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The Speaking Out on Sex Abuse Podcast — 248 episodes
Episode 249 | The End Is Near
Episode 248 | Sifting Through Mental Illness and Scams
Episode 247| Whistleblower Exposes ICC "Cult" That Ignored Abuse for Decades
Episode 246 | Lives Are Spared Because of You Listeners!
Episode 245 | Change Your Attitude Change Your Outcome
Episode 244 | What To Do About Non-Reportable Instances of Abuse
Episode 243| People Defending James MacDonald
Edpisode 242| Dalai Lama's Pathetic Apology
Episode 241 | We Have To Face Our Pain!
Episode 240 | Beware of Self Proclaimed Experts
Episode 239 | Do I Need To Immediately Forgive My Abuser?
Episode 238 | Help Us Help Good People!
Episode 237 | Surprising Stats About Prisoners In the US
Episode 236 | Which Abuse Prevention Training Is Right for You?
Episode 235 | Why We're Still Christians
Episode 234 | Deception Detection Techniques from the FBI
Epsiode 233 | Helping People Find Safe Shelter
Epsiode 232 | Abuse Statistics and Predictions for 2023
Episode 231| Domestic Violence Is Rising Dramatically
Episode 230| Compound Trauma Is NO Joke!
Episode 229 | A Year In Review and BIG NEWS!!
Episode 228 | Mary Byler Amish Misfit
Episode 227 | Should the Church Die To Stop Abuse?
Episode 226 | What Does Forgive as the Lord Forgives Mean???
Episode 225 | Should My Church Allow Sex Offenders To Attend?
Episode 224: Should You Pay for Background Check Services?
Episode 223: Decency Will Win the Battle Against Abuse
Episode 222: Number of Female Pedophiles DOUBLES In Four Years
Episode 221: School Teachers 100 Times More Likely To Abuse Kids than Catholic Priests
Episode 220: We Did Our First Live Abuse Prevention Training!
Episode 219: Why Are Registered Sex Offenders Allowed on Facebook?
Episode 218: What To Expect When Reporting Abuse
Episode 217: When Kids Display Signs of Abuse
Episode 216: Middle School Boys Create "Pedo Database" for Creepy Teacher and He's Now On Leave
Episode 215: Our Top 5 Components of Good Abuse Prevention Training
Episode 214: Our Abuse Training Is All Wrong
Episode 213: Children of the Underground - People Living In Fear
Episode 212: Proof the SBC STILL Doesn't Get It!
Episode 211: Pedophiles Among Us - How Do We Respond? (Part 2)
Episode 210: Pedophiles Among Us - How Do We Respond? (Part 1)
Episode 209: Easiest Way to Spot a Child Abuser (Part 5)
Episode 208: Easiest Way to Spot a Child Abuser (Part 4)
Episode 207: Easiest Way to Spot a Child Abuser (Part 3)
Episode 206: Easiest Way to Spot a Child Abuser (Part 2)
Episode 205 Easiest Way to Spot a Child Abuser (Part 1)
Episode 204: How the Bible Describes Wolves (and It's Not Nice)
Episode 203: Abusers Don't Change (The Bible Says So)
Episode 202: Pastor John Lowe II Confronted By Woman He Raped When She Was 16
Episode 201: SBC Secret Database Proves Leaders Never Cared About Victims
Episode 200: Top 20 Lessons We Learned Podcasting
Episode199: Husband Touches Minor and This Church Lets Him off the Hook
Episode 198: Gothard's Girls- Charis Barker's Experience as a Survivor
Episode 197: Churches Guarantee Failure When They Defend Abusers
Episode 196: The Thing That All Successful Advocates Have in Common
Episode 195: Why Churches Love to Bully Survivors
Episode 193: The Best Way to Protect Kids From Abuse
Episode 192: Should Spouses Report Abuse? It's Complicated
Episode 191: 5 People Jailed for Not Reporting Abuse
Episode 190: How Do I Make It Another Day?
Episode 189: Do Abusers Really Groom Their Victims?
Episode 188: Megachurch Pastor Restores Himself to the Pulpit After Infidelity
Episode 187: Has Your Host Lost His Mind?
Episode 186: Senator Book's Nude Photos Leaked and Sold
Episode 185: How To Handle a Spiritual Abuser
Episode 184: Pastor Kicks Visitor Out for Requesting Prayer | Spiritual Abuse
Episode 183: Why Are Abusers So Weird? This Is How Pedophiles Think
Episode 182: How Did Rogel Lose Control? | Insight From a Trucker
Episode 181: Anna Duggar Stands By Josh | Eric Skwarczynski of Preacher Boys
Episode 180: Les Ferguson Jr. on Child Abuser Who Murdered His Son and Wife
Episode 179: How to Talk to Your Kids About Abuse
Episode 178: How Do You Let Your Kids Know a Family Member Is an Abuser?
Episode 177: Is the American Church Decline Contributing to Abuse?
Episode 176: Trauma Voyeurism - Why We're Obsessed With Watching Other People's Trauma
Episode 175: Are People Secretly Filming You?
Episode 174: What Is the Difference Between Curiosity and a Kid Who Abuses?
Episode 173: The Pandemic Within the Pandemic and How You Can Help!
Episode 172: Catholic Church Abuse Cover Ups In France (Here we go again)
Episode 171: Could Police Have Stopped Gabby Petito's Murder?
Episode 170: Mendy Hicks Sues Everyone Who Covered Up Her Abuse
Episode 169: Are We Using Too Many Labels for Abuse?
Episode 168: How Do I Know if a Leader Is Abusive? With Christine Parker
Episode 167: Naghmeh Panahi Testimony of Abuse by Jailed Pastor
Episode 166: How Clara's Daughter Alex Found Healing from Her Dad's Abuse
Episode 165: How Did the Church Respond When We Reported?
Episode 164: Clara Tells Us How She Got Out of an Abusive Marriage (and how you can too)
Episode 163: Cuomo's Behavior Is Eerily Familiar for Church Abuse Survivors
Episode 162: How Do We Protect Victims When the Justice System Won't?
Episode 161: Are There Really Non-Offending Pedophiles?
Episode 160: If You've Been Abused In the Church God Will. . .
Episode 159: Are My Kids Safe Online? Checklist
Episode 158: Former Amish and Mennonites Tell Us How Bad Abuse Really Is (Part 2)
Episode 157: Former Amish and Mennonites Tell Us How Bad Abuse Really Is (Part 1)
Episode 156: Are My Kids Safe at Home? Checklist
Episode 155: Are My Kids Safe at School? Checklist
Episode 154: Are Your Kids Safe at the Doctor? Checklist
Episode 153: Are My Kids Safe at Church? Checklist
Episode 152: People Who Should Be Well Trained to Prevent Abuse (But Mostly Aren't)
Episode 151: Don't Know Where to Begin? Clara and Jimmy's Top Book Recommendations on Abuse in 2021
Episode 150: Josh Duggar Was Protected When He Needed Help Instead
Episode 149: Should Christians Ever Have Sympathy for Child Abusers?
Episode 148: Sheila Wray Gregoire Discusses The Great Sex Rescue
Episode 147: Should the Church Help Victims Cut Ties With Their Abusers?
Episode 146: Would People Who Welcome Abusers Entrust Their Own Kids With Them?
Episode 145: Minnesota Overturns Felony Rape Charge
Episode 144: Mary Byler - From Amish Survivor to Army Thriver
Episode 143: Alex-The Hero Who Disclosed Abuse to Jimmy and Clara
Episode 142: Should Kids Be Taught About Abuse In School?
Episode 141: How to Identify Men Preying on Young Women
Episode 140: Being Deception Illiterate Fuels Abuse
Episode 139: Where Was the RZIM Board for the Past 3 Years?
Episode 138: The Devil Inside, My Book on Keeping Kids Safe From Abuse
Episode 137: Pennsylvania Once Again Fails Child Sex Victims
Episode 136: Rena Hobbs on Why Churches Cover Up Abuse
Episode 135: Tackling COVID Crises
Episode 134: Janitta Nichols on Ending Generational Abuse
Episode 133: When To Avoid Mean People
Episode 132: Abusers are Hunters
Episode 131: Healing for the Holidays
Episode 130: Why Don't We Require Anything From Abusers When God Does?
Episode 129: Is It Unfair to Label Sex Offenders at Church?
Episode 128: The Pain of Loss
Episode 127:The Most Asked Questions We Receive
Episode 126: Questions to Ask References of Preaching Candidates
Episode 125: Interview Questions to Screen Pastors
Episode 124: Why We Need More Abuser Databases
Episode 123: Megan and Dom Benninger of BaptistAccountability.org
Episode 122: Megan and Dom Benninger of BaptistAccountability.org
Episode 121: Diagnosing Your Church's Health
Episode 120: Wade Mullen's New Book, Something's Not Right
Episode 119: Ravi Zacharias and the Adoration of Abusers
Episode 118: Does Posting Online Save Children From Abuse?
Episode 117: Christa Brown Discusses Databases for Abusers (Part 2)
Episode 116: Christa Brown on Stopping Baptist Predators (Part 1)
Episode 115: "Hell Hath No Fury" Judge Aquilina Discusses Larry Nassar's Letter (Part 2)
Episode 114: Judge Aquilina Talks Abuse Prevention (Part 1)
Episode 113: Inmate Released Due to COVID Murders His Victim
Episode 112: Is the Shortage of Ministers Fueling Abuse?
Episode 111: Five Things Leaders Must Do When Allegations of Abuse Arise
episode 110: Where Are the Pedophiles During COVID?
Episode 109: Interview With Sandy Phillips Kirkham (Part 2)
Episode 108: Interview With Sandy Phillips Kirkham (Part 1)
Episode 107: Is There Any Meaning After Abuse?
Episode 106: How Do We Begin To Trust Again (Part 2)
Episode 105: How Do We Begin To Trust Again? (Part 1)
Episode 104: Do Children Know When Things Aren't Right?
Episode 103: Can Abuse Survivors Expect Closure?
Episode 102: How Spouses of Abusers Can Heal
Episode 101: What Spouses of Abusers Are Going Through
Episode 100: Boz Tchividjian Addresses Abuse During Quarantines
Episode 99: Stay Home, Lose Lives
Episode 98: What about people who can't wear masks?
Episode 97: Supportive VS Non-Supportive Communities
Episode 96: Abusers Should Be Embarrassed For What They've Done
Episode 95: Feeling Guilty For Doing Well
Episode 94: Positive Ways Social Distancing Is Changing Church
Episode 93: The COVID-19 Increase In Child Abuse and What You Can Do
Episode 92: COVID-19 Tips for Finding Babysitters for Working Parents
Episode 91: Advocates Attacking Advocates
Episode 90: 5 Reasons People Don't Warn Others of Abuse
Episode 89: Kelly Haines Takes a Break From Advocacy
Episode 88: Burnout Among Advocates
Episode 87: Joe Scorsone-Preventing Abuse Through Music
Episode 86: Talking To Kids About Abuse In School
Episode 85: Laura Dunn Talks Title IX and How It Applies to K-12
Episode 84: The Cost of Being Abused
Episode 83: Abuse In Schools and Troubling Stats
Episode 82: Guest Katie Talks About Triggers
Episode 81: Principles To Guide Policies For Sex Offenders At Church
Episode 80: What Is the SBC Thinking With This Policy?
Episode 79: Abuse Survivor Helen Maidenrath Talks About Triggers
Episode 78: What are the fruits of repentance for a predator?
Episode 77: "Why did it take so long to speak up?"-a response
Episode 76: How Triggers Can Be Helpful
Episode 75: Sitting On the Ash Heap
Episode 74: How To Move Churches That Are On the Fence
Episode 73: Five Things That Safe Churches Will Do
Episode 72: Sensationalized Forgiveness
Episode 71: Guest Erik Pedersen Shares His Abuse & Cover Ups In Australia
Episode 70: Kelly Downing Shares Her Story of Cover Ups In the Mission Field
Episode 69: Guest Shaun Doughterty Discusses Senator Folmer's Child Porn Charges
Episode 68: Is Abuse On the Rise? (Part 2)
Episode 67: Is Abuse On the Rise? (Part 1)
Episode 66: Bad Tweets-SBC Leaders at It Again
Episode 65: The Power of Community
Episode 64: Tells of Abusers (Part 2)
Episode 63: Myths and Tells of Abusers (part 1)
Episode 62: Church Decline and Some Great News About It
Episode 61: Seven Tips for Churches To Help Survivors of Abuse
Episode 60: Introducing Patreon to This Podcast!
Episode 59: When Ripple Effects are Good
Episode 58: Confronting Abusive Leaders
Episode 57: SBC, Laws That Protect Abusers, and Hope
Episode 56: Watchmen-How Do We Warn Others About Abusers?
Episode 55: Do Abusers Repent?
Episode 54: How Do WE Sort Wolves and Sheep?
Episode 53: Sorting Sheep and Wolves
Episode 52: What Does Jesus Do to Protect From Abusers?
Episode 51: John's Salty Introduction to Jesus
Episode 50: Jesus' Mission to Rescue the Oppressed
Episode 49: Faulty Foundations-God's Foundation Matters
Episode 48: Abusers Create Opportunities, Not Look for Vulnerabilities
Episode 47: Where Are All the Safe Churches?
Episode 46: Survivors Descend on Vatican & J.D. Greear's Announcement
Episode 45: The SBC Abuse Scandal and Enabling Cultures
Episode 44: Interview with Christine Parker of PorchSwing Ministries
Episode 43: The Inner Turmoil Family Member of Abusers Feel
Episode 42: "Obeying Your Leaders" Is a Bad Translation of Heb. 13:17
Episode 41: Victims of Abuse Are Not "Too Emotional"
Episode 40: Guest Abbie Schaub Talks About The Keepers
Episode 39: Tale of the Tortoise and the Hare
Episode 38: Guest Joe Capozzi Talks "A Peloton of One"
Episode 37: Jesus Preached Repentance, the Heart of the Gospel
Episode 36: Repentance Is Central to Forgiveness
Episode 35: The Gift of Forgiveness
Episode 34: The Purpose of Unforgiveness
Episode 33: Forgive As the Lord Forgives (a sermon)
Episode 32: Abusers Are Dangerous (The Bible Says So)
Episode 31: Where the Church Is Headed and What Needs to Happen
Episode 30: Personal Updates and PA Senate Bill Fail
Episode 29: Guest Mary DeMuth Discusses 7 Deadly Friendships
Episode 28: Our Experience Rallying With Abuse Survivors
Episode 27: Leaders--Give Parents a Fighting Chance, Part 2
Episode 26: Leaders--Give Parents a Fighting Chance
Episode 25: Which Way Will the Pendulum Swing?
Episode 24: Shaun Dougherty Unpacks the PA Grand Jury Report
Episode 23: Jules Woodson on the Impact of Speaking Out
Episode 22: Abuse Is Never the Survivors' Fault
Episode 21: From Victim to Survivor
Episode 20: Survivors are Worthy!
Episode 19: Help! (Nobody else will)
Episode 18: Castaways--Believers Who Have No Church to Call Home
Episode 17: Cialdini's 6 Principles of Persuasion, Part 2
Episode 16: Cialdini's 6 Principles of Persuasion, Part 1
Episode 15: How Would You Respond to This Application Letter?
Episode 14: Don't Mistake Feelings for Facts
Episode 13: From Survivor to Thriver: The Impact of One Voice
Episode 12: The Emotional Impact of Narrative
Episode 11: Why Narrative Is Important for Abusers
Episode 10: How Abusers Prey On Our Belief System
Episode 9: The Weaknesses of Red Flag Behaviors
Episode 8: Why So Many Wives Support Abusive Husbands
Episode 7: Another reason we "miss it": Socially skilled abusers
Episode 6: Abuse in plain sight
Episode 5: Processing Grief
Episode 4: The Storm Continues
Episode 3: The Storm After the Calm
Episode 2: Reporting Should Be Easy but It's Actually Devastating
Episode 1: Why We Chose to Podcast