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High Level Wife Podcast with Chelsey Holm — 292 episodes

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See It On Purpose and Say It (Learn to Build Him Up)!

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Are You Serving Your Husband More Than Enjoying Him?

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Substances Dull Senses: Learning How to Navigate Discomfort Without It!

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If Walking into Your House Doesn't Feel Like Peace, Listen to this One!

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See the Heart of Your Husband!

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Generational Impact: How Your Marriage is Hurting or Helping Your Kids

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You Might Have the Wrong Heart Posture in Obedience if....

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Money Conflict in Marriage: The Key to Oneness in Finances

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3 Rules for Communication: A Must in High Level Marriages!

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You Remain Stuck in Your Marriage Because of This

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This is What a Passive Husband Looks Like

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God Wants To Minister to Your Heart As His Daughter Too

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Intimacy + Desire Food Metaphors + FUN | Taste + See the Goodness PART 5!

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Letting Go of Hurts, Hang-Ups + Offenses in Your Marriage

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When You Understand Prayer, It Is Always Your FIRST Resort

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God is SO Good! Good + Perfect Gift-Giver! Have You Met Him Yet?

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Doubling Down on Intimacy Within Marriage as Ministering to One Another

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Leadership Can Feel Like a Lonely Island

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Intimacy + Desire Follow Through | Taste + See the Goodness PART 4!

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Intimacy + Desire Initiate with Confidence | Taste + See the Goodness PART 3!

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Intimacy + Desire Self Protection | Taste + See the Goodness PART 2!

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Intimacy + Desire God's Way | Taste + See the Goodness PART 1!

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Running a 5k + Your Marriage: the Parallels to Discipline + Intentional Effort

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God's Power Transforms Your Marriage

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A Word of Caution About God Transformation + Daily Obedience

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For 16+ Months of HLW, God Keeps Speaking Without Fail!

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The Problem With "I Need" in Marriage

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Old Patterns, Old Fear: Don't Go Back To Your Vomit!

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BREAKING NEWS! Not Every Thought You Think Is Your Own

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What I Needed An Older, Wiser Wife To Tell Me...

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When Separation + Divorce Are NOT Biblical: You're In Disobedience.

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You're Not Actually Producing Fruit- You're Just Talking About It

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Physical Intimacy Isn't the Problem- the Other 2 Types of Intimacy You're Lacking

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Discipline is Delightful...Not a Duty

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Do This ONE Thing to Divorce-Proof Your Marriage

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4 Ways To Increase Intimacy In Your Marriage TODAY

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How To Make Your Marriage an ASSET for God to Multiply

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What It Actually Looks Like to Walk This Out Daily

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Marriage Before Kids: The Order That Protects Your Home

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Why You Must Be Well Before Your Marriage Can Be

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God First: The Order That Changes Everything

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Following Jesus in Theory vs Obeying Him in Practice

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You’re Not “Just a Wife”: Reclaiming Your Identity Through Obedience to God

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The Power of a Praying Wife: Your Authority in Spiritual Warfare

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How to Fight for Your Marriage When You Feel Alone

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One Flesh Warfare: Why Unity Multiplies Power

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Spiritual Warfare Tools for Marriage: How to Actually Fight in the Spirit

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The Enemy’s Playbook: Why Marriages Fall Into the Same Patterns

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Your Husband Is Not the Enemy (Spiritual Warfare in Marriage)

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5 Marriage Requires Daily Death to Self: The Real Purpose for Marriage God's Way

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4 Marriage Becomes a Weapon Against the Enemy: The Real Purpose For Marriage God's Way

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3 Marriage Multiplies Kingdom Mission: The Real Purpose of Marriage God's Way

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2 Marriage Develops Complementary Spiritual Gifts: The Real Purpose of Marriage God's Way

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1 Marriage Reveals What God Wants to Prune: The Real Purpose of Marriage God's Way Series

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Your Marriage Was Never Meant to Stay Small

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The Power of a Wife’s Prayer

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The Atmosphere of Your Home Follows Your Spirit

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Why Satan Targeted Eve First

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Influence vs Control: The Line Many Wives Cross

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Your Obedience Is Not Private

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A God Story: Hexclad on Our Porch!

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Joyfully Sad: Celebrating the Life of my Papaw's Legacy

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The Truth Behind Being the "Weaker Vessel"

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A Sneak Peek Into the Birth + Creation of High Level Wife

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CONTROL: A Spirit of Rebellion + the Heart of Witchcraft in Marriage

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Right Order Creates Right Heart Posture

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When My Behavior Looked Right… But My Heart Was Wrong

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Same Situation, Different Heart: What the Bible Reveals About Heart Posture

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Why God Rejects “Good Behavior” Without the Right Heart

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HEART POSTURE: What God Actually Sees

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Blessing Upon Blessing! Marriage God's Way + Spiritual Gifts

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The Pain You Survived Is Becoming Someone Else’s Rescue

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How to Respond Without Mothering Your Husband

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If You Frequently Say " I'm trying..." This is A MUST Listen!

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Ep 10: Screenshotting All Over Yourself | 10 Ways You’re Destroying Your Marriage (And Don’t Even Know It)

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Ep 9: Fix Your Bad Heart Posture | 10 Ways You’re Destroying Your Marriage (And Don’t Even Know It)

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Ep 8: Stop Speaking DEATH | 10 Ways You’re Destroying Your Marriage (And Don’t Even Know It)

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Ep 7: Disrupt the Pattern! | 10 Ways You’re Destroying Your Marriage (And Don’t Even Know It)

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Ep 6: Fixing Is a Burden | 10 Ways You’re Destroying Your Marriage (And Don’t Even Know It)

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Ep 5: You Have a Pet Named "Offense" | 10 Ways You’re Destroying Your Marriage (And Don’t Even Know It)

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Ep 4: Is God Really First? | 10 Ways You’re Destroying Your Marriage (And Don’t Even Know It)

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Ep 3: Deceiving Yourself | 10 Ways You’re Destroying Your Marriage (And Don’t Even Know It)

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Ep 2: Stop Walking in Rebellion | 10 Ways You’re Destroying Your Marriage (And Don’t Even Know It)

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Ep 1: Stop Talking To Him Like a Child | 10 Ways You’re Destroying Your Marriage (And Don’t Even Know It)

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Marriage Falling Apart? The Steps to Take When You’re Ready to Give Up

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Awareness To Obedience | FINAL HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 18

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Taking Down Emotional Walls | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 17

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No Wife EVER Controlled Her Way To A Flourishing Marriage | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 16

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Why Intimacy Feels Fragile | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 15

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Today IS NOT About Romance- It's About Invitation | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 14

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Intimacy by Design is For MUTUAL Experience | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 13

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You Can Stop Trying to Delight in Your Husband | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 12

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BEWARE of False Teachers About Marriage!!!

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How To Awaken Desire | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 11

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Obligation Is NOT Submission | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 10

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Why Pressure Is KILLING Intimacy | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 9

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Relearning DESIRE God's Way | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 8

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Saying YES to God's Way | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 7

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Anchoring So You Don't Drift Again | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 6

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Out With The OLD Narratives! | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 5

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Surrender Will Remain Impossible Until Heart Posture Shifts

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When Releasing Control Is Scary | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 4

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Why Striving Keeps You Stuck Not FREE | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 3

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What You're Carrying Is Crushing You | HLW Valentine's Day series: Episode 2

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Why Intimacy Feels Heavy Instead of Holy | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 1

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Start the Year Set Apart: Why 2026 Is About Obedience, Not Outcome

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You Keep Talking to the Fool… and Wonder Why the King Isn’t Rising

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Heart Posture First: Why Behavior Change Without Surrender Won’t Last

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Counterfeit Healing: When Therapy, Coaching & Self-Help Go Rogue

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Stuck in Self-Help: Why You’re Not Moving Forward in Marriage

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NEW Inside High Level Wife: Well Women

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From Head Knowledge to Heart Posture: Trusting God with Your Marriage

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Ezer Identity & Confronting with Strength + Spirit

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When Confrontation is Holy: Navigating Abuse & Godly Authority in Marriage

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From Mild to Holy Fire: How to Walk in Your God-Given Authority

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From Shame to Bold + Free Special Guest: Katey Willman on Identity, Healing & Holy Confidence

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From Fixing to Flourishing: A New Season for High Level Wife

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Submission Isn't A Dirty Word- It's Your Secret Weapon

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Redefining Strong | The Power of Surrender as a Godly Wife

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If You're Not Growing, You're Already DEAD

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Why Better Communication Won’t Save Your Marriage

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Why More Date Nights Won’t Fix Your Marriage

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How to Be a Rebel in 2025 (Hint: Follow Jesus for Real)

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Childlike Faith: Why God Lets Us “Help” (Even When We Make a Mess)

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Too Far Gone? Why I’ll Never Believe That Lie Again (The Miracle Shower Story)

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Naked & Unashamed: Intimacy as God’s Design with Guest Coach Sarah Vincelli

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Fired Up & Unashamed: What the Death of a Bold Believer Should Wake Up in You

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Marriage Isn’t About Happiness: Intimacy, Submission, and the Mystery of Oneness

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Come and See: Conviction, Coughs, and the Kindness of God

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Triggered by Your Feed? What Social Media Is Really Doing to Your Heart

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The Christmas Sweatshirt Story: When Identity Starts to Shift

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Trauma Isn’t Just What Happened—It’s What You Learned to Do to Stay Safe

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5 Ways I’m Recalibrating My Heart to Walk in the Spirit

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Significant, But Not Sovereign: The Truth About Your Role in God’s Plan

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What You Focus On, You Find: Neuroscience, Scripture & Rewiring Your Life

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Pixelated Perspective: Seeing God, Marriage, and Motherhood More Clearly

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When Self-Reliance Fails: Why God Didn’t Let It Work

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Truth Over Trends: Why I Hate Affirmations + Other New Age-ish Garbage

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Know Your Enemy: How Fasting, Parenting, and Spiritual Clarity Collide

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When Your Body Speaks, Listen: A Spirit-Led Approach to Tapping

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You Don't Need to Be FIXED- You Need to Be HELD!

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The Real Turn On- It’s not what you think…

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Burn the Boats: 3 Silent Marriage Killers You Must Eliminate

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You Don’t Have Mindset Issues—You Have Survival Patterns

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From Walls to Oneness: The Power of Vulnerability, Mission, and Right Order in Marriage

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Meeting You Where You're At: I Won't Leave You There

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You Can’t Pray for Peace and Live in Chaos: Let’s Talk Emotional Maturity

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From Performing to Present | Ditching Old Navigational Systems for a DEEPER Me

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I'm Back and Here's Where We're Going!

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BONUS Episode: God Wants to Put a Period on It!

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Episode 2: Overcoming Barriers to Being a High Level Wife

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Episode 1: What Does It Mean to Be a High-Level Wife?

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Just in Time for Christmas | a special gift for you!

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A Deeper Direction | How God halted my plans

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You are Worthy | The disconnect between what you know in your head and what you embody

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Taking Smart Risks? | A 90 Day Run to 6 figures +How I paid off $50k+ in debt

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Burn the Permission Slip | How this determined girl in a tutu and cowgirl boots is living fully as me

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Self Reflection | Ditching the Enneagram + Other New Age Practices

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Compartmentalization | A Self Protection Mechanism

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Perception is Everything | The 3 Train Lesson

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Emotional Health in Biz | How Unexpressed Emotions are Blunting Your Biz Growth

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Money Mindset | The Intersection of Confirmation Bias + Financial Mindset

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From Netflix+Binge to Business Breakthrough!

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The Balance Lie | Blending Like a Boss

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BTS | Building Out a Business Roadmap

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RAISE YOUR BELIEF | Resistance is confirmation

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Real Life Struggle | Creating Awareness in Action

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Closing the Loops | Stop Wasting Energy on Stupid 💩

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The Habit of Intentional Discomfort

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A HOW TO: Translating Belief from a successful area to a struggling one

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BURNOUT or CONFLICTING ACTIONS + VALUES | What you must do to get unstuck and grow again

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Mindset Shift | 2 requirements for growth

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You're an Adult | Don't get stuck being stuck

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When Values Conflict with Actions | Plus a life update on the Holm Family

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Unpacking Guatemala | PART 2

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Unpacking Guatemala | God the Great Orchestrator PART 1

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2 of My Own Limiting Beliefs I'm Ditching: Money + Health

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Big Girl Energy Power Pants | Expanding My Thinking

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Cannonballing into the Deep End: Make Your Brain Work FOR You and Create Results

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Creating Margin, Setting Goals, and Growth for the Impact-Minded Mom

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Words Have Power | How to Make Words Work for You vs Against You

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Showing the Way: Turning around to help others on their journey

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Self-Sabotage: Learn to understand your brain to avoid stunting your growth

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Desired Results: Action + Mindset Formula

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Money Mindset | Growing Through Limiting Stories that REPEL Money

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Self Care: Selfish or SelfLESS?

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The Only Way to GROW is Through CHALLENGE

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POSTURING | Success in Alignment

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Co-Coaching with Francine | Inside Our Collab Coaching Mastermind

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Positioning Yourself | Here I am, Send me!

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The Wilderness of the Soul

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The Art of Intentional Rest: Finding Fulfillment in God's Presence

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Unscripted journaling: Dump, explore, & do the messy mindset work

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Seasons of Growth: Exploring the best tips for God-centered growth in life and biz with guest Ryan Guerra, Founder + Owner Forged Man Collective

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The Art of BEING: Holding Space & Sitting Intentionally in Stillness

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If You're Not Growing You're Dying 2.0 with Guest Tommy McCollister

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TIME: How to maximize your only NON-RENEWABLE resource

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Goodbye 2023, Bye People-Pleasing, Hello, 2024!

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Hustle vs Hard Work: Here's why 1 IS better than the other in the long run.

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You are going to be MISUNDERSTOOD: 3 Tips to Not Let It Direct the Outcomes in Your Life

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Creating Routines MATTERS: Here's how you can use routines to minimize living in a reactive state, maximize energy potential, and gain freedom

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Why EVERYTHING Worthwhile in Life Scares the it-shay out of you: 3 tips to help you grow through it

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When growth feels clunky, awkward, unnatural, and uncomfortable: KEEP GOING!

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You feel like a POSER> You're either trying to be someone else OR you're trying to live up to some ideal you've created

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You are your biggest problem. Tips to grow yourself.

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Tips to Navigate Back to School Schedules, Family Meals, and School Lunches

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Treat your Goal like a Business NOT a Hobby

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5 Ways to Practice a Growth Mindset Every Day

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How to Overcome ANY Obstacle in EVERY Goal

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Nothing Changes if Nothing Changes > 3 Ways to Move the Needle

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NEW Content! MINDSET > Mastering the Reframe

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Get Uncomfortable: When God is Stirring your Heart

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Ep. #12: Grow or Die

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Ep. #11: Removing Toxins- from your home, food, environment and every day products.

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Ep. #10: Creating Sustainable Habits- Reduce Stress, Stay Consistent, Produce Lasting Results

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Ep. #9: Planning to Win- Meal planning, prepping, and eating well on purpose!

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Ep. 8: The 4 Pillars of Health- How to maximize mindset and the stories you tell yourself to create effective and lasting habit change to feel your best.

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Ep. #7: My Wellness Journey- From Burnout & Starving to Fed, Fit & Free!

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Ep. #6: You Can't Control Thoughts Entering Your Mind- You CAN Reframe

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Ep. #5: Your Inner Circle + Environment Influence You

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Ep. #4: Self Talk, Your Inner Critic, Your Future Self & Filtering Through Her Lens.

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Ep. #3: Mindset Matters and YOU are 100% in Control of your Perspective ALWAYS

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Ep. #2 From didn't know to didn't care to burned out to freedom- My Wellness Journey

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Ep. #1: Welcome to The True Wellness Podcast with Chelsey Holm

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Ep. #9: If You're Not Growing, You're Dying- Why and how to challenge yourself so all the boats rise.

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Ep. #8 What I Call the 4 Pillars of Healthy Habits- The key to sustainability and results!

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Ep. #7 I ran a freaking marathon! Here's what I learned

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Ep. #6 Systems: Identifying the bottlenecks causing frustration and draining your energy so you can implement a system to avoid the pain, bring peace and good energy back into your life.

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Ep. #5 MommySteps: The Ultimate Marriage Program- What my husband and I are working through right now because we have a good marriage but want it to be great and we were sick of frustrating patterns we keep getting stuck in.

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Ep. #4 Mommy Steps: Family vision- What? Why? How? It's all in this episode, mama!

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Ep. #3: MommySteps on EXERCISE- Mindset, correcting imbalances and posture, plus the keys to creating a good habit that lasts and produces results!

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Ep. #2 Why Am I SO Exhausted Every Day As A Mom?!

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Season 3 Ep #1: Welcome to MommySteps! Small steps in health, wellness, and life that give certainty to go in the direction you really want!

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Ep. #31: Challenge Groups- How and why to use them to add value to people and transition them into customers.

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Ep. #30: VIP Facebook Groups- Why use them, how to use them, and the benefits of using them to connect and grow your biz on social media

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Ep. #29: Oh No! Your kids are sick- here's what you can do, plus my favorite products that I always have on hand.

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Ep. #28: Mindset of Business- the power of awareness paired with simple tools to make our thoughts work for us in this "NO" business.

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Ep. #27: The Unsupportive Spouse- How to navigate the tricky waters of building a business when the one you love and who loves you most isn't exactly in your corner.

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Ep. #26: 3 Key Nutrients for Real Energy- You can feel your best every single day!

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Ep. #25: Answering the question "What do you do" without stuttering, stumbling, fire-hosing, or talking all about yourself

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Ep. #24: What isn't creating income right now?- Inflation is at an all-time high, annual projected raises aren't adding up, and a typical family could feel a difference with an extra $250-$500 a month!

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Ep. #23: Dry Brushing 411- the why, how, scientific proof, personal experience, and tips to get started

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Ep. #22: Coaching Your Team- What you need to know in order to successfully coach your team in creating their own success in business

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Ep. #21: Common Setbacks and Speedbumps- Why shifting your mindset from avoidance to expectation is key to building your business.

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Ep. #20: Failure- Why failure in your business is a good thing because it means you're taking risks and challenging yourself to grow, plus, how to foster this mindset in your own family!

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Ep. #19: 3rd Party Tools- What are they, how to use them, and why you want to use them to grow your biz!

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Ep. #18: Don't forget to celebrate- Why you need to train your brain to celebrate your small wins and big wins in health and life!

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Ep. #17: Social Media- How to use social media as a tool to connect with people, build relationships, and grow your business from your phone.

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Ep. #16: Sharing the Biz- Why it's your best product or service that is way under-shared!

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Ep. #15: Collagen- What is it, what it does in your body, and why you want to have it!

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Ep. #14: Systems!! Why you need systems for your customers and distributors!

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Ep. #13- Pace in Business: Walking, Jogging, & Sprinting

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Ep. #12: Veggies- How to get more in your diet and love them, plus why you need them

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Ep. #11 Mindset of Success: How to think about where you are going so your mind is ready when you get there.

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Ep. #10 Generosity in Business: How to be generous without giving everything away for free.

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Ep. #9: Exercise- Even if you've never been successful in consistently working out, you can start and stick to it now.

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Ep. #8: Events that Excite- Tips to maximize your events by choosing options that increase your energy and attraction.

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Ep. #7 Excellent Customer Service- how to turn customers into raving fans and create your own passive income.

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Ep. BONUS Approachable Health- Getting and staying healthy should not overwhelm, add stress, or confuse you!

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Ep. #6 Water: How to drink more water and stay more hydrated even if you greatly struggle to hydrate now.

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Ep. #5: Make a Sale- How to sell a product or service without feeling slimy or icky.

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Ep. #4 Be a Friend: How to connect with people on a deeper level and why it's important.

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Ep. #3: Sleep- How to improve sleep quality and wake more refreshed

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Ep. #2: Being a Product of the Products is MUST, Here's How You Do It Too!

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Ep. 1: How to connect with people on a deeper level through story telling.

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Ep. #26 Getting Back to the Real Meaning of Christmas & Gift Giving as a Family.

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Ep. #25 Family Traditions That Bring Joy, Life, & Connection Rather Than Stress, Depletion, and Frustration.

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Ep. #24 How to Identify Unhealthy Habits & Crowd Them Out.

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Ep. #23 How to Start Eating Healthier Without Burnout, Starving, Binging, or Restricting.

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Ep. #22 How to Start & Stick to a Workout Routine.

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Ep. #21 Get Unsettled: Why letting your life be uprooted and unsettled can be a really good thing.

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Ep. #20 Rock Out Date Night In, Out, Or Away!

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Ep. #19 The Spicy Episode: What if you and your spouse speak different love languages, can you still have a marriage that thrives in the bedroom and life?

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Ep. #18 Healthy Through the Holidays: Small steps focused on the 4 pillars of health that lead to big results over time.

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Ep. #17 Healthy Ways to Fill Your Cup that leave you energized, not guilty or shirking responsibilities.

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Ep. #16 Confidence & Marriage- What Is confidence, are you born with it or can anyone be confident, and how does it all affect marriage?

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Ep. #15 Share What You Love- If you find something you love, who do you tell first?!

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ep. #14 Skincare- How to take care of your skin, see results you want without compromising on cost, safety, or quality!

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Ep. #13 Time Management- How to Maximize your time, get the most important things done, and shift your mindset about time.

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Ep. #12: Energy- How did I go from afternoon slump & poor quality of sleep to energetic mom who has enough energy to go around?

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Ep. #11: MomHacks for School Lunches- How to pack lunches and snacks that will fill + fuel your kids well AND they will love them!

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Ep. #10: Morning Routine- Have you found a way to set your morning up for success?

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Ep. #9 Business Amidst Busyness: Why busy people do so well with a side hustle business.

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BONUS #1: Immune Support- What can you really do to help your immune response to any kind of ick going around?

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Ep. #8 Faith: How to have peace, certainty, hope, and joy in a world trying to manufacture that which only Jesus can offer.

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Ep. #7 The Uncompromising Mom

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Ep. #6 Recovery- Are you focusing on active recovery, overtraining, or you have no idea?

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Ep. #5 Move Yo Body- Are you exercising too much, too little, or not getting the results you want?

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Ep. #4 Stand Up

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Ep. #3: Protein- Are you getting enough in your daily diet?

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Ep. #2 Mindset- Are your thoughts taking your closer or farther from your goals?

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Ep. #1 My Story- Where I'm coming from so you know where we are going!