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ADHD Mums — 271 episodes

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I'm Gentle With My Daughter for Ten Minutes. Then I Tell Myself to Stop Being Such a F*cking Embarrassment

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104. When a Neuroscientist Says iPads Cause ADHD — And You Wonder if You've Damaged Your Kids

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103: When You Say 'I Don't Mind, Whatever's Easy' for Mother's Day — And Spend Sunday Cleaning Up Your Own Gifts

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102. When You Stop Calling Your Friend and Start Talking to ChatGPT — And You're Not Sure What It's Costing You

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101. RE-RELEASE: When You Stop Your ADHD Meds for the Baby — And the Pram Rolls Across the Car Park

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100. When You Know School Isn't Working — And You're Still Waiting for Permission to Leave

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99. When the Teacher Asks ‘What Can I Do to Help? But You Don’t Know What to Say

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99. When School Feels Too Much Too Early — Expectation Creep Explained

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98. When You Say ‘Can We Talk’ — And It Blows Up Straight Away

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97. The Invisible Job: Being the One Who Holds Everything Together

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96. When You Keep Starting the Same Thing — And It Never Gets Finished

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95. When You Make Yourself the Joke — And It Turns Into ‘That’s Just Who I Am’

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94. When a Group Chat Goes in Circles — And You Leave Feeling Like You’re the Problem

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93. When You Remove the Stress — And Start Wondering What’s Wrong With You

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92 The Teen They Called ‘The Problem’ — And What Changed in a Different School Setting

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91. ‘When Someone Says “We Didn’t Have ADHD Back Then” — And You Start Defending Your Parenting’

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90. ‘When Someone Says “We Didn’t Have ADHD Back Then” — And You Start Questioning Yourself’

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89. When the Quiet Kids Are Struggling — But No One Notices

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88. When Being the ‘Good Student’ Is Actually Hurting Your Child

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87.When You Stay Calm at School — And Leave Feeling Like You Didn’t Do Enough

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86. When the Teacher Is Trying — And You Still Leave the Meeting Questioning Everything

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85. Is the Problem the Child — Or the Learning Plan?

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84. When School Decides Your Child Is the Problem

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83. When ADHD Becomes the Reason You Stop Trying...

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82. Overstimulated Before 7am — And No One Sees the Work

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81. The Hidden Cost of Being the 'Good Girl' — How the Mental Load Became Ours

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80. The Invisible Coordination Load: Why ADHD Mums Carry the Work Systems Won’t

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79. Why Does My Partner Keep Asking Me Questions When My Brain Is Full?

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78. Grieving the Child You Imagined — While Loving the One in Front of You with Dr Vanessa LaPointe

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77. Turning the Car Around for the Hat — So It Must Be Me

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76. Always Leaving First — The Social Cost for ADHD Mums

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75. I Was Fine Until No One Replied

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74. You’re Not That Mum (Back to School Edition)

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73. Being Judged for Choosing Understanding Over Punishment

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72. You’re Not Behind — You Learned to Carry Responsibility Too Early

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71. When You Can’t Relax Even When It’s Quiet — What Your Body Is Doing and Why

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70. The Resolutions None of Us Actually Did

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69. Too Exhausted to Be the Parent You Want to Be

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68. 🎅 You’re Allowed to Be Done — Even at Christmas

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67: The Xmas Yes That Should’ve Been a No

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66. Stop People-Pleasing This Christmas — The Year I Stopped Apologising for My Child

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65. I’m the Magic of Christmas… But Apparently I’m Grumpy Too

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64. Did Santa Just Take Credit for My Mental Breakdown?

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63. The Year I’ve Decided Good Enough Is Enough

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62. ADHD Meds & Kids: The Questions You're Too Afraid to Ask.

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61. Christmas Is the Finish Line — And ADHD Mums Are Crawling There

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59. The Red Pen Christmas: How to Stop Editing Yourself for Everyone Else

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58. Things That Look Like Bad Parenting But Are Actually Neurodivergence

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57. You’re Not Delusional — There’s Real Joy in Parenting a Neurodivergent Child

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56. ADHD Meds & Kids. Your FAQ answered

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55. CONFESSIONS: Things I Can’t Say at the Playground

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54. Supplements for ND Kids: Calm Minds, Chaos Days, and What Actually Helps

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53. QUICK RESET: Self-Care Feels Nice. Self-Regulation Keeps You Alive.

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52. HORMONES: When HRT Isn’t Enough: Mum Rage & Perimenopause Explained

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51. CONFESSION: My Kid Didn’t Get Invited — And It Broke Both Our Hearts

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50. HORMONES: When Hormones Hijack the Mind: ADHD, Perimenopause & Emotional Burnout

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49. QUICK RESET: “I’m Not Lazy — My House Just Doesn’t Have a Memory”

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48. 'Not Disabled Enough?’ — The NDIS Changes Every Parent Needs to Hear

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47. QUICK RESET: No, I can't meditate. I'm too busy disassociating.

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46. ARFID, Eating Disorders & the Neurodivergent Body: What We Got Wrong

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45. QUICK RESET: The biggest lie parents believe during school holidays? This is what everyone does

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44. Why bad behaviour is rarely bad at all (and how to respond instead)

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43. QUICK RESET:  Mum hack meal planning for when you're already burnt out.

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42. HORMONES: HRT, ADHD & Perimenopause: What No One’s Explaining to Women

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41. CONFESSION: Mums wrote in anonymously… and what they shared wrecked me

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40. HORMONES: The Perimenopause Crash – Progesterone, Stress, and the Rage Nobody Warned Us About

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39. CONFESSION: Can You Love Someone and Still Dread S*x?

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38. QUICK RESET: The Hallway Hook That Saved My Sanity

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37. HORMONES: Histamine + Hormones – Why You Feel Like You’re Falling Apart

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36. QUICK RESET: They said don't label him, so he suffered in silence

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35. You Were the Good Girl. That’s Why You’re Falling Apart Now.

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34. Is It Social Anxiety — or Is It Autism

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33. CONFESSIONS: I Don’t Always Like Being a Parent

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32. QUICK RESET: My child is being bullied and I'm supposed to stay calm

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31. The ADHD Mum’s Guide to Surviving School Mornings Without Tears (Theirs or Yours)

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30. MY UPDATE: The Lipedema Op: The Invisible Illness You Weren’t Supposed to Notice

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29. MY UPDATE: What Happens When You Lose the Meds That Helped You Survive

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28. ADHD Meds, Access & Equity — What Families Need Policymakers to Hear

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27. CONFESSIONS: 10 Things That Scare Me as an ADHD Mum

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26. QUICK RESET: Why You Keep Waking at 3am — And It’s Not Just Anxiety

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25. The Emotional Load of Raising Neurodivergent Girls and How to Lighten It

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24.  QUICK RESET: The ADHD Myth of 'Just try Harder'

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23. ADHD Meds Won’t Fix Everything – Now What?

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22. QUICK RESET: Why self-care feels like another f*cking task

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21. SCHOOL SERIES: The Future of Neurodivergent Education: What Needs to Change?

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20. SCHOOL SERIES: How to Choose a School That Won’t Break Your Kid (or You)

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19. SCHOOL SERIES: When School Stops Feeling Safe

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18. QUICK RESET:  Why you are bad at asking for help and what to do instead

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16. QUICK RESET: No meds, No plan, and no help..... but yet they're still calling us undiagnosed

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15. QUICK RESET: He wants the Maldives but we can't even manage the park

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14. QUICK RESET: I Cancel Plans Because I Don’t Have the Energy to Fake My Personality

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13. SCHOOL SERIES: When They Just Don’t Get It: Navigating School with Neurotypical Parents

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12. QUICK RESET: I can’t stop snapping when my child does this one thing

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11. SCHOOL SERIES: Reducing Stress Behaviours in the Classroom: Connection, Co-Regulation & Neuro-Aware Teaching

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10. QUICK RESET: Why am I bracing for impact when nothing is wrong?

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9. SCHOOL SERIES: IEP Meetings Are Broken — Here’s What to Say Instead

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8. QUICK RESET: Advocating for Your Child Shouldn’t Break You — But It Often Does

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7. SCHOOL SERIES: The Great Gaslighting: When Schools Say We Don’t See It

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6. NDIS Is Making Psychology Support Harder To Access And The New Budget Rules

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5. SCHOOL SERIES: Your Child Isn’t ‘Acting Out’ — They’re Burning Out

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4. Advanced ADHD + Neurodivergent Myths.....Busted :)

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3. SCHOOL SERIES - Burnout Starts in the Classroom — And Follows Them Home

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2. SCHOOL SERIES When School Becomes the Trauma — What No One Tells ADHD Parents

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1. Season 3 Starts Here: No More Explaining – ADHD Tools That Actually Work

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88. Mothers Day: I Made the Lunches, Booked the Table, and Still Felt Invisible

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87. Season 2 RECAP: The Year ADHD Mums Stopped Apologising

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86. What the World's Biggest ADHD Meds Study Really Revealed

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85. Real Tools for Real Rage (Mum Rage Part 2)

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84. I Love My Family… But I’m So F**king Angry (Mum Rage Part 1)

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83. Too Much? Or Just Misunderstood: ADHD, RSD & the Power of Emotional Intensity

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82. ADHD or PTSD? Why So Many Women Are Misdiagnosed with Amanda Moses

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81. You’ve Tried Everything… They Still Won’t Eat: Real Strategies for ARFID at Home

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80. Executive Function, School Stress, and Support That Actually Works with Sue Larkey

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79. Navigating School Holidays with Your Sanity & Self-Worth Intact

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78. Could it be ARFID? Spotting the signs + why it’s not just fussy eating with Margo White

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PSA! Concerta? Gone. Vyvanse? Broken – And Jane Called It a Year Ago

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77. Self-Sacrifice Is Not Your Friend (And Here’s Why)

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76. It’s Not Just Picky Eating - Claire Britton on ARFID – Claire Britton’s Story (Personal Perspective)

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75. What We Wish Our Partners Knew About the Mental Load - And How to Truly Support Us

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74. Keeping Children Safe from Tricky People & Unsafe Situations with Kristi McVee

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73. Making the Invisible Mental Load Visible: How to Share the Load Without the Stress [Part 3]

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72. Understanding the Risks – Neurodivergent Children, Social Safety, and Grooming [Part 1] with Kristi McVee

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71. 7 Brutally Honest Reasons ADHD Mums Stay Silent About the Mental Load [Part 2]

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70. The Truth About Time-Outs and What to Try Instead with Gen Muir

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69. Why Mums Are Always the Backup Plan (And How to Change It) [Part 1]

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68. Perimenopause & PMDD: The Hormonal Rollercoaster of Neurodivergent Women with Dr Miranda Robinson

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67. Why Routines Always Seem to Fail for ADHD Families (and How to Fix Them)

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66. Perimenopause, ADHD & What Doctors Don’t Tell You: Haylee’s Story

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65. School Pick-Up Can Be Draining! How to Stop Overthinking & Save Your Social Energy

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64. The NDIS Cuts and the Urgent Need for Immediate Action with Nicole Rogerson of Autism Awareness Australia

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63. Surviving the Mental Load of the School Year

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62. Burnout, Pain & Weird Symptoms? The ADHD Link No One Told Us About

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61. Unhealthy Habits & ADHD: Why We Get Stuck & How to Shift

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60. Mummy Needs More Than Wine: The Truth About Coping and Connection

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59. Trauma, EMDR, and ADHD: Jess's Story of Recovery

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58. Struggling to Understand ADHD? Here’s What Your Partner Needs You to Know [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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57. The NDIS Shake-Up and National Autism Strategy: What Jane Really Thinks [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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56. Setting Your ADHD Family Up for a Smoother School Year [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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55. ADHD Mum: What You Need to Know After Your Diagnosis [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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54. How to Talk to Your Child About ADHD: Empowering Conversations That Change Everything (Part 2) [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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53. Explaining ADHD to Your Child: Why It Matters (Part 1) [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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ADHD & Sensory Overwhelm: Identifying Triggers and Finding Relief with Rebecca Torpie [re-release]

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52. Why Most Planners Fail ADHD Mums (and How to Finally Make One Work) [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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Neurotypical Mum vs ADHD Mum: Is It ADHD or Mum Life? [re-release]

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Camouflaging ADHD + Autistic Traits in Girls with Millie Carr [re-release]

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ADHD and Autistic Traits in Mums with Dr. Jacinta Thomson [re-release]

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51. How to Handle Family Criticism About ADHD: Boundaries and Keeping Your Sanity [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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50. Stop People-Pleasing: The ADHD Mum’s Guide to Boundaries, Balance, and Breaking Free [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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49. Christmas Chaos: Hacks for Surviving Family Drama, Sensory Overload, and Picky Eaters! [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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48. Running Out of Time: Why ADHD Mums Feel Overwhelmed at Christmas (and How to Fix It!) [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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47. What happens if you take ADHD medication without ADHD? [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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46. ‘Tis the Season to Overspend: ADHD Mum vs. Impulse Shopping [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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45. Do neurodivergent women attract narcissists? [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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MINI SERIES (Episode 9): How Workplaces Can Support Employees Affected by Family and Domestic Violence with Laurie Arrowsmith

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MINI SERIES (Episode 8): Why don't women just leave?

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44. Supporting Neurodivergent Kids with Friendships and Boundaries with Bec Sparrow

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MINI SERIES (Episode 7): Ensuring Safety When Leaving a DV Relationship with Laurie Arrowsmith

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43. ADHD and Teens: A Conversation with Maggie Dent

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42. Evidence-Based ADHD Strategies: Effective and Reliable Methods with Claire Britton

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MINI SERIES (Episode 5): Workplace Violence and Emotional Abuse

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41. Connection between ADHD, EDS and POTS: Vanessa’s journey through chronic health challenges

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MINI SERIES (Episode 4): Emotional Abuse and Lived Experience

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40. ADHD Medication: Stimulants vs. Non Stimulants [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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39. Misdiagnosis in ADHD and Bipolar Disorder with Georgia Poletti-Moulds

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MINI SERIES (Episode 3): Maternal Suicide and Lived Experience

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38. How ADHD medication revealed my Autistic traits [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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37. ADHD, Autism, or Both? Kara’s Story of Burnout and Sensory Overload

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MINI SERIES (Episode 2): Coercive Control and Lived Experience

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36. ADHD Entrepreneurs: Team Building, Delegation, and Achieving Work-Life Balance with Paula Maidens

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MINI SERIES (Episode 1): Domestic Violence & Lived Experience

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35. ADHD and Autistic Friendships with Prof Tony Attwood and Dr Michelle Garnett

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34. Navigating and Managing ADHD Medication During Interstate Travel in Australia with Rebekah Howard

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33. Preventing Autistic Burnout: Practical Tips for Neurodivergent Mums and Their Children [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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32. Realising Autistic Burnout: A Personal Story for Neurodivergent Mums [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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31. Executive Function Challenges in ADHD: Strategies for Success with Claire Britton

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30. Could it be PDA? Exploring the signs and why it’s different from ODD with Prof Tony Attwood and Dr Michelle Garnett

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29. 6 Practical Tips for ADHD Mums to Reduce Stress and Create a Calmer Home [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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28. Protecting Vulnerable Women: Addressing the Crisis of Sexual Assault with Tanya Hicks

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27. 'Help, I Have an Antagonist in My House!' - Parenting ADHD Kids Who Love to Stir the Pot [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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26. The Dual Spectrum: Navigating Giftedness and Neurodivergence with Alison Balson

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25. Feeling like PMS is taking over your life? It might be PMDD [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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24. PMS and ADHD: Making Sense of the Chaos [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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23. Avoid Doing More Harm: The Crucial Need for Neuro-Affirming Care with Monique Mitchelson

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22. Is it ADHD or Motherhood? [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

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21. Can Humour Help Us Understand ADHD Better? with Dr Jacinta Thomson

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20. The Worst Assessment Process Ever: A Cautionary Tale With Dena Robertson

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19. iPads Before School + ADHD: A Morning Madness Combo! with Dr Justin Coulson

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18. Neurodiversity and Eating Disorders: Uncovering the Hidden Relationship With Lindsay Keating

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17. Underneath the Mask: Uncovering who you are after diagnosis

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16. Top 6 Questions to Consider When Choosing a Neuro-Affirming Practitioner with Jane McFadden

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15. The Risks of Disclosing ADHD at Work: What You Need to Know

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14. Unlocking the Secrets to Work-Life Balance: Practical Advice for Busy Mums with Leonie Dawson

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13. ADHD & Sensory Overwhelm: Identifying Triggers and Finding Relief with Rebecca Torpie

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12. Navigating Psychology Assessments: Avoiding Key Mistakes with Marie Camin

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11. Breaking the Silence: The Untold Struggles of Motherhood with Lucy Hollister

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10: Essential Tips for Positive Behaviour Support With Renee Dela Cruz

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9. Pregnancy, Breastfeeding and ADHD medication with Rodney Whyte

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8: How to Tell Your Child About Their Diagnosis: Essential Do's and Don'ts with Millie Carr

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7. Raising Strong Children: How to Support Without Always Solving Their Problems

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6. The Must-Know Guide for partners with Joe Peters

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5. What Every Mum Needs to Hear from Top Autism Expert with Prof Tony Attwood

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4. Sibling Peace: Transform Rivalry into Relationship Building with Gen Muir

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3. My Top Takeaways From the Past Year with Jane McFadden

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2. Transforming Your Inner Critic into a Source of Compassion with Ceri Sanford

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1. Co-Parenting Amidst Diagnosis Disagreements with Alana Manix

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66. Life as an Inattentive Mum with Bessie Campbell

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65. From Skeptic to Advocate: Medication for Children with Jane McFadden

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64. The Untold Struggles of Motherhood (Part 2) with Kaitlyn Faulkner

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63. The Episode That Led Jane to Choose Homeschooling with Nicki Farrell

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62. Uncovering the subtle traits of Autistic daughters with Eliza Harris

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61. Unlocking Focus: Hypnotherapy for ADHD with Jessica Burgess

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60. Perfectly Imperfect: Letting Go of Perfectionism with Angie Nennie

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59. Transform Your ADHD Relationship Challenges into Strengths with Jessica Burgess

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58. My Diagnosis Journey with Jasmine Meek (Part 3)

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57. Unique Differences of ADHD and Autism in Women with Dr. Jacinta Thomson

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56. Epic Mum Fails That Will Have You Roaring With Laughter with Shantelle Poynter.

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55. Building Resilience in a Neurodiverse Family with Lael Stone

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54. Advocating for your child's success at school with Tania Waring

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53. Interview with Matilda Boseley on the book 'The Year I Met My Brain'

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52. Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria - A Personal Story With Tammie Ray

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51. Addiction and ADHD (Food and Alcohol) with Fiona McIntyre

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49. Strategies without medication for ADHD with Jess Bevan

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50. Being Your Authentic Self with Louise Fitzpatrick

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48. Supplements and ADHD

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47. Emotional Eating and ADHD with Denise Stojceski

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46. True Inclusion with Jules from William Ready

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45. The Untold Struggles of Motherhood (Part 1)

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44. School Holiday Planning & Hope with Tania Waring

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43. PMS and ADHD with Kylie Smart

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ADHD and Parenting with Sharon Collons

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41. High Camouflaging ADHD and Autism with Millie Carr

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40. High Performance and ADHD with Jessica Burgess

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39. NDIS episode with Jane McFadden

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38. My Diagnosis Journey with Jasmine Meek (Part 2)

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37. Anxiety & ADHD with Jessica Burgess

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36. Learning to holiday with ADHD and with ADHD kids with Shantelle Poynter

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35. Do you have ADHD or is this just #Mum Life?

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34. Being Neurotypical in a relationship with a ADHD person with Sharon Collon

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33. Neurodiverse Classrooms with Millie Carr

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32. My Diagnosis Journey with Jasmine Meek (Part 1)

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31. Meltdowns with Tania Waring

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Interview with Motherhood the Beautiful Nightmare

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29. Self Hatred and ADHD with Shantelle Poynter

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28. What is ADHD Coaching? with Michele Toner

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27. Sensory Overload with Deanna Reynolds

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26. School Holidays Shit Show

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25. Is Overwhelmed Mum Syndrome real? with Dr. Jacinta Thomson

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24. Relationships and ADHD with Shantelle Poynter

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23. ADHD & Learning With Deanna Reynolds

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Therapy Fatigue

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21. The Australian school system & our sons. Interview with Tania Waring

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20. Medication and Psychiatrists

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19. ADHD Mum Fails and my big WHY I do this podcast.

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18. ADHD and the family dinner pressure. Chats with Shantelle Poynter (Part 2)

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17. Mum's just get to feel like shit for 10 years? Chats with Shantelle Poynter (Part 1)

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16. Pregnancy, breastfeeding and ADHD meds. Interview with Rose Callaghan

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15. Where does trauma start and ADHD begin? Interview with Jenny Cleary

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14. Bored and Tired. #Mumlifeburnout with Angie Nennie

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13. The Australian school system & our daughters. Interview with Jenny Cleary

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12. How to get a diagnosis in Australia. Part 2. Interview with Dr Jacinta Thomson

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11. Masking & ADHD.

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10. Recognising ADHD in our daughters

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9. An RSD story. Taking my own advice

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8. Why am I never doing what I'm supposed to and what can I do about it?

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7. How to get a diagnosis in Australia. Part 1. Interview with Dr. Jacinta Thomson

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6. Is ADHD just an excuse?

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5. ADHD Mum life and Study, how does that work? Interview with Lucy Holister

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4. Hyperfocus - an uplifting story. Interview with Lucy Holister

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3. Can we impact the world? Interview with Lucy Holister

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2. Is the world ready for women to be diagnosed with ADHD? Interview with Katie Underwood

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1: Why are so many Mums being diagnosed with ADHD?