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Undefended Dharma with Mary Stancavage — 373 episodes

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1

Finding Freedom with the Way it Is

2

The Dhammapada and the Lizard

3

It's Not Personal

4

It's Like This

5

The Shambala Warrior

6

Grief 2026

7

Persistence and Patience

8

Aspire to Awakening

9

Practicing the Pause

10

Collectedness of Mind

11

A Foundation of Love

12

The One You Feed

13

Living the Four Noble Truths

14

What Now - How Do We Hold This?

15

Communicating with Clarity

16

The Difficult Practice

17

Understanding What it Means

18

Clarity and Delusion

19

The Four Domains

20

Mindfulness All the Time

21

Our Great Teacher

22

Truth and Reality

23

The Wisdom of Gratitude

24

Embodied Dharma

25

The Pause that Heals

26

Recognizing Our Reactions

27

Truth is Freedom

28

A Reflection on Emptiness

29

The Gap Between the Thoughts

30

The Importance of Wisdom

31

Awe Amidst Suffering

32

Europe Reflections

33

Intention and Expectations

34

Check in With Your Spiritual Practice

35

Taking Refuge

36

The Fire Sermon

37

Patience and Freedom

38

Being Aware of Our Legacy

39

10,000 Joys and 10,000 Sorrows

40

Don't You Know Who I Am?

41

Simple Reflections

42

It's Not Personal - or Permanent or Perfect

43

The Undefended Heart - Now More Than Ever

44

What is Liberation?

45

Sangha as Beloved Community

46

The Truth is Right Here

47

Building a Foundation for Freedom

48

Calm Knowing

49

Managing the Transition

50

Skillful Means

51

Internal Revolution of the Heart

52

Just Collecting Data

53

Reflections on Retreat

54

Heirs to Our Actions

55

Care for Ourselves, Care for Others

56

Relax the Body, Relax the Mind

57

The Roller Coaster is the Human Condition

58

Hope as a Practice

59

Taming the Monkey Mind

60

The Path of No Preference

61

Be a Buddha

62

The Antidote to Fear

63

Stepping into the Darkness

64

Cruising the Dharma

65

The Long Journey

66

The Bodhisattva Realm

67

Grief, Anger and All the Feels

68

Supporting Our Intentions

69

So Many Rules

70

Greet the Moment with Peace

71

Finding Your Way

72

Let Go Let Be

73

Opening Ourselves

74

Suffering and Joy

75

Finding Our Foundation

76

November 2024

77

Seeing Our Goodness

78

Holding It Together

79

The Path of Wisdom

80

Tea with Demons

81

Sati - Being With

82

Tentativenss of Life

83

Choiceless Awareness

84

It Can't Be Different from the Way It Is

85

The Eight Worldly Winds

86

There is No There There

87

Only This Moment

88

Recognizing Our Fixed Views

89

The Noble Eightfold Path

90

Facing Complexity with Gentleness

91

Grounded in Groundlessness

92

Relax, Observe, Allow

93

Everyday Sublime

94

Do Good. Avoid Bad. Purify the Mind.

95

How Do We Do the Dharma - The Path of Kindness.

96

Dropping the Self and Opening to Joy

97

Samsara is a Mess

98

Conventional and Ultimate Reality

99

How Do We Forgive?

100

An Undefended Heart

101

We Are All of a Nature

102

Wise Speech in Challenging Times

103

Letting Go Again and Again

104

Shining a Light on Grief

105

Everyday Impermanence

106

Dropping the 2nd Arrow

107

The Four Efforts

108

Overwhelm is in the Mind

109

Grounded in Gratitude

110

Heart Practices for Our Times

111

Reflections in the Moment

112

Taking Refuge

113

Love and a Very Loud World

114

It's All Real

115

Start Where You Are

116

The Six Realms of Saṃsāra

117

To Cling is to Suffer

118

Spiritual Reslience

119

Greeting the World with Goodwill

120

Wear the World as a Loose Garment

121

Connection and Community

122

Finding Ease in the Present Moment

123

It's On Fire

124

Gratitude and Grief

125

Yeah, but...

126

My Brother Died

127

Greeting the Demons

128

Good Wolf or Bad Wolf?

129

Staying Grounded in a World of Uncertainty

130

Living the Dharma in Difficult Times

131

Deep Intimacy with our Experience

132

Generosity, Patience, Metta

133

Everything is in This Moment

134

Continuity of Mindfulness

135

Wrong View

136

Not Permanent, Not Perfect, Not Personal

137

Holding Emotions

138

Impermanence & Uncertainty

139

Be Careful of Your Legacy

140

Joy Joy Joy

141

A Little Awareness, A Little Emptiness, A Little No-Self

142

No One Gets Out of Here Alive

143

Put Down the Stick of Self

144

The Protection of Lovingkindness

145

Don't Know, Let Go

146

A Short Reflection on Equanimity

147

A Slippery Slope

148

Freedom Through Mindfulness

149

The Relevancy of the Dharma

150

Recognizing Delusion

151

You Must Be Present to Win

152

Follow the Path of Liberation

153

Available to Experience

154

Generosity of the Heart - Mudita

155

Life Teaches Us How to Live It

156

Intention and the Paramis

157

The Three Powers

158

Death and Compassion

159

Women in Buddhism

160

Distractions and Habit Energies

161

Snow Distractions

162

A Foundational Heart Practice

163

We Are of a Nature

164

Greet Everything with Compassion

165

Greetings

166

The Simplicity of Ajahn Chah

167

Three Dimensions of a Complete Life

168

Walking Towards Awakening

169

Rest in Being

170

Darkness and Light

171

Exploring Family Relationships

172

Awakening, Volition and Neuroscience

173

The Water We Swim In

174

Grief and Gratitude

175

Mindfulness: Right Here, Right Now

176

Start Where You Are

177

Doing Good in the World

178

Being in the World

179

Obstacles to Awakening

180

Wisdom and Suffering

181

Kindness

182

Karma and Choice

183

Dukkha Dukkha Dukkha

184

Meditation: Being in the Now

185

The Path to Liberation

186

All You Need is Love

187

Fourteen Years

188

Grief and Loss

189

Setting Intentions with Integrity and Compassion

190

My Human Condition

191

The Experience of Impermanence

192

Don't Believe, Live

193

Turning the Wheel of the Dharma

194

The Importance of Connection

195

Liberation

196

The Delusion of the Hindrances

197

Thoughts Are Not the Enemy

198

Why Love is So Important Right Now

199

2022 and the Undefended Heart

200

The Brahma Viharas and the Undefended Heart

201

Refuge in the Buddha

202

It's Tough Right Now

203

Don't Know Mind

204

You Don't Do the Dharma, the Dharma Does You

205

Joy

206

The Brahma Viharas

207

The Fifth Training Precept

208

The 4th Training Precept

209

The 2nd and 3rd Training Precepts

210

Opening Up to Difficult Moments

211

The First Training Precept

212

Feeling All the Feels

213

A Wise Heart

214

It's All Real

215

It's All In the Mind

216

Remembering Thích Nhất Hạnh

217

The Perfection of Wisdom

218

Connection

219

There Is Nowhere Else

220

New Year's Eve 2021 Intention Setting

221

New Year's Eve 2021 Refuges and Precepts

222

Letting Go Into Clarity

223

The Wisdom and Love of bell hooks

224

Setting Intention with the Paramis

225

Kisa Gotami: Grief, Loss, Community

226

Buddhist Personality Types

227

Stay the Course

228

A Beneficial Alternative

229

They Come and They Go

230

What is Insight?

231

The Mahasangha

232

Nothing Lasts Forever

233

I See You Mara

234

The Human Condition

235

I'm So Happy for You!

236

The Meaning of Life

237

The Dhammapada

238

Decolonizing the Mind

239

The Eightfold Path: Right Concentration

240

The Eightfold Path: Right Mindfulness Part 2

241

The Eightfold Path: Right Mindfulness Part 1

242

The Eightfold Path: Right Effort

243

The Eightfold Path: Right Livelihood

244

The Eightfold Path: Right Action

245

The Eightfold Path: Right Speech

246

The Eightfold Path: Right Intention

247

The Eightfold Path: Right View

248

Meditation: Lovingkindness (Metta)

249

Anatta: The Conditioned Self

250

The Four Protective Meditations

251

Look Around

252

A Brave New World - Or Is It?

253

Insidious Delusion

254

Making It Safe for Everyone

255

Distortions of the Mind

256

We're All Human

257

Practice: Just Like Riding a Bicycle

258

Diving into the Satipaṭṭhāna

259

Relaxed and Aware

260

Be a Bodhisattva

261

The Power of the Pause

262

The Path to Enlightenment

263

Blame and Shame

264

Dharma Everywhere

265

Getting Unstuck

266

Don't Miss the Joy

267

Making Peace with Our Demons

268

Holding Ourselves Dear

269

Reclaiming the Heart, Reclaiming the Sacred

270

A New Beginning

271

Being Fully Present

272

Being with the Dark

273

Seven Factors of Awakening

274

Commitment to Metta

275

Wisdom, Compassion, Heartbreak

276

Reflections on This Moment

277

Opening into Spaciousness

278

Strong Back, Soft Front

279

Equanimity

280

Habits of Mind

281

Friendship, Connection, Community

282

The Four Passing Sights

283

Don't Miss What's Happening!

284

Taking Refuge in the Heart

285

The Paramis as a Framework for Working with the World

286

What is This? - Beginner's Mind

287

Grief Rage Hope Despair

288

Skillful Means: Moving through the World with Wisdom and Compassion

289

From Delusion to Wise Action

290

Escape from Deep Conditioning

291

Training the Mind

292

Impermanence and Change

293

Wise Action: Standing Firm in the Dharma

294

Kindness and Intimacy

295

Gratification, Danger, Escape

296

The Early Buddhist Nuns

297

Where Are You Right Now?

298

A Place of Profound Balance

299

Finding a Place to Hold You

300

Joy in the Time of Covid

301

See For Yourself...

302

Reality on the Cushion

303

Taking Care of Ourselves

304

Let in the Good

305

The Heart Practices

306

Pandemic and the Undefended Heart

307

Getting Unstuck

308

Meditation: Rest in Being

309

It's Always Something

310

Working with the Mind

311

Fear, Love and COVID-19

312

The Wisdom of Ajahn Chah in Today's World

313

What's Love Got to Do With It?

314

The Five Remembrances

315

Fear, Anxiety and RAIN

316

The Eightfold Path

317

Intention and a Reflection on My Grandmother's Hands

318

The Importance of Retreat

319

The Four Foundations of Mindfulness

320

Living with Compassion for All Beings

321

Cultivating Gratitude

322

Practicing Self-Restraint

323

Taking Care of Ourselves

324

10,000 Joys - 10,000 Sorrows

325

Emptiness

326

Staying Away from Expectations

327

Letting In the Good

328

Ignorance and the Beautiful Qualties

329

Nowhere to Go; Nothing to Do; No One to Be

330

Lead with the Heart

331

Aspiration and Intention

332

The Paramis

333

Groundlessness

334

A Dharma Journey

335

Spiritual Bypass

336

Transition and Transformation

337

Obstacles to Awareness: The Hindrances

338

Ehipassiko: Find Your Own Way

339

Just Be

340

Facing Your Demons

341

Guardians of the World

342

The Eight Worldly Winds - A Practice in Equanimity

343

In the Moment

344

Desire and Craving

345

Not My Circus, Not My Monkeys - The Practice of Letting Go

346

Live as Though the Truth Were True

347

Guarding the Sense Doors

348

Living with an Undefended Heart

349

Be a Buddha Not a Buddhist

350

Heart Practices - The Near Enemies

351

Love Really Is the Answer

352

Working with the Defilements

353

Working with the Insanity of the World

354

Gratitude

355

Nirvana Right Here, Right Now

356

Working with the Body

357

Faith and the Five Spiritual Faculties

358

Wake Up to Your Conditioning

359

Wise Concentration - 8th Factor of the Eightfold Path

360

Wise Mindfulness - The 7th Factor of the Eightfold Path

361

The Metta Sutta

362

Awakening Joy

363

Wise Effort - 6th Factor of the Eightfold Path

364

Setting Intention with Wisdom and Compassion

365

Wise Action - 4th Factor of the Eightfold Path

366

Hope and Love

367

Wise Speech - 3rd Factor of the Eightfold Path

368

Wise Intention - 2nd Factor of the Eightfold Path

369

Avoiding the Second Arrow

370

Wise View - 1st Factor of the Eightfold Path

371

Letting Go of Fixed Views

372

The Fourfold Task

373

Reaction vs Response