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Sex, Love & Elephants with Dr. Cheryl — 203 episodes

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1

Marriage 911—Verbal Abuse

2

Marriage 911—Is Divorce the Answer?

3

Make your Mate a Soulmate: A Conversation with Dr. Cheryl & Love Alchemist Arielle Ford

4

Love, Loss & Letting Go: a Conversation with Dr. Cheryl & Transformational Speaker Kute Blackson

5

Fall Back in Love on a Birthday Date

6

Knowledge Is Not Power: How to Actually Create Lasting Change in Your Relationship

7

Best of Sex, Love & Elephants: Don’t Be Nasty! Top Three Ways to Show Your Partner Kindness in 2026

8

Best of Sex, Love & Elephants: Dr. Cheryl’s Top Three Tips for Building a Healthy Long Term Relationship

9

Best of Sex, Love & Elephants: Three Unusual Valentine’s Date Ideas to Make Love Intentional

10

Best of Sex, Love & Elephants: Are you a Romance Dud? Try Dr. Cheryl’s 3 Tips for More Romance

11

Best of Sex, Love & Elephants: Stop Ugly Fighting! 3 Tips to Argue Effectively

12

Best of Sex, Love & Elephants: Take the New Year’s Plunge

13

Insights From Ebenezer Scrooge: A Holiday Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

14

Best of Sex, Love & Elephants: Improve your Relationship Over the Holidays

15

Best of Sex, Love & Elephants: Help! I Want Sex—They Don’t! Your Love & Sex Questions Answered

16

Best of Sex, Love & Elephants: Passion Performance Review

17

Make Up Your Mind and Pick Joy: A Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

18

Dr. Cheryl Solves All of Your Biggest Relationship Conflicts

19

The Top 3 Reasons Long Term Relationships Fail

20

Lust Fades But Your Sex Life Shouldn’t: Dr. Cheryl & Her Hubby Talk Sex

21

Even Love Experts Suffer Communication Breakdown: Dr. Cheryl & Her Hubby Tell All

22

What’s It Like Being Married to a Love Expert? Meet Dr. Cheryl’s HUSBAND!

23

Reboot Your Relationship: Lesson Two — The Passion Triangle

24

Reboot Your Relationship: Lesson One of Dr. Cheryl’s Free Starter Course

25

Masculine & Feminine Energy in Modern Relationships: Is Long-Term Love Dead? Part 13

26

How to Deal With a Reluctant Partner: Is Long-Term Love Dead? Part 12

27

Can Adventure Make Your Mate More Attractive?: Is Long Term Love Dead? Part 11

28

How to Calm the Monkey Mind: A Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

29

Dr. Cheryl and Sexual Health Expert Dr. Lori Brotto Explore Better Sex Through Mindfulness Is Long-Term Love Dead? Part 10

30

Should I Stay or Go—When Is It Time to Call It Quits?: Is Long-Term Love Dead? Part 9

31

Rewrite the Story in your Head: Is Long-Term Love Dead? Part 8

32

Schedule Sex & Make a Passion Comeback: Is Long-Term Love Dead? Part 7

33

To Revive Your Sexual Spark, Take Control of Your Erotic Life: Is Long-Term Love Dead? Part 6

34

Does Your Relationship Lack Lasting Desire? THIS Could Be Why: Is Long-Term Love Dead? Part 5

35

Dr. Cheryl and Relationship Expert Bruce Muzik Talk Love Attachment Styles: Is Long-Term Love Dead? Part 4

36

Communicate With Kindness: Is Long-Term Love Dead? Part 3

37

Commitment is a Choice: Is Long-Term Love Dead? Part 2

38

Is Long-Term Love Dead?

39

Best of Sex, Love & Elephants: Are You Lazy in Bed? Try My Top 3 Tips to be a Better Lover

40

Best of Sex, Love & Elephants: Are you a Romance Dud? 3 Tips for More Romance

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Best of Sex, Love & Elephants: Stop Ugly Fighting! 3 Tips to Argue Effectively

42

Three Tips for Better Sex in 2024

43

Dr. Cheryl & Her Hubby Talk Sex, Love & Life: SLE Holiday Rewind Vol 2

44

Sensual Ways to Stuff a Stocking & Make the Holidays Romantic: SLE Holiday Rewind Vol 2

45

Improve your Relationship Over the Holidays: SLE Holiday Rewind Vol 1

46

Grade Your Relationship: Pass or Fail? It’s Time For a Passion Performance Review

47

Prisoners of the Mind—Why Suffering is Up to You: A Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

48

What Masks Do You Wear?: A Hallowe’en Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

49

Best Of Sex, Love & Elephants: How to Apologize Like a MoFo

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Want an Exceptional Relationship? Prepare to Work

51

Lust Fades But Your Sex Life Shouldn’t: Dr. Cheryl & Her Hubby Talk Sex

52

Even Love Experts Suffer Communication Breakdown: Dr. Cheryl & Her Hubby Tell All

53

What’s It Like Being Married to a Love Expert? Meet Dr. Cheryl’s HUSBAND!

54

In a Love Rut? Wish You Could Start again? Rate your Passion Triangle

55

Best of Sex, Love, & Elephants: Great Relationships Need More Than Love—Summer of Love Part 8

56

Best of Sex, Love, & Elephants: Start Scheduling Intimacy and Treat Your Sex Life Like a Hobby—Summer of Love Part 7

57

Best of Sex, Love, & Elephants: STOP Treating Your Mate Like a Roommate—Summer of Love Part 6

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Best of Sex, Love, & Elephants: NOT COMPATIBLE? Think Again—Summer of Love Part 5

59

Best of Sex, Love, & Elephants: What’s Your Fantasy? 50 Shades of S, L, & E—Summer of Love Part 4

60

Best of Sex, Love, & Elephants: Watch Your Mouth! Can Verbal Abuse Be Overcome?—Summer of Love Part 3

61

Best of Sex, Love, & Elephants: Sometimes You’ve Gotta Rock the Boat—Summer of Love Part 2

62

Best of Sex, Love, & Elephants: Should I Stay or Should I Go?—Summer of Love Part 1

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Don’t Change Your Mate—Change Your MIND

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Don’t Wait Until It’s Too Late—Love Fiercely While You Can

65

Best of Sex, Love, & Elephants: Don’t Make Excuses for Bad Behaviour—Apologize like a MoFo

66

Why Aren’t We Happier?: A Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

67

For a Positive Relationship, Fight Your Negativity Bias

68

Making Love Matters - Suffering From a Sexless Bedroom? Prioritize Your Sensual Life

69

Embrace the Moment, Treasure Your Sweetheart

70

A Meditation on Loving Kindness with Dr. Cheryl

71

The Five Hindrances to Happiness: a Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

72

Great Love Is No Accident: Become Passion Doors Are OPEN

73

Spend 3 Months with Cheryl Renovating Your Relationship—Welcome to the Passion Masterclass!

74

Marriage 9-11 - Don’t Give Up

75

Marriage 911: Sex & Aging

76

Marriage 911: Roommates—No Passion

77

Marriage 911: After the Affair

78

Marriage 911: Verbal Abuse

79

Marriage 911: Is Divorce the Answer?

80

Miserable? Time to Board a Different Train!: A Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

81

You Don’t Have to Be Special to Be Loved: A Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

82

Self Compassion First: A Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

83

Finding Pleasure in Fitness: a Spirited Conversation with Dr. Cheryl and Oonagh Duncan

84

My Top Three Tips for Building a Healthy Long Term Relationship

85

Three Unusual Valentine’s Date Ideas to Make Love Intentional

86

Don’t Be Nasty! Top Three Ways to Show Your Partner Kindness in 2024

87

Lazy In Bed? Try My Top 3 Tips To Be a Better Lover in 2024

88

Are you a Romance Dud? 3 Tips for More Romance in 2024

89

Stop Ugly Fighting! Three Tips to Argue Effectively in 2024

90

Three Tips for Better Sex in 2024

91

Take the New Year's Plunge into 2024

92

Cast Out Your Inner Scrooge: A Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

93

The Santa Claus Effect: A Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

94

Best of Sex, Love & Elephants: Sensual Ways to Stuff a Stocking - Make the Holidays Romantic

95

Improve your Relationship over the holidaysSex, Love, and Holidays Vol 1

96

Suffering Is a Choice You Make: A Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

97

Hungry Ghosts, Greedy Demons & Monstrous Mindstates: A Halloween Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

98

Connecting Deeper: A Conversation with Dr. Cheryl & Marital Therapist Andrew G. Marshall

99

Listen to Real Couples Tell Their Stories - Become Passion Program Doors Are OPEN

100

Spend 3 Months with Cheryl Renovating Your Relationship—Welcome to the Passion Masterclass!

101

Break Your Painful Relationship Patterns & Reignite the Spark—It’s NOT Too Late

102

Join Dr. Cheryl LIVE! Online Masterclass THIS WEEK

103

Don’t Settle for a Mediocre Marriage, Rediscover Passion and Pleasure— Real Couples, Real Results in Their Own Words

104

From I Want a Divorce to Falling Back in Love - Real Couples Real Results in their own words

105

The Top 3 Reasons Couples Divorce—and How to Fix Them

106

Exceptional Love On Purpose

107

Strip Down, Rise Up to the Erotic : An Intimate Chat with Dr. Cheryl and Sheila Kelley

108

Stop Wasting Time and Start Focusing on What’s Important: A Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

109

For an Exceptional Relationship, Love With Intention

110

For an Exceptional Relationship, Become the Passion You Seek

111

To Receive Peace, Practice Generosity: A Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

112

Sensuality, Arousal, and Why You Should Never Say I’m Not In The Mood Ever Again | Your Sex and Love Questions Answered

113

Thrill and The Process of Igniting a Flame That Wasn't There From The Start | Your Sex and Love Questions Answered

114

Sarcasm: Playful Banter or Verbal Cruelty? | Your Sex and Love Questions Answered

115

Do the Work! Make Your Love Intentional

116

Are You Great at Celebrating Your Love— Or Does Your Larger Family Get All the Goodies?

117

Go Out, Get Mushy, and Fall In Love All Over Again: The Great Summer Relationship Reconnect Vol IV

118

Make Peace, Make Music & Prioritize Passion - The Great Summer Relationship Reconnect Vol III

119

The Great Summer Relationship Reconnect Game

120

Kiss More, Kiss Often

121

Relationship Reality Check: Your Expectations Are Making You Miserable

122

Spring into Love: Cultivate a Generous Mind

123

Spring into Love: The Importance of Kindness

124

Best Of Sex, Love, and Elephants: The Sex You’re Not Having

125

Everything Is Okay: A Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

126

How to Honor the Elephant

127

Watch Your Language—and Practice Positive Speech with Your Partner

128

Learn to Avoid the Big Fight Before the Flight

129

Have You Gotten a Sleep Divorce?

130

Love like an Elephant Part 2: True Love VS Desire Love

131

This Valentine’s Day, Pay It Forward

132

It’s Time to Start Scheduling Sex: 2023 Relationship Reboot

133

Take my 10 Minute Quiz and Rate Your Passion: 2023 Relationship Reboot

134

Add Adventure and Improve Your Attraction: 2023 Relationship Reboot

135

New Year, New Intentions

136

Best of! SLE: The Holiday Hangover

137

Best of! SLE: Sensual Ways to Stuff a Stocking - Making Holidays Romantic

138

Let Live and Let Go: A Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

139

REAL Couples, REAL Results- My Become Passion Course Starts THIS Friday!

140

Bring Passion Back to the Bedroom & Reignite Your Love Life—In Just 12 Weeks: Welcome to Dr. Cheryl’s Passion Masterclass

141

Spend 3 Months with Cheryl Renovating Your Relationship! It’s Your Love Life—Invest Wisely

142

Join Dr. Cheryl LIVE! Online Masterclasses THIS WEEK Fall Into Love Minisode 1

143

Dr. Cheryl Answers YOUR Most Burning Love Questions: Fall Into Love Chapter 4

144

How this Love Expert got Divorced - Cheryl’s path from I Do to Disaster : Fall Into Love Chapter 2

145

Keep the Thrill Alive—Norm and Evelyn Did It for 60 Years and So Can You: Fall Into Love Chapter 1

146

Fall Into Love, Fall Into Like: October Sneak Peek

147

What If Your Love Problems Are All Your Fault? Summer of Love 2022 Sendoff

148

Love Stinks! Why? Because Great Relationships Need More Than Love

149

Treat Your Sex Life Like a Hobby: Why You Need to Start Scheduling Intimacy- Summer of Love Part 7

150

STOP Treating Your Mate Like a Roommate and START Bringing Sexy Back- Summer of Love Part 6

151

NOT COMPATIBLE? Change Your Mind, Not Your Mate- Summer of Love Part 5

152

50 Shades of Sex, Love, & Elephants- Summer of Love Part 4

153

Watch Your Mouth! Can Verbal Abuse Be Overcome? - Summer of Love Part 3

154

Summer of Love - August Preview

155

Sometimes You’ve Gotta Rock the Boat- Summer of Love Part 2

156

Should I Stay or Should I Go? Summer of Love Part 1

157

Introducing The New “Summer of Love” series - Ask me YOUR Love & Sex Questions!

158

How to Stop the Three Poisonous Emotions RUINING Your Life

159

Couples on the Couch - Stop Keeping Score, Start Loving What Is

160

Battling & Befriending Your Doubt Demons

161

The Sex You’re Not Having

162

It IS Possible to Be Happy For No Reason…Even When Your Dog Is Dying

163

Let’s Talk Buddha Dharma: Practicing The Six Perfections

164

Nothing Can Stop Your Elephant - Not Even the Monkey Talk!

165

Will Smith was Flooded! The Science Behind “The SLAP”

166

Death, Cake, and Living Large: Birthday Presence Part Two

167

Silence and Birthday Presence

168

Help! I Want Sex—They Don’t! Your Love & Sex Questions Answered

169

Am I With the Wrong Person? Your Love & Sex Questions Answered

170

Should I Share My Taboo Fantasy with My Partner? Your Love & Sex Questions Answered

171

Do Healthy Couples Argue? Your Love & Sex Questions Answered

172

Unhappy in Life or Love? Rewrite the Story in Your Mind

173

Burn Your Romance Novels and Save Your Relationship

174

Reboot Your Relationship in Four Weeks Part 4: Tantalize

175

Reboot Your Relationship in Four Weeks Part 3: Tease

176

Let Go & Replenish- An Elephant Prescription for Healing: Part 2

177

Let Go & Replenish- An Elephant Prescription for Healing: Part 1

178

No “Thing” Can Make You Happy - Happiness Is an Inside Job

179

Sex, Love, and Christmas: The Holiday Hangover

180

Make Christmas Sexy - Sensual Ways to Stuff a Stocking

181

Be the Surfboard, Not the Log: a Buddhist Take on Tough Emotions

182

In Celebration of Friendship

183

Fighting the 3 Poisonous Emotions With Elephant Power

184

Couples Q&A With Dr. Cheryl - Fight Fair, Fall Back in Lust, and Rediscover Your Sweetheart

185

Ignite the Spark, Find Passion, and Fall in Love All Over Again—With the One You’re Already With

186

How to Re-ignite Love, Passion, and yes...Sex! Dr. Cheryl’s Passion Masterclass

187

Great Sex at any Age - One Couples Story On the Couch with Dr. Cheryl

188

Marriage Boredom? Get On the Couch with Dr. Cheryl and Reignite Passion

189

Why Celebrations are Good for Your Psyche and Your Relationships

190

Don’t Make Excuses for Bad Behaviour - Instead, Apologize like a MoFo

191

Why Meditation Sucks—But You Should Do It Anyway, Part 2: Dr. Cheryl’s Long, Strange Trip

192

Why Meditation Sucks - and Why you Should do it Anyway

193

The Third Key to Passion: Sensuality

194

The Second Key to Passion: Thrill

195

The First Key to Passion: Intimacy

196

Revive a Dying Relationship With the Three Keys to Passion

197

Misery or Happiness? The Buddha’s Four Facts of Life

198

An Aspiration a Day keeps the Divorce Lawyer Away

199

Love & Anxiety in the Age of COVID

200

Soothe the Monkey Mind and Follow the Elephant

201

You are Married to the Wrong Person… if you expect them to make you happy

202

Your Sex Drive and the Rollercoaster of Lust: Myths Busted :)

203

Kill the Soulmate and Date your Elephant - Because Happiness is an Inside Job