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Coming Up for Air — 164 episodes

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How to Enjoy Being Single After a Breakup (Instead of Just Surviving It)

2

The Thoughts Nobody Talks About After Becoming Single When You’re 30.

3

Will My Ex Ever Reach Out Again? The Truth About Them Not Coming Back.

4

I Fell In Love With Who They Could Have Been. Letting Go Of Your Ex's Potential After Heartbreak.

5

I Sold the House After My Breakup. How I Healed Without Bitterness

6

The Comparison Trap After Heartbreak - How To Deal With It.

7

The Truth About Situationships After Your Breakup.

8

Stop Trying to Be Understood by Someone Who Has Chosen to Misunderstand You.

9

10 Deep Limiting Beliefs About Being Single After Being Left (That Nobody Talks About)

10

How to Heal After a Breakup & Stop Feeling Pressure to Glow Up.

11

How to Heal After a Breakup & Be Happy Single Again. Accept, Trust & Release.

12

How To Cope with A Breakup: 10 Harsh Truths That Will Set You Free.

13

The Mindset Shift That Finally Helped Me Detach After My Breakup.

14

Why 'Focus on Yourself' Feels Impossible After a Breakup.

15

The Pace of Your Healing After a Breakup Is a Sign of Your Strength.

16

Coping When Your Ex Moves On Quickly and Stays There.

17

Post Breakup & Your Life No Longer Looks Like Your Friends.

18

The Year of the Horse - Breakup Healing.

19

Single on Valentine’s Day? Congratulations. You’re Doing It Right.

20

Liminal Space - The Messy Middle of Heartbreak

21

Breakups - Taking Your Dreams Back.

22

What Love Shouldn’t Cost You Post Breakup.

23

How To Slow Down In January To Make Sure 2026 Is Big.

24

Happy New Year - Goal Setting & How To Set The Tone For 2026.

25

Christmas After a Breakup: The Year You Didn’t Collapse.

26

The Decisions You Make After Your Breakup Will Shape Your Entire Future.

27

Four Years of Single Seasonal Reflections

28

Your New December Rituals That Have Nothing To Do With Christmas - Single Edition.

29

Do Not Dread December - Single Edition.

30

Your Self Worth Following A Breakup.

31

My Yearly Birthday Reflection Episode. Going Into Being 33 Single & Aligned.

32

Blocked Not Broken. When Your Ex Blocks You.

33

*Halloween Edition* What Is Scarier Than Being Single?...

34

Your Husband Isn't On Hinge.

35

How Do You Know You Are Dating The Right Person Following Heartbreak.

36

Trusting Love After Heartbreak: Healing, And Knowing the Right Person Is Coming.

37

Things I Am Not Scared of Being 30 & Single.

38

Reframing Thoughts About Your Ex and Their New Partner.

39

The Lessons I Didn’t Expect to Learn While Being Single (But Needed More Than I Knew)

40

When Your Boundaries Are Being Disregarded Pre & Post Breakup.

41

How To Stop Thinking Your Ex Has Found Someone 'Better'

42

Going No Contact After A Breakup - The Mental No Contact.

43

Moving Back Home After A Breakup.

44

Bravery After A Breakup & How To Find Yours.

45

Loss of Control Following A Breakup.

46

Behind Closed Doors Of A Breakup - No One Knows What Really Happened.

47

Walking Away From Almost, and Trusting in What’s Still to Come.

48

Breaking Up With Your Ex’s Habits and Beliefs.

49

Navigating Singlehood: Advice, Growth, and Single Talk Catch Up.

50

How To Deal With Your 'Wedding Date' Following A Break Up.

51

When ‘Firsts’ Fall Apart Following a Breakup.

52

Will You Ever Get Over Your Ex Moving On?

53

Let Them Show You: Stop Making Excuses for The Way Your Ex Is Acting.

54

Are You Scared of Being Single Forever Following a Breakup?

55

You're Not Starting From Scratch, You Are Starting With Experience - Post Breakup.

56

Dating Apps Post Breakup

57

Don't Give Up On Yourself Post Breakup.

58

How To Emotionally Detach From Your Ex.

59

How To Heal From A Breakup. My Most Asked Question.

60

Why Your Ex Goes Cold After A Breakup.

61

How To Be Secure In Becoming Single.

62

Are You Dreaming Of Your Ex?

63

Stepping Into Your Strongest Self Post Breakup.

64

How Long Did It Take You To Heal From Your Breakup?

65

Things People Don’t Realise You Face Following A Breakup.

66

Are You Obsessing Over Your Ex?

67

Being Ghosted.

68

Does Your Ex Keep Leaving & Coming Back?

69

Breaking Free From Your Heartbreak.

70

My First Video Episode. How To Feel Less Lonely When You Are Alone.

71

Why You Shouldn't Have To Explain Why You Have Stayed Single Following A Breakup.

72

Lessons I Have Learnt Following My Breakup. Part 2.

73

How To Start January Positively Post Breakup.

74

2024 Goals. Where Could You Be In 2025?

75

Helping You Through Your Breakup At Christmas.

76

Why Do I Want My Ex To Want Me?

77

Being The Luckiest, Unluckiest Person.

78

Are You Getting Into A Rebound Relationship?

79

Why Your Emotions Are Up & Down During Your Breakup.

80

TURNING 32. Life Post Breakup. A Birthday Episode.

81

Your First Christmas After Your Breakup.

82

Why Hindsight Will Allow You To Process Your Breakup.

83

Your Breakup & Endurance. You Are Stronger Than You Think.

84

Long Running Ramble.

85

How The Leicester Half Marathon Made Me Reflect On My Breakup.

86

Love Yourself So Much Your Ex Isn't Your Type Anymore.

87

Your Ego & Your Breakup.

88

The Best Relationship You Have Is With Yourself.

89

You Didn't Ask For Too Much.

90

You Can't Skip The Hard Parts Of A Breakup.

91

*Bonas Ep* - Running Ramble With Loula.

92

Why I Dislike The Advice 'Focus On Yourself & Your Ex Will Come Back?'

93

You Are Not The Psycho Ex Girlfriend.

94

If Your Ex Is Saying He Doesn't Miss You - I've Got You.

95

Stop Putting People On Pedestals.

96

Shadow Work. What Is It?

97

The Little Morning Habits That Helped Me Through My Breakup.

98

The 'I Can't' Mindset.

99

My Breakup 'Regrets'

100

2 Years Post Breakup - What Have I Learnt?

101

My Opinion On 'Manifesting' Your Ex Back.

102

They Haven't Ruined Your Life.

103

We are 6 Months Into The Year - Reflection Exercise

104

You Are The Creator Of Your Life.

105

Micro Cheating. What Is It & What Are Your Thoughts?

106

My Mental Health Improved When I..

107

Bursting The Breakup Bubble & Not Putting A Timer On Your Life.

108

Mental Health Awareness Week.

109

Flying Solo.

110

Dealing With Memories - The Good & Bad.

111

I Stayed Sober For 4 Months. Here Is What I Learnt.

112

Manchester Marathon 2024. How Did I Get Through It?

113

Things You Don't Have To Worry About When Meeting Someone New.

114

Are You Blocking Your Healing?

115

Self Compassion - How To Build It.

116

The Mindset Shift - Why Is This Happening To What Is This Teaching Me.

117

I Finished 75 Hard & Here Is What I Learnt. The Best Challenge I Have Ever Done.

118

Growth vs Change.

119

Just Give Yourself Time - Training & Healing.

120

'But I Don't Understand Why or How They Did That?'

121

Marathon Training Low Down & Coping With A Tough Week.

122

January Is Done, Let's Smash February.

123

75 Hard, Marathon Training & Patreon Update.

124

Running A Marathon Is The Best Metaphor For Life.

125

Why Maintaining Perspective Is So Important.

126

New Year, New Routine.

127

How To Start The Year Off Positively.

128

NYE - What I Have In Store For 2024.

129

Wait - Did I just Complete My Break-Up?

130

I Replaced My Ex Without Realising.

131

Being A Solo Runner.

132

So Your Ex Has Moved On.. Now What?

133

Dealing with Imposter Syndrome When Running & Healing.

134

MY BIRTHDAY & The Lessons I Have Learnt Since Turning 30.

135

Forcing Yourself to Unlove Someone.

136

My Big Announcement & Falling in Love With Running.

137

How I Coped With The Initial Days After My Breakup.

138

A Few Things You Might Need to Hear Today.

139

How I Approached Going No Contact.

140

You Are Exactly Where You Need To Be.

141

Have You Got A Growth Or A Fixed Mindset?

142

How To Combat Your Running Limiting Beliefs.

143

When Your Life Does A 360.

144

Catch Up Ep, Creating Your Own Chaos & Getting My Mum On The Podcast.

145

Dealing With Forgiveness.

146

Logical Steps That Helped Me Heal.

147

Dealing With Running Guilt & Training Fatigue.

148

Snowdon, Dealing With Loss & Becoming A Butterfly.

149

Meeting A Turtle, A Bear & Crashing A Wedding On Your Run.

150

Threads, LDN Marathon Rejection & Living In An Episode Of Friends.

151

So You Want To Run A Half Marathon...

152

The Method That Helped Me Understand My Anxiety.

153

Lessons I Learnt After My Break Up

154

How To Stick To Your Race Training Plan.

155

A Catch Up With Lou, The Move, My New Life & Some Exciting Projects.

156

Running The London Virtual Marathon & Why I Think YOU Should too.

157

How To Master Your Mindset.

158

How To Become A Confident Runner.

159

How I Fell In Love With Myself.

160

Manchester Marathon Breakdown 2023.

161

Manchester Marathon Week.

162

Heartbreak to Half Marathon

163

The Start of My Running Journey.

164

An Introduction to Loula