non-Monogamy: Pleasure, Healing, and Desire with Sharon Marie Scott
The Relationship Skills That Actually Matter in Non-Monogamy with Dr. Dan Sneider Ep. 136
You Can’t Logic Your Way Out of Jealousy (But You’ll Definitely Try) Ep. 135
Rethinking “Success” in Polyamory with Jessica Morgenthaler Ep. 134
Pelvic Floors, Orgasms, and Why We Don’t Discriminate Against the Monogamous with Jana Danielson
The Truth Hurts - But Hiding It Hurts Worse, Ep. 132
Why You Can’t Just Talk Your Way Out of Jealousy in Polyamory (And What Actually Helps) Ep. 131
Rewriting Your Relationship Code: Ditching the Defaults for Real Freedom, Ep. 130
Relationship Anxiety in Polyamory: It’s Not Just You, Ep. 129
The Polyamory Trap of Finding Different Partners to Fill Different Needs, Ep. 128
Polyamory’s Biggest Struggle Isn’t Jealousy — It’s Scheduling, EP. 127
Midlife, Menopause & Non-Monogamy: Reclaiming Pleasure, Power & Desire with Carla Wainwright EP. 126
The Brutal Truth About Open Relationships, Ep. 125
Patriarchy and Polyamory — Unpacking Power, Gender, and ENM with Cass Banker, Ep. 124
The Cost of Shrinking: When Monogamy Doesn’t Fit, Ep. 123
Leaving Purity Culture, Finding Non-Monogamy: Healing, Desire & Autonomy with Leah Carey, Ep. 122
Why Finding Your People Changes Everything in Non-Monogamy, Ep. 121
You’re Not Wrong for Wanting More: Let’s End That Lie, Ep. 120
Your Brain Gets Polyamory—But What About Your Body? Ep. 119
Creating Sexy, Safe, and Soulful Community with Jamie Love, Ep. 118
You Don’t Have to Be the ‘Chill Poly Partner’ to Deserve Love, Ep. 117
Why You’re Stuck in the Same Fight on Repeat (and How to Break the Loop) Ep. 116
How to Say the Hard Thing Without Burning Everything Down, Ep. 115
Tantra, Throuples, and the Best Sex of Her Life at 65 with Xanet Pailet
Stop Compromising, Start Collaborating: A New Approach to Non-Monogamy Ep. 113
Why Self-Love Looks Different in Non-Monogamy (And Why You Can’t “Positive Vibes” Your Way Through Comparison)
Love Beyond Boundaries: Jeff Hudson on Throuples, Jealousy & Non-Monogamy
The Hidden Costs of Comparing Yourself to Your Metamour, Ep. 110
Reframing Jealousy as a Powerful Tool in Open Relationships with Dr. Emma Smith
Jealousy to Compersion: Communicating Through Emotions in Open Relationships with Ally Iseman
Why You Keep Comparing Yourself to Your Metamour (And How to Stop), Ep. 107
Open Monogamy, Jealousy & Mismatched Desires | Dr. Tammy Nelson on Rethinking Relationship Agreements
Unmasking Ashley Madison: Why People Cheat & What It Reveals About Modern Relationships, Ep. 105
5 Simple Tools for Profound Intimacy in Non-Monogamy, Ep. 104
Thriving in Non Monogamous Social Situations Without Drama, Ep. 103
From Should to Could - Designing Your Non-monogamous Relationships, Ep. 102
The Hidden Price Tag of Figuring Out Non Monogamy Alone
Building Polyamorous Community and Connections with Aly Moon
The #1 Secret to Thriving in Open Relationships, Ep. 99
The Anxious Person's Toolkit for Successful Non-Monogamous Connections with Lola Phoenix
The Hidden Costs of Ignoring Jealousy in Non-Monogamous Relationships, EP. 97
Reignite Your Dating Life: Overcoming App Burnout and Finding Your People
Why DIY Jealousy Solutions Fall Short in Non Monogamy
The Unexpected Paths of Non-Monogamy: A Conversation with Annie Undone, EP. 94
How to Turn Jealousy Into a Tool for Growth, Ep. 93
Why 2025 is the Year to Let Go of Jealousy, Ep. 92
Polyamory Explored: Jealousy, Communication and Coming Out Strategies With Kathy Labriola
Graceful Rejection: The Art of Saying No Without Burning Bridges
Beyond Swiping Finding Authentic Connections in Seattle
Catapults and Consent: When Kink and Polyamory Overlap with Still
Boundaries, Bedrooms, and Beyond, Navigating Non Monogamous Dating with Shannon Whaley
Beyond Vanilla The Intersection of Polyamory and Kink with Maeve McBride
Sex Geeks Get Real: Consent Talks Before Getting Busy with Reid Mahalko
Managing Jealousy in Open Relationships with Therapist Ann Russo
Shuffling Relationship Dynamics with a Deck of Cards, Ep. 83
Fluid Bonding and STI Awareness Navigating Sexual Health in Ethical Non-Monogamy with Susan Bratton
Monogamy? In this Economy? With Author Laura Boyle
Navigating Consent and Pleasure in Non-Monogamy with Jamie Love
Polyamorous Elders: Planning for Your Future
The Alchemy of Pleasure: Transforming Relationships with Sasha and Moritz
First Date Fun: Navigating Non-Monogamy with Humor and Insight
From Strict Religion to Ceremonial Celebrations: Dan's Story
Unpacking the Relationship Escalator: Lessons from 2 Decades of Ethical Non-Monogamy
No Rules Polyamory: Exploring Pleasure, Tantra and Sex Magic
Beyond Fairy Tales: Real Connection Strategies Unveiled
The Marathon Problem: Overcoming Fears to Embrace Non-monogamy with Poly Pocket Podcast Ep. 72
From Polyamory to Monogamish: Relationship Coach Gets Real About Polyamory, Ep. 71
Polyamory Pitfalls: Handling Jealousy in Non-Monogamy with Ali Hendry, Ep. 70
How I Learned to Embrace Abundance in Non-Monogamous Relationships, Ep. 69
Self-Love, Jealousy, and Somatic Healing in Non-monogamous Relationships
Shedding Resentment and Finding Freedom in Ethical Non-Monogamy with Daisy Sky
Embracing Your True Self: The Journey Through Non-Monogamy, Jealousy, and Sacred Rage with Sandra Possing
Thriving in Non-Monogamy: Deana Tanner's Guide to Healthy Humaning, Ep. 65
Finding Balance in an Unconventional BDSM Triad, Ep. 64
Sexual Safety in Non-monogamy with Evalene Dacker-MD
Unlocking Desire: Exploring the Transformative Power of Sexual Fantasies with Artemisia De Vine
Radical Honesty and Responsibility in Non-Monogamous Relationships with Leslie Tavernier
Polywise - A Deeper Dive Into Navigating Open Relationships with Jessica Fern and David Cooley
Long-Distance Love: Non-monogamy Across Continents with CJ
The Art of Setting Boundaries in Non-Monogamy: A Conversation with Dirty Lola, Ep. 58
Navigating Polyamory and Parenting
Crushing Stereotypes: Exploring the Realities of Non-Monogamous Relationships with Rich and Siobhan
Shedding Labels and Overcoming Societal Expectations with Alex Cox
Navigating Polyamory with Emotional Intention with Victor Salmon
A Journey of Liberation and Empowerment with Casey Donatello
Delighting in Self-Connection with Lee Harrington
Healing and Reclaiming Power in Non-Monogamous Relationships with Lucy Price
Celebrating 50 Episodes: Exploring Relationship Escalators, Jealousy, and Growth in Non-Monogamy
Embracing Compersion in Your Relationships with Marie Thouin, Ep 49
Health, Happiness, and Safe Relationships in Non- Monogamy with Nurse Dynamite, Ep 48
The Journey Through NRE to the Relationships You Desire, Ep. 47
Reclaiming Your Power Through Self-Love and Pleasure with Kim Coffin, Ep. 46
Intimacy and Non-Monogamy: Embracing Embodied Choices, Ep. 44
Kitchen Table Poly: Unpacking Metamours and Breakups, Ep. 43
Relationship Vetos: The Process of Relationship Grieving, Ep. 42
Finding Your Inner Dom(me), Ep. 41
Navigating Polyamory as a Pagan, Pansexual, Parent
Finding Community and Authenticity in Polyamory, Ep. 39
Love Outside of the Romance Novel with Eleanor O’Brien, Ep. 38
Somatic Practices in Non-Monogamy with Isha Vela, Ep. 37
The Power of Wants and Needs in Relationships, Ep. 36
The Importance of Human Connection and Sex Work, Ep. 35
Pregnancy & Non-Monogamy, Ep. 34
Discovering Our Queerness, Ep. 33
Finding Yourself in Non-Monogamy, Ep. 32
Good Girls Talk About Non-Monogamy, with Leah Carey, Ep. 31
Boundaries for Building Safety and Trust, Ep. 30
Honing Your Desires in Polyamory, Ep. 29
Is non-monogamy written in your DNA?, Ep. 28
Sexy, Confident Non-Monogamy, Ep. 27
Lazy Successful Non-Monogamy, Ep. 26
The Importance of Self-Consent, Ep 25
Growing Through Jealousy, Ep. 24
Navigating the Biggest Pitfalls of Open Relationships, Ep. 23
Epic Communication with the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships, Ep 22
Starting Out Strong: First Steps to ENM, Ep. 21
Vikings, Vulnerability, and Polyamory, Ep. 20
Diversity and Equity in Non-Monogamous Communities, Ep. 19
Astrology and Non-Monogamy, Ep. 18
A Unicorn's Story, EP 17
The Pillars of Polyamory with Deana Tanner, EP 16
Swinger Events and Hotel Takeovers with Ying Ying Lee, EP. 15
Taming The Green Eyed Monster, Jealousy Ep.14
Sexual Safety in Non-Monogamy Ep. 13
The Spectrum of Non-Monogamy Ep 12
The Sexiness of Communication, EP 11
Relationship Autonomy and the Power of Words Ep.10
Decolonizing Polyamory & Relationship Anarchy Ep. 9
Digging into Insecurities Ep. 8
Veganism & Polyamory Ep. 7
Beyond the White Picket Fence - Breaking Out of the Life Everyone Expects You to Live
Body Image and ENM Relationships Ep.5
Blending Polyamorous Families S1. Ep4.
Polyamory and Divorce S.1 Ep.3
Dating for Polyamorous Nerds S1. Ep.2
Enthusiastic Non-Monogamy - Our Story S1. Ep.1
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