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Carlie's Couch — 300 episodes

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376: How to Get Your Spark Back

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375: How to Get Out of Your Own Way

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374: Practice as a Prayer

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373: Get Off the Self-Help Rollercoaster

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372: How to Savor the Moment

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371: Do. The. Thing.

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370: Love Yourself First: The Art of Dating Yourself

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369: Coffee, Community, & Purpose ft. Tony Jolly

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368: Are You Protecting Your Peace or Just Avoiding Discomfort?

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367: Playing for Purpose: Mental Health, Resilience, & Legacy ft. Kristina Mills

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366: Tips for Starting Over or Beginning Again

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365: Celebrating 7 Years of Carlie's Couch! Cocktails, Transitions, & a Lexit

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364: Living in the Future v. Living in the Now

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363: Your Guide to Creating a More Whimsical Life

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362: Understanding and Unlearning Internalized Misogyny

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361: Stop Rushing! Why Slowing Down Gets You Further…

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360: Everybody’s Got a Story

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359: Breaking the Cycle of Self-Sabotage

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358: The Parts of Me I Don’t Show

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357: Soft Launching My New Personality

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356: Is It a Red Flag or Are You Just Scared?

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355: Dont Save Her, He/She/They Don’t Wanna Be Saved

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354: The Power of “I Don’t Know Yet”

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353: You Don't Have To Monetize Everything You're Good At

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352: Fuel or Fool? Chasing Goals to Prove Haters Wrong

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351: Discretion: The Power of Knowing When to Shut Up

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350: The Mirror Theory & Why People Trigger You

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349: The Fear of Being Seen

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348: Do You Love Yourself Enough to Choose Better?

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347: Time for a Mental Health Check-in?

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346: Why You Should Be Paying Attention to Your Pelvic Floor ft. Dr. Josephine Duncan

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345: A Trick to Help Regulate Your Nervous System

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344: From Avoidance to Action: Facing Your Fears

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343: Don't Order What's Not On The Menu

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342: Reframe Your Outlook on Failure

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341: Let's Take a Time Out

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340: Tomorrow Man Theory as a Way of Life

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339: Clearing Up Confusion Around Humility

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338: The Power of Purpose in Your Life

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337: Is Fear Holding You Back or Pushing You Forward?

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336: Paying Attention: The Real Cost of Where You Focus

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335: Are Competing Beliefs Blocking Manifestation?

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334: Since You Got Your Degree & You Know Everything

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333: Ask For What You Want

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332: The First Rule of Fight Club Is...

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331: Reclaiming Your Body Image

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330: The World Could Use a Little More Empathy

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329: Romance as a Way of Life

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328: Letting Go & Getting Into Alignment ft. Coach LaLa V

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327: This Christmas: Protect Your Peace & Avoid Crashing Out

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326: Go Shawty, It's Ya Birthday!

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325: You Don’t Have to Do Everything By Yourself

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324: Psychology of Self: 3 Biases & How They Impact Your Life

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323: Glimmers: The Opposite of Triggers

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322: Closing the Gap Between Your Talent and Taste

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321: 5 Steps to Finally Overcome Procrastination

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320: Stop Thinking Through Your Emotions, Feel Them

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319: Sneaky Signs that You're Insecure

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318: Choose Your Own Adventure: Being vs Doing

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317: Opening Up for Deeper Relationships

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316: The Value of Friends Across Generations

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315: Beyond Money: How Scarcity Keeps You Stuck

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314: Say Goodbye to Busyness: Decrease Stress, Increase Productivity

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313: Taking The Path of Least Resistance

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312: You May Be Oversharing If...

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311: Overconsumption is Killing Your Creativity

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310: Put Joy First

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309: Understanding Gut Health & The Gut-Brain Connection

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308: The Power of Likability

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307: If They Wanted To, They Would: Fact or Fiction?

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306: Transform Relationships & Find Peace with the “Let Them” Theory

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305: Find Yourself & Meet Success Halfway ft. Taurean Nixon

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304: Be Impeccable with Your Word

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303: The Key to Personal Growth

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302: Fighting Sleep?

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301: Release That Anger

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300: Delulu is the Solulu

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299: How to Show Up for Your Strong Friends

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298: Should You Be With Someone Who Loves You More?

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297: How to Have Better Meetings

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296: Why Keeping It Casual is Making You Lose in Life

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295: The Best Part of Getting Older

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294: Confrontation? Yes, Please!

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293: Balance Your Mental Workload

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292: Guide to Finding Yourself

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291: Lex Goes on a Silent Retreat

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290: Building a Framework for Lasting Change

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289: The 48 Laws of Power?

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288: Prioritizing Your Future Self

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287: Reflections of the Human Condition ft. Tyvette Symone

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286: The Ugly Truth Behind Mr.Nice Guy/Ms.Nice Girl

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285: Shame is an Identity Problem

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284: Personal Productivity Hacks

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283: Stop Beating Yourself Up!

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282: More Romance, Please

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281: Own Your Sexual Desire

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280: The Art of Comparison

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279: What Would Happen If You Went All In?

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278: Accepting Where You Are

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277: Are You Projecting?

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276: How to Write Your Life Manifesto

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275: The Danger of Needing People to Like You

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274: Fake It Til You Make It?

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273: When Grace Goes Too Far...

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272: Cut Out the Middleman to Happiness

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271: Our Parents Are Getting Older...

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270: The Cost of Perfectionism in Relationships

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269: Is Being Neutral Keeping Us from Progress?

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268: No Role Modelz

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267: Allowing Your Work to Evolve

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266: Domestic Violence Awareness

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265: Overstimulation: Can We Stop It?

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264: Thank You Goes a Long Way

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263: Break Free From the Achievement Cycle

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262: So You Want to Be Less Emotionally Reactive

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261: Giving and Receiving Feedback

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260: How to Be an Emotionally Safe Person

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259: Try These 5 Self-Soothing Techniques

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258: Building a Framework for Business Success ft. Jon Kinnard

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257: Defining Relationship Non-Negotiables

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256: 6 More Lessons in Business

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255: The Downside of Constantly Focusing on Self-Improvement

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254: Analysis Paralysis: Just Make a Decision

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253: Why Are We Here?

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252: Is It Really Necessary to Love What You Do?

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251: Other People's Emotions Are Not Your Responsibility

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250: Does Healing Make You Less Ambitious?

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249: When Things Get Stressful, Can You Go With The Flow?

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248: Life Isn't Fair

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247: Understanding Abandonment Issues

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246: Is Struggle Necessary for Growth?

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245: The Power of Touch

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244: Friendships Need Attention Too

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243: When Should I Ask For Help?

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242: Write It Down & Make It Real For Me

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241: Could It Be That You're Overwhelmed?

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240: The Art of Preparation ft. Will Medley

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239: Keep Your Hands to Yourself: The Effects of Sexual Harassment

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238: Revolutionizing Education ft Dr. Charli Kemp

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237: The Gift of Grief

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236: Whose Opinion Matters?

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235: Are We Compatible?

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234: Do This to Regulate Your Nervous System

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233: Is Happiness a Choice?

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232: How to Practice Radical Honesty

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231: How to Deal with Disappointment

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230: Maybe You Don't Deserve a Partner with Everything

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229: Signs You May Deal with Seasonal Depression

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228: Making the Industry Transparent ft. Rae Benjamin

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227: You’ve Got Self-Discipline All Wrong

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226: 6 Valuable Lessons in Business

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225: Can People Really Change?

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224: New Year, New Me?

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223: 22 Questions

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222: Get Rid of Victim Mentality & be the Hero in your Life

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221: The Streets Are Calling

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220: Survival Tactics Only Take You So Far

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219: Dating Differently

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218: The Art of Self-Mastery ft. Kian Taylor

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217: Their Healing is Not Your Responsibility

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216: Take It Slow

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215: Politics as Usual? Bringing Compassion to Lawmaking ft. John Conyers III

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214: Become Your Own Biggest Champion

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213: Jealous Much?

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212: Heal Your Inner Child

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211: 8 Ways to Improve Your Focus & Concentration

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210: Ready to Move to Another Country? ft: Amber C. Edwards

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209: Say This Not That: Supportive Conversations

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208: The Cold Shower Challenge

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207: HEATED: Managing Chronic Anger

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206: Living Single

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205: How to Make a Plan That Actually Works

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204: Shame May Be Holding You Back

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203: Achieving What Seems Impossible

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202: Why Embarrassing Yourself is a Good Thing

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201: Check Your Expectations

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200: Say This, Not That

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199: Watch the Tape: Being a Student of Yourself

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198: How to Live a Softer Life

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197: How Do You Build Trust?

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196: It's Not About Me ft. Ambrose Clincy Jr.

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195: Nourishing Vibes Only ft. Carlie Carpio

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194: The Woman, The Myth, The Legend: Alexia Clincy

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193: How to Ask Better Questions

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192: Do We Have Free Will?

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191: Do I Need to Control Everything?

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190: Be Yourself, Don't Lose Yourself!

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189: A Candid Conversation about Mental Health

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188: Wtf is Manifestation?

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187: Validation is an Inside Job

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186: Stay Curious

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185: Challenge Negative Thoughts with This Framework

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184: How Detachment Could Improve Your Life

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183: How to Flip a Scarcity Mindset

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182: No Regrets?

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181: The Dark Side of Being Too Positive

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180: Entrepreneurial Activism ft. Karim Webb

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179: Changing the Narrative on Incarceration ft. Daniel Forkkio

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178: Let's Talk About Sex ft. Dr. Stasia Gordon

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177: To Help Just One Person ft. Jaren Doby

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176: 7 Types of Rest

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175: Create a Morning Routine that Sticks

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174: How to Break Free from People-Pleasing

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173: What's Triggering Your Anxiety?

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172: The Danger in Setting Your Goals Too Low

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171: What a Difference a Year Makes

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170: Stop Making Excuses & Accept Responsibility

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169: Are You Consuming Too Much?

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168: Are You Suppressing Your Feelings?

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167: How to Recover from Burnout

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166: Stop Negotiating with Yourself

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165: 5 Ways to Improve Your Relationship

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164: What Do You Need?

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163: 4 Signs Your Relationship WON’T Last

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162: We Need to Talk

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161: Mastering Self-Forgiveness

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160: Why Wait?

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159: Stop Explaining Yourself

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158: Worry About Yourself

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157: Self-Care Isn’t the Answer to Everything

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156: You're Not Alone in Feeling Alone

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155: REAL Ways to Build Your Self-Esteem

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154: What it Takes to Pursue Your Dream ft Mario West

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153: How to Be Less Judgy

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152: Breaking Through Your Upper Limit

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151: Beginner's Mind: Ways to Be Mentally Limitless

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150: Catching Up With Your Faves

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149: Believe What You Wanna Believe

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148: Decolonizing Therapy and Building Relationships that Last ft Sandra Espinoza

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147: Building Your Self Care Toolkit

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146: Personal Values & Knowing Who You Really Are

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145: Redesign Your Life ft. Nannearl Brown

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144: Here’s Why You Can't Always Trust Your Instincts

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143: Don't Force It

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142: Have Deeper Conversations with THIS Framework

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141: Challenge Your Inner Bully ft. Stevon Lewis

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140: Feeling Insecure?

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139: Make it Last Forever ft. Sanford & Anastasia Williams

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138: How to Think More Critically

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137: Closed Mouths Don't Get Fed

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136: Master Professional Networking

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135: Fight Me Then!

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134: Coming Undone ft. Eniafe Isis

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133: Embrace Your Femininity

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132: Essentialism: Less, but Better

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131: It's Just as Important to Receive

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130: Tuning In To You

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129: Who Needs Them?

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128: Drugs, Sex & Mayhem

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127: Grief is Like a Ball in a Box ft. John Conyers III

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126: Lessons of Love in Education

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125: I Apologize

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124: Trust Issues

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123: How to Fix America

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122: Processing Emotions

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121: Identifying Emotions

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120: Create Space in Your Life

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119: Being Kind vs Being Nice

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118: Petty is as Petty Does

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117: How to Delegate

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116: Dealing with Rejection

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115: Intro to Entrepreneurship

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114: Are You Listening?

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113: Finding Freedom in Your Routine

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112: Who Are You, Really?

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111: Talk to Me Nice ft. Jason Quaynor, Part 2

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110: Talk to Me Nice ft. Jason Quaynor, Part 1

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109: When to Say No

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108: Be a LinkedIn Guru

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107: Q4 Check-In

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106: Moving Beyond Either/Or Thinking

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105: Don't Take it Personal

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104: How to Win ft. Ashley Hill

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103: Be a Better Finisher

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102: The Problem with Perfection

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101: When You're Worried About a Friend

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100: Celebrating 1 Oh Oh

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99: Relax without Guilt

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98: Focus on the Process

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97: What’s Your Information Diet?

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96: Why Procrastinate?

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95: Why Being Open is Key

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94: Check On It

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93: The Truth About Defensive Behavior

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92: Improving Your Mindfulness Practice

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91: Reflection vs Rumination

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90: Cultivate Your Space

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89: I Choose Violence

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88: Manage Your Expectations

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87: Creating a New Future

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86: Visualize It

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85: Finding Your Flow

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84: Guilt Trippin

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83: How Can I Help?

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82: Fire in Little Africa

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81: When a Friend is Feeling Suicidal

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80: LIVE from Home

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79: Never Have I Ever...

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78: Personality Tests 101

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77: What Are You Willing to Give Up?