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Feminist Wellness — 455 episodes

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Tenderoni Hotline #44: Why You Get Triggered When Someone Says “Calm Down” + Why Your Body Feels Sick Before a Call

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Ep #395: Suffering: The Second Arrow You Don’t Have to Shoot

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Tenderoni Hotline #43: Why People Get Defensive About Your Feelings + What Emotional Outsourcing Really Means

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Ep #394: Self-Compassion: How to Stop Beating Up Your Past Self

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Tenderoni Hotline #42: What To Do If Someone Ignores Your Boundary + How To Get Out Of The Victim Mindset

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Ep #392: Ritual vs. Routine: Why Meaning Matters More Than Productivity

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Ep #391: How to Stop Self-Abandoning Without Becoming a Jerk

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Tenderoni Hotline #40: Are You Ready for Real Love If You're Still Healing + Why focusing on yourself is not selfishness

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Ep #390: When Helping Hurts: Codependent Habits in the Healing Professions

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Ep #389: Failure Is Your Best Friend: How to Learn, Grow, and Keep Going

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Tenderoni Hotline #39: Why You Feel Off After Talking to Your Mom + Why You Pull Your Hair Without Realizing + Why You Can’t Stay Present

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Ep #388: A Guide to Healthier Self-Talk & the Power of Your Mind

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Ep #387: Perfectionism: From A+ Pressure to B+ Energy

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Tenderoni Hotline #38: The Hidden Link Between Chronic Pain, Trauma & People Pleasing with Nicole Sachs

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Ep #386: Wants and Needs: How to Know What Matters Most to You

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Ep #385: The Shifting Sands of Confidence

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Tenderoni Hotline #37: Why You Keep Wanting Closure from Your Ex + Why You Constantly Ask for Reassurance in Your Relationship

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Ep #384: The Truth About Nervous System Reset

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Ep #383: Role Confusion: The Overwhelm You Didn't Know You Signed Up For

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Tenderoni Hotline #36: Why I Call You “My Love” (And Why I'm Not Stopping)

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Ep #382: Self-Compassion: Radical Kindness for Your Nervous System

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Ep #381: The People-Pleasing Trap: Keeping Everyone Happy but You

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Tenderoni Hotline #35: The Hidden Connection Between Food & Nervous System Healing with Ali Shapiro

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Ep #380: How to Know If You’re Ready for Coaching and Real Change

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Tenderoni Hotline #34: How Do You Deal With Someone Who Always Plays the Victim?

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Ep #379: How to Apologize Without Shame, Blame, or Guilt

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Tenderoni Hotline #33: Why Am I Always in Fight Mode? + Learning to Love Safely After Trauma

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Ep #378: Anger Catharsis BS: Why Your Rage Room Visit Isn't Healing You

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Tenderoni Hotline #32: What Somatic Work Did to Our Anxiety, Boundaries & Self-Worth

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Ep #377: The Story of Overwhelm

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Tenderoni Hotline #31: How to Release Suppressed Anger + Stop People-Pleasing at Work

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Ep #376: How to Assess if Your Relationships Truly Serve You

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Tenderoni Hotline #30: Emotional Guardedness Explained + How to Feel Safe Without Safe People

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Ep #375: Reclaim Rest: The 5 Hidden Types of Rest You Need (Part 3)

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Tenderoni Hotline #29: Can You Be Codependent Without Trauma? + Why Noise Triggers Your Nervous System

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Ep #374: Self-Resourcing: The Path to True Interdependence (Part 2)

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Tenderoni Hotline #28: What to Do When Family Triggers Old Patterns

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Ep #373: Self-Resourcing: What It Is & Why It’s Key to Healing Emotional Outsourcing (Part 1)

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Tenderoni Hotline #27: Why You Get Triggered When Someone Says “Calm Down” + Why Your Body Feels Sick Before a Call

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Ep #372: Reclaim Rest: How to Rest When It Feels Unsafe (Part 2)

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Tenderoni Hotline #26: Emotional Outsourcing in Relationships: When Both People Do It + Reaching For Food After Healing

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Ep #371: Reclaim Rest: The Link Between Rest and Emotional Outsourcing (Part 1)

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Tenderoni Hotline #25: Paradoxical Nervous System Reactions + ADHD in Mindfulness

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Ep #370: Caring for the Long Haul: End Emotional Outsourcing to Live Your Values (Part 4)

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Tenderoni Hotline #24: Grief Over Losing Objects + Injustice In The Workspace

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Ep #369: Reclaim Your Political Energy: End Emotional Outsourcing to Live Your Values (Part 3)

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Tenderoni Hotline #23: How to Stop People Pleasing Habits + Nervous System Healing for CPTSD

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Ep #368: Channeling Rage for Liberation: End Emotional Outsourcing to Live Your Values (Part 2)

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Tenderoni Hotline #22: Grounding vs. Orienting: What to Do When a Space Isn’t Actually Safe + Why High-Achieving Folks Still Seek Approval

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Ep #367: Unfreeze for Collective Liberation: End Emotional Outsourcing to Live Your Values (Part 1)

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Tenderoni Hotline #21: Are Emotions Really Stored in the Hips?

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Ep #366: How Projection Is Quietly Destroying Your Relationships (And What to Do About It)

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Tenderoni Hotline #20: From Emotional Outsourcing to Embodied Healing: Rose’s Anchored Journey

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Ep #365: A Life with Default “Sorry”

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Tenderoni Hotline #19: How to Respond When Someone Ignores Your Boundaries + Why Crying Is Good for Your Nervous System

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Ep #364: Anchored: Healing Emotional Outsourcing in Community with Susan Klunder

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Tenderoni Hotline #18: Are You Ready for Real Love If You're Still Healing + Why focusing on yourself is not selfishness

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Ep #363: Emotional Outsourcing: What It Is, Why It Formed, and Why It’s So Hard to Change

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Tenderoni Hotline #17: From Overfunctioning to Freedom: Healing in Anchored with Busayo Ayodele

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Ep #362: Why Nervous System Healing Isn’t Meant to Be Done Alone

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Tenderoni Hotline #16: Why does healing emotional outsourcing matter + How to actually make space for rest

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Ep #361: You Don’t Need Trauma to Have Codependent, Perfectionist, or People-Pleasing Habits

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Tenderoni Hotline #15: Breaking Free from People-Pleasing Habits: Monica Silva’s Journey with Anchored

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Ep #360: Who Are You Without Emotional Outsourcing Habits?

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Tenderoni Hotline #14: Why You Feel Off After Talking to Your Mom + Why You Pull Your Hair Without Realizing + Why You Can’t Stay Present

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Ep #359: Values-Based Living: The Alternative to New Year’s Resolutions

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Tenderoni Hotline #13: My New Year's Wish For You

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Ep #358: The Best of Feminist Wellness: Emotional Liberation, Somatic Wisdom, and Collective Care

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Tenderoni Hotline #12: The Truth About Perimenopause No One Told You With Mariza Snyder

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Ep #357: Returning to Ritual: Reclaiming Ourselves on the Winter Solstice

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Tenderoni Hotline #11: Why Saying No Feels So Hard + Why You Overexplain + How to Protect Your Energy This Holiday Season

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Ep #356: Questions Not to Ask at the Holiday Table

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Tenderoni Hotline #10: Unlearn the Good Girl Script: A Tool for Taking Up Space with Sara Fisk

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Ep #355: Burnout and Chronic Self-Abandonment

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Tenderoni Hotline #9: Why Do I Over-Apologize + Why Does My Body Twitch Out of Nowhere? Explained

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Ep #354: The Third Arrow: When Self-Shame Makes Everything Worse

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Tenderoni Hotline #8: From Self-Abandonment to Self-Love: Ending Emotional Outsourcing with Mary Jelkovsky

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Ep #353: Pre-Holiday Prep for Your Nervous System

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Tenderoni Hotline #7: Why You Keep Wanting Closure from Your Ex + Why You Constantly Ask for Reassurance in Your Relationship

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Ep #352: Why We Celebrate Our Emotional Outsourcing Habits

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Tenderoni Hotline #6: How to Release Suppressed Anger + Stop People-Pleasing at Work

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Ep #351: How to Recognize and Release the Grip of Overfunctioning

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Tenderoni Hotline #5: Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD): What It Is, How to Recognize It, and What Actually Helps

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Ep #350: Your ‘No’ Is Final: Stop the Boundary-Pushers

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Tenderoni Hotline #4: Why People Get Defensive About Your Feelings + What Emotional Outsourcing Really Means

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Ep #349: Healing from Emotionally Immature Partners Part 2

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Tenderoni Hotline #3: Why Boundaries Feel So Hard + Why You Keep Procrastinating

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Ep #348: Emotionally Immature Partners Part 1

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Tenderoni Hotline #2: Why You Freeze When Asked What You Need + How to Say No Without Feeling Guilt

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Ep #347: Healing Unmet Needs and Attachment Patterns

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Tenderoni Hotline #1: Nervous System Regulation Tips + How to Stop Losing Yourself in Others’ Needs

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Ep #346: The Cost of Emotional Outsourcing

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Today Is the Day: End Emotional Outsourcing Is Here!

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Ep #345: Why I Wrote My Book

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The Thing You Do That You Don't Even Know You Do: The Book Series #8

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Sneak Peek: Chapter One of End Emotional Outsourcing (Out Sept 30!)

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Ep #344: The Resentment Equation: A Deep Dive Into Emotional Labor Debt

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You Don't Have to Earn Your Worth Anymore: The Book Series #7

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Ep #343: Pet Names That Trigger

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The 2AM Mental Hamster Wheel: The Book Series #6

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Ep #342: Why I Don’t Use the Term “Codependency"

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Did I Make It All Up or Am I Actually Hurt?: The Book Series #5

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Ep #341: Your Brilliant Nervous System: Countdown to End Emotional Outsourcing

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You're Not Loving Them, You're Managing Them: The Book Series #4

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Ep #340: Recognizing Functional Freeze: Countdown to End Emotional Outsourcing

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You're Not Too Much. You're Not Not Enough.: The Book Series #3

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Ep #339: Stop Hating Who You Used to Be: Countdown to End Emotional Outsourcing

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You Can Stop Performing. Really.: The Book Series #2

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Ep #338: Is Shame Running Your Life?: Countdown to End Emotional Outsourcing

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You Were Never Meant to Live for Everyone Else: The Book Series #1

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It’s My Birthday, but the Presents Are for You 🎁

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Ep #337: Money is Emotional: The Link Between Finances and Well-Being with Aja Evans

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My book, End Emotional Outsourcing, is available for pre-order!

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Ep #336: Why We're Lonely: Unpacking Modern Friendship Dynamics with Anna Goldfarb

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Ep #335: Human Design Made Simple: Decode Your Authentic Self with Emma Dunwoody

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Ep #334: Break Free from Your Gilded Cage with Keren Eldad

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Ep #333: “No One Is Coming to Save You” Is Baloney

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Ep #332: You Don’t Need a Crisis to Grow

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Getting Anchored with Busayo Ayodele

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Ep #331: The Real Reasons You're Not Joining (And Why They're Exactly Why You Should)

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Ep #330: Emotional Outsourcing 101

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Ep #329: Getting Anchored with Carey Cramer

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Ep #328: Knowing What You Want vs. What Others Expect

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Find the Path Back to YOU

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Ep #327: Consent and Requests in Conversation

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Ep #326: Doing the Opposite: How Childhood Pain Shapes the Patterns We Can’t See

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Ep #325: The Antidote to Emotional Outsourcing with Abbie Attwood

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Ep #324: Getting Anchored with Paula Greenwood

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Ep #322: Why You Keep Fighting the Same Fights (And How to Actually Shift Them)

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Ep #321: What Is Embodiment?

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Ep #320: What’s Wrong with “Wellness”

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Ep #319: Getting Anchored with Dr. Ashley Albers, DO

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Ep #318: Reclaiming Emotional Space for Yourself and Others

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Ep #317: How Systems of Oppression and Burnout Shape Emotional Suppression

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Ep #316: Why We Shut Down Others’ Feelings (And How It Starts in Us)

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Ep #315: Allowing vs. Wallowing

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Ep #314: Why It’s Hard to Let Yourself Feel Your Feelings (Part 3)

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Ep #313: Essential Relationship Tools for Stronger Connections with Billey Albina

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Ep #312: Why It’s Hard to Let Yourself Feel Your Feelings (Part 2)

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Ep #311: Why It’s Hard to Let Yourself Feel Your Feelings (Part 1)

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Ep #310: Allow Your Feelings: Tools for Sitting with Big Emotions

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Ep #309: The Art of Quitting: How to Craft a Life You Love with Goli Kalkhoran

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Ep #308: Somatics and Self-Trust

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Ep #307: Reclaiming Our Values for the New Year: The Ultimate Shift Beyond Resolutions

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Ep #306: Healing the Wounds of Calladita Culture with Pam Covarrubias

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Ep #305: Emotional Outsourcing at the Holiday Table: Staying Grounded and Setting Boundaries

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Ep #304: Why Somatic Education Matters

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Ep #303: Does This Relationship Serve Me?

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Ep #302: How Emotional Outsourcing Leads to Financial Self-Sabotage with Paige Pritchard

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Ep #301: Stronger Together - Post-Election Musings

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Ep #300: 10 Keys to a Fully Embodied Life: Lessons from 300 Episodes

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Ep #299: Sneaky Codependent, People-Pleasing, and Perfectionist Thoughts

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Ep #298: The Difference Between Being Considerate and Codependent

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Ep #297: Nervous System Reset

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Ep #296: All About Anchored with Ali Zamora

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Ep #295: Ultimatums vs. Boundaries & Challenging Conversations: Listener Q&A

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Stop Overfunctioning Webinar October 15th, 2024 @ 8pm ET

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Ep #294: Getting Anchored with Hedy

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Ep #293: Bracing Tolerance vs. Intentional Tolerance

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Ep #292: How to Break the Self-Abandonment Cycle

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Ep #291: Break the Self-Abandonment Cycle and Reclaim Your Authentic Self

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Ep #290: Getting Anchored with Mary Angione

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Ep #289: Embracing the Grey Area: Breaking Free from the All-or-Nothing Trap

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Ep #288: Remedies for Shame

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Ep #287: Shame, the Nervous System, and Emotional Outsourcing: Exploring the Interconnections

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Ep #286: How to Optimize Your Genes to Transform Your Health with Dr. Tyler Panzner

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Mega-Super-Awesome Birthday Giveaway!

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Ep #285: How to Overcome the Habit of Catastrophizing

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Ep #284: The Relationship Between Conflict Avoidance and Emotional Outsourcing

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Ep #283: A Protocol for Becoming Securely Attached with Thais Gibson

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Ep #282: Stepping Out of the Rescuer Role

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Ep #281: Interdependence with Billey Albina

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Ep #280: Can Somatic Practices Help If I Don’t Have Trauma?

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Ep #279: The Somatic Studio: Coming Home to Yourself with Kyra Sutherland

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Ep #278: Embodiment (Part 3)

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Ep #277: Embodiment (Part 2)

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Ep #276: Embodiment (Part 1)

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Ep #275: Embracing Safety

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Ep #274: The Cost of Being Defensive

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Ep #273: The Regret Trap: Why You Dwell on the Past and How to Stop

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Ep #272: Misguided Compassion

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Ep #271: Befriending Rest

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Ep #270: Interdependence: The Healthy Power of Needing Each Other

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Ep #269: Support Your Nervous System During Worrying Times

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Ep #268: When Thought Work Becomes Self-Criticism: How to Escape the Spiral

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Ep #267: The False Protective Mechanism of Taking Things Personally

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Ep #266: Real-Life Coaching from Anchored: Overcoming Codependency

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Ep #265: When Emotional Outsourcing Becomes a Habit in Relationship

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Ep #264: Coregulation and the Keys to Relating Well in Love and Life with Maggie Reyes

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Ep #263: The Role of Platonic Love in Our Wellness with My Friends Suneye, Jules, and Juana

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Ep #262: The First Step in Healing: Choosing Self-Love with Lashonda Payne

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Ep #261: The 6 Rules of Fair Fighting with Billey Albina

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Ep #260: Receiving Compliments, Giving Consent, and Being Seen with Danielle Savory

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Ep #258: Needing to Be Needed

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Ep #257: Unearthing the Buried: Understanding and Healing from a ‘Sweep-It-Under-The-Rug’ Upbringing

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Ep #256: Somatics, Sex, and Embodiment with Honeydew Me

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Ep #255: Embracing Your Values: A Journey Beyond Codependency, Perfectionism, and People Pleasing

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Ep #254: Reframing New Year’s Resolutions for More Self-Love, Connection, and Healing in 2024

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Ep #253: Of Course They Did: A Tool for Dropping Judgment and Finding Acceptance

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Ep #252: What to Expect When You Come Out of Functional Freeze

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Ep #251: Thought Work & Somatics: Taking Back Your Brain with Kara Loewentheil

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Ep #250: The Beauty/Power of Ritual with Jaguar Mary X

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Ep #249: Food, Weight & Diet Talk: How to Find Greater Peace and Joy During the Holidays with Dana Monsees

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Ep #248: Functional Freeze (Part 3): The Remedies

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Ep #247: Functional Freeze (Part 2): Real-Life Stories of How It Came to Be This Way

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Ep #246: Functional Freeze (Part 1)

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Ep #245: Why We Regret & How to Stop

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Ep #244: Polyvagal Theory: The Secret to Understanding Yourself

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Ep #243: Overfunctioning

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Ep #242: Feeling Your Feelings Somatically (Part 2)

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Ep #241: Feeling Your Feelings Somatically (Part 1)

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Ep #240: Overexplaining

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Ep #239: Shame Work: The “Armor” of Emotional Outsourcing with Andrea Owen

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Ep #238: How to Be the Cake & Let Everyone Else Be the Icing

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Ep #237: Grief and Grieving: It’s Okay to Not Be Okay with Krista St-Germain, Charlene Lam, and Briana Simmons

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Ep #236: Unraveling the Threads of Unsolicited Advice: Nurturing Authentic Connections

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Ep #235: Were You Raised by Emotionally Immature Parents?

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Ep #234: The Anatomy of Anxiety with Ellen Vora, MD

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Ep #233: Astrocartography with The Spirit Sis, Steffi

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Ep #232: Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion with Trudi Lebrón

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Ep #231: Needs: Strategies for Healthy Self-Expression (Part 2)

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Ep #230: Needs: How to Recognize & Voice Them (Part 1)

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Ep #229: Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby with Danielle Savory and Sonia Wright, MD

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Ep #228: How to Build Unshakeable Confidence in Your Needs with Mara Glatzel

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Ep #227: Getting Anchored: Healing the Self-Abandonment Cycle

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Ep #226: Getting Anchored: The Self-Abandonment Cycle

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Ep #225: Live Coaching in Anchored

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Ep #224: Receiving and the Trap of Independence

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Ep #223: Getting Anchored with Ruth Duren

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Ep #222: When Your Partner is Chronically Dissatisfied

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Ep #221: Finding Satisfaction from Chronic Dissatisfaction

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Ep #220: Chosen Family and Somatic Healing with Sara Bybee Fisk

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Ep #219: Allowing Life's Ebbs and Flows

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Ep #218: Somatics and Interdependence

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Ep #217: You Are Not Your Thoughts

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Ep #216: Getting Anchored with Lisa Candera

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Ep #214: Understanding and Reframing Your Attachment Style with Honeydew Me

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Ep #213: Your Nervous System and Substances

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Ep #212: Meditating with Your Eyes Open

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Ep #211: Belonging and Connection

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Ep #210: Getting Anchored with Charlene Lam

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Ep #209: Overcoming Fawning

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Ep #208: Fawn Response and Healthy Anger

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Ep #207: Healthy Anger (Part 2)

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Ep #206: Healthy Anger (Part 1)

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Ep #205: Holding On To What Doesn’t Serve Us

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Ep #204: Getting Anchored: Margot’s Experience

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Ep #203: Getting Anchored: Inner Child Science

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Ep #202: The Ritual of New Year’s Resolutions

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Ep #201: Your Intuition vs. Trauma

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Ep #200: How to Trust and Reclaim Your Intuition

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Mega-Super-Awesome 200th Episode Podcast Giveaway!

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Ep #199: Trauma: What It Is & How It Shapes Our Lives

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Ep #198: Getting Anchored with Dr. Maylin Gonzalez, OD

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Ep #197: When You Get Unstuck and Others Don’t Like It

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Ep #196: Interdependence

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Ep #195: Nerding Out on Codependency, Nervous System, Somatics, and Feminism with Kara Loewentheil

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Ep #194: Getting Anchored: Codependency, Perfectionism and All-or-Nothing Thinking

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Ep #193: Codependency vs. Interdependence

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Ep #192: Why Overcoming Codependency is VITAL for Coaches

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Ep #191: Getting to Neutral

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Ep #190: We’re All Just Taller Toddlers aka When It’s Not Just Your Thoughts

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Ep #189: For When Your Brain and Body Say No

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Ep #188: Stop Taking Things Personally

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Ep #187: Drama, Drama, Drama

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Ep #186: Getting Anchored: Natalie’s Experience

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Ep #185: Disorganized Attachment

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Ep #184: Avoidant Attachment

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Ep #183: Getting Anchored: Attachment Styles

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Ep #182: Using Magic For Healing, Connection, And Making Heart-Centered Decisions With Sarah Gottesdiener

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Ep #181: How to Shift Your Experience of Resistance (Part 2)

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Ep #180: Understanding the Energy of Resistance (Part 1)

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Ep #179: Getting Anchored with Roxanne Darrow

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Ep #178: Your Future Self

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Ep #177: Getting Anchored with Monica Schrock

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Bonus: Roe v. Wade and What You Can Do NOW

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Ep #176: Loving Your Past Self, Living with Compassion

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Ep #175: Getting Anchored with Coach Molly Goodman

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Ep #174: Polyvagal 101

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Ep #173: Getting Anchored with Ali Zamora, NP

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Ep #172: Showing Up For You And Your Nervous System In Tragedy

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Ep #171: Rescuing vs Supporting

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Ep #170: Do I Stay or Do I Go? (Part 2)

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Ep #169: Do I Stay or Do I Go? (Part 1)

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Ep #168: Regret is Self-Abandonment

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Ep #167: Emotionally Immature Parents

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Ep #166: Be The Cake

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Ep #165: Style, Confidence, and Feminism with Judith Gaton

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Ep #164: Healing the Self-Abandonment Cycle

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Ep #163: The Self-Abandonment Cycle

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Ep #162: Clean Fight Club Rules

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Ep #161: Conflict Doesn’t Have to Be the Worst

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Ep #160: Conflict & Codependent Thinking

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Ep #159: Getting Anchored: False Positivity

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Ep #158: Why Friendship Matters

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Ep #157: Relationship Red Flags are Gifts Not to Be Ignored

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Ep #156: The Intersection of Astrology and Feminism with the AstroTwins

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Ep #155: Why Privacy Matters

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Ep #154: Secrecy

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Ep #153: Inner Child Science

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Ep #152: The Gift of Wintering

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Ep #151: Resolutions, Regret and Commitment to You

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Ep #150: Your Wants & Needs in Relationships

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Ep #149: Building Trust & Letting Your Wants Guide You

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Ep #148: The Emotional World of Wants and Needs

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Ep #147: How to Overcome All-or-Nothing Thinking

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Ep #146: Codependency, Perfectionism and All-or-Nothing Thinking

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Ep #145: Navigating Food, Boundaries, and Your Nervous System During the Holidays with Dana Monsees

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Ep #144: The 5 Love Languages & Thought Work

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Ep #143: Letting Other People Be Wrong About You

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Ep #142: Relationship Green Flags

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Ep #140: Honoring Your No

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Ep #139: Top 5 Codependent Dating Challenges

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Ep #138: Healing the Spirit of Perfectionism with Alea Lovely

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Ep #137: The Inner Critic: 3 Steps to Manage Your Gremlins

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Ep #136: Getting Anchored: Living with Intention

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Ep #135: Attachment and Nervous System Resourcing

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Ep #134: Catastrophizing and Reparenting

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Ep #133: Of Course You Did

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Ep #132: Are You Being Nice or Kind?

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Ep #131: Inside Anchored

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Ep #130: Anxious Relationship Rushing

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Ep #129: Attachment Styles

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Ep #128: Are You Ready for Coaching?

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Ep #127: The Art of Reclaiming Our Empowerment with Mara Glatzel

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Ep #126: Getting Anchored: Letting Go of Resentment

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Ep #125: Client Coaching Q&A

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Ep #124: Getting Anchored: Healing Codependent Habits

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Ep #123: Getting Anchored: Codependent Thinking

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Ep #122: Unlocking Codependency with Kylie McBeath

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Ep #121: Getting Anchored: Negative Self-Talk

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Ep #120: Trauma Therapy and Somatic Practices with Andrea Glik, LCSW

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Ep #119: Hurt Feelings: Why You Don’t Need a Thicker Skin

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Ep #118: Getting Anchored: Boundaries

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UPDATED: Ep #117: Saying Yes from Obligation: How to Say No from Love

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Ep #116: Getting Anchored: Be Your Own Watcher

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Ep #115: Understanding Beyond Mindset with Lauren Cash

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Ep #114: Choosing the Wrong People

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Ep #113: Of Course They Did!

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Ep #112: Listener Q&A Volume 2

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Ep #111: Curiosity

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Ep #110: Codependent Friendships

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Ep #109: Somatics: Living From Your Neck Down

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Ep #108: Wanting a Goal vs. Wanting a Feeling

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Ep #107: Thought Work 101

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Ep #106: Self-Sacrifice

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Ep #105: Buffering vs. Conscious Distraction

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Ep #104: Pressured Perfectionist Procrastination

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Ep #103: Meditation Doesn’t Work for Everyone

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Ep #102: What if It’s Not a Problem?

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Ep #101: Managing Other People’s Emotions

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Ep #100: My Biggest Takeaways

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Ep #99: The Perfect Time for Your Dreams is Now

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Ep #98: The Power of Yet

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Ep #97: Believing in Your Goals, Believing in Yourself

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Ep #96: Why Celebrating Matters

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Ep #95: Getting Real About How You Feel

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Ep #94: Empaths and Other People’s Emotions

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Ep #93: Pleasure

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Ep #92: Radical Self-Responsibility

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Ep #91: Listener Q&A Volume 1

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Ep #90: Overthinking Doesn’t Make You More Prepared

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Ep #89: Why Complaining Never Helps

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Ep #88: False Positivity

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Ep #87: Saying What You Mean & Believing Other People

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Ep #86: Rejection Has Nothing to Do with Your Worth

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Ep #85: Guilt Guilt Guilt!

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Ep #84: Living with Intention

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Ep #83: Constraint of Thought

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Ep #82: Urges: Restricting vs. Allowing

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Ep #81: The Science Behind Feeling Stuck

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Ep #80: Healing Isn’t Linear

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Ep #79: Conflict Avoidance

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Ep #78: Minimum Baseline Thinking

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Ep #77: Self-Care: Have Your Dinner Before Dessert

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Ep #76: Acceptance and Closure

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Ep #75: Mastering the Language of Apologies

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Ep #74: The Dangers of False Pre-Apologies

379

Ep #73: 6 Steps to a Healthy and Meaningful Apology

380

Ep #72: Anatomy of an Apology

381

Ep #71: The Fixer Thought Fantasy

382

Ep #70: When You Stop People Pleasing and People Aren’t Pleased

383

Ep #69: The Power of Thought Work in Becoming an Anti-Racist Ally and Accomplice

384

Ep #68: How to Interrupt the People-Pleasing Cycle

385

Ep #67: Why We People Please

386

Ep #66: Compare and Despair

387

Ep #65: Self-Confidence

388

Ep #64: Letting Go of Resentment

389

Ep #63: How to Make the Right Decision

390

Ep #62: Glimmers

391

COVID-19 Bonus Episode: Feel All Your Feels - Give It All Equal Air Time

392

Ep #61: The Nervous System & Your Health and Wellness

393

Ep #60: Antidotes to Control

394

Ep #59: Understanding Your Desire to Control

395

Ep #58: Uncertainty

396

Ep #57: Perfectionism: Keeping Your Enemy Close

397

COVID-19: Anxiety, Stress & Thought Work for Healing

398

COVID-19: Regulating Your Stress Response

399

Ep #56: Perfectionism

400

1 Year Anniversary Giveaway

401

Ep #55: Intergenerational Codependency

402

Ep #54: 6 Surprising Codependent Habits

403

Ep #53: The Secret Sauce to Healthy Relationships

404

Ep #52: Unconditional Love

405

Ep #51: Self-Compassion, Dead-End Thinking and the Emotional U-Turn

406

Ep #50: Positive Self-Regard

407

Ep #49: Being Okay with Being Wrong

408

Ep #48: Your Why and Polyvagal Theory

409

Ep #47: Goals and New Year's Resolutions

410

Ep #46: My New Year's Vision for You

411

Ep #45: Why Wishing Is Not Enough

412

Ep #44: How to Stop Worrying for Good

413

Ep #43: Worry and Your Nervous System

414

Ep #42: The Next Right Thing

415

Ep #41: Boundaries and the Holidays

416

Ep #40: Failing on Purpose

417

Ep #39: Failure

418

Ep #38: Courageous Action

419

Ep #37: Action

420

Ep #36: Feeling

421

Ep #35: Thinking

422

Ep #34: Self-Care

423

Ep #33: Direct and Indirect Communication

424

Ep #32: How We Communicate with Ourselves

425

Ep #31: Communication

426

Ep #30: Healing Codependent Habits

427

Ep #29: Codependent Thinking

428

Ep #28: Giving Emotional Consent

429

Ep #27: Getting Emotional Consent

430

Ep #26: Reparenting In Action

431

Ep #25: Reparenting Your Inner Child

432

Ep #24: Emotional Adulthood

433

Ep #23: Emotional Childhood

434

Ep #22: Inner Child

435

Ep #21: You're a Human Being Not a Human Doing

436

Ep #20: Expectations and the "How-To" Guide to Other Humans

437

Ep #19: Coping Mechanisms and Obsessive Thoughts

438

Ep #18: Negative Self-Talk

439

Ep #17: Stress Response Cycle

440

Ep #16: You Don’t Have To (You Get To)

441

Ep #15: Choosing Suffering

442

Ep #14: Buffering

443

Ep #13: Future Tripping

444

Ep #12: Sleep

445

Ep #11: Intuitive Eating

446

Ep #10: Hypothyroid Is a Feminist Issue

447

Ep #9: Future Self Planning

448

Ep #8: Analysis Paralysis

449

Ep #7: Fatigue - Adrenal Edition

450

Ep #6: What Other People Think of You Is None of Your Business

451

Ep #5: Boundaries

452

Ep #4: Leaky Gut: How to Restore Your Gut and Improve Your Mental Health

453

Ep #3: How to Conquer Anxiety

454

Ep #2: Be Your Own Watcher

455

Ep #1: Are You Ready for Change? Welcome to Feminist Wellness.